Ungathanda ukuba wedwa (okanye kwiqela elincinane) kunokuba ube kwisihlwele esikhulu? Ngaba uluvo lokunika inkcazo-ntetho enkulu lukwenza ubile kancinci? Kuvakala ngathi ungumntu oqalayo. Ke endaweni yokuya kumhlobo wakho, itheko lomhla wokuzalwa womhlobo wakho (okuthi-yivume-awufuni ukuya kuyo), zisonge esofeni ngenye yezi ncwadi zilishumi ezimangalisayo.
ENXULUMENEYO : Iincwadi ezi-6 zokuZinceda eziNtsha ezingezizo iCorny neziqhwalela
Uqweqwe: Isithsaba; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20Cwaka nguSusan Kayin
I-Introversion inomzuzwana ngoku-kodwa ngaphambili ulonwabo kwaye ukuzikhathalela kwaba yinto eqhelekileyo, uKayin wayephonononga imbali yobuntu kwincwadi yakhe ka-2012. Funda indlela yokuyeka ukuzithelekisa nabantu abathetha ngokuphandle (abathi, phezu komhlaba, babonakale bezithembile ngaphandle) kunye nendlela yokuphumelela kwinkcubeko enokuthi ihlale ikuqondi ngokupheleleyo.
Iqweqwe: Back Bay Books; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20Apho'Uyahamba, Bernadette nguMaria Semple
Kulungile, lixesha lokuntywila kwinoveli enejusi: UBernadette Fox ngumakhi ozimeleyo kunye nomama olahlekileyo ngaphambi kohambo losapho. Njengoko intombi yakhe izama ukumfumana, uqulunqa umfanekiso ohlekisayo nochukumisayo womfazi ongaqondwayo nogculelwa ngokungafanelekanga. (Ngokusisiseko, sisikhumbuzo kubantu abangeniswayo ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokungangeni kwimbono yoluntu yoko kufanelekileyo, ubuntu-bubulumko.)
Iqweqwe: Farrar, Straus kunye neGiroux; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20Ukucinga, ngokukhawuleza kunye nokucotha nguDaniel Kahneman
Ngaba ukulungele ukufumana ezenzululwazi? Lo gqirha wengqondo waziwayo kunye nophumelele iBhaso leNobel unceda ekucazululeni iyantlukwano yebhayoloji phakathi kwendlela abacinga ngayo abantu abaqalayo kunye nabaxheshiyo. Ngamafutshane, mhlawumbi ungumntu ocinga ngakumbi kwaye onengqondo kunomhlobo wakho ogqithisiweyo, okhawulezayo kwaye onengqondo. Kodwa iindaba ezimnandi: kukho izibonelelo ezinkulu kuzo zombini.
Ikhava: Gibbs Smith; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20Walden: Ubomi emahlathini nguHenry David Thoreau
Ukuba ukuhlala wedwa ngokupheleleyo kuvakala njengephupha, ngokuqinisekileyo ungumqalisi (kwaye le ncwadi yeyakho). UThoreau wakha indlwana ehlathini waza wafudukela apho iminyaka emibini, emva koko wabonakalisa ubomi bakhe obulula kude nengxolo eqhubekayo yoluntu. Isenza sifune ukuya ehlathini…okanye sikhuphe iiplagi kanye ngexesha elithile.
Uqweqwe: I-Skyhorse Publishing; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20I-Introvert engenakuphikiswa nguMichaela Chung
Nantsi imfihlo malunga nama-introverts: Bazithembile ngakumbi kunokuba abaxumi becinga ukuba banjalo. Kolu fundiso luxhobisayo, uChung uyayichitha intsomi yokuba ngabaqhankqalazi kuphela abanokuba luncedo, kwaye unikezela ngeengcebiso zabaqalayo abazama ukuphumelela kwihlabathi elithanda abantu abadumileyo-kodwa ungakhathazeki, awuzukuba kude kakhulu ngaphandle kwentuthuzelo yakho. indawo.
Ikhava: Knopf; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20Wild nguCheryl Strayed
Awudingi ukuba ubetheke phantsi kweemvakalelo njengoko u-Strayd wenzayo kwimemori yakhe yowama-2012-uyakunxulumana nohambo lwakhe lokunyuka i-Pacific Crest Trail. Ukhangela ukuba yedwa kunye nokuzola ngeenzame zokuhlanganisa, ukuhlaziya kwaye avele umntu ongcono, onemveliso ngakumbi. Thatha umqaphela.
Ikhava: IVintage; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20Ungaze undiyeke ndihambe nguKazuo Ishiguro
Kakhulu zonke iincwadi zika-Ishiguro zifanelekile kwii-introverts, kodwa siyinxalenye yenoveli yakhe ye-2005 malunga nabahlobo ababini, uRuth noKathy, abakhulela eNgilani. Yintoni eyenza oku kufuneka kufundwe kukhetho luka-Ishiguro lokubeka uKathy, u-Introverted of the two, kwindawo yamandla njengombalisi. Kubuhlobo, buyintsomi okanye akunjalo, isiqingatha esigciniweyo sihlala sithotyelwa kwisimo somhlobo osenyongweni, ngoko kuyahlaziya ukubona i-gal ezolileyo imfumana.
Iqweqwe: Sterling; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20I-Sherlock Holmes epheleleyo nguMhlekazi uArthur Conan Doyle
Kuzo zonke iimpawu zakhe ezikhutshiweyo, uHolmes sisingeniso ngapha nangapha. Khawucinge ngoku: Udinga iintsuku zokuthoba kunye nokutshaja kwakhona emva kwetyala, kwaye uqhelisela ivayolin iiyure yedwa. Intshayelelo yeClassic. Wena kunye nomcuphi ngokuqinisekileyo niyimimoya ezalanayo.
Iqweqwe: Iincwadi zaseRiverhead; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20Ubomi obufutshane obumangalisayo buka-Oscar Wao nguJunot Diaz
U-Oscar de Leon (obizwa ngokuba ngu-Oscar Wao) ngumntwana onedyudyu, ochubby waseDominican ovela eNew Jersey othe phithi yintsomi yesayensi kunye neenoveli ezingeyonyani kwaye oyena loyiko lukhulu lokuba angabhubha enyulu. Kukho kwakhona ingxaki fuku , isiqalekiso esiye sathwaxa intsapho kaOscar kangangezizukulwana. Ibali liyahlekisa, libuhlungu kwaye liyabalisa-uya kuba neengcambu uOscar kwiphepha lokuqala.
Uqweqwe: Omncinci, uBrown kunye neNkampani; Imvelaphi: Amashumi amabini anama-20Imibongo eGqibeleleyo kaEmily Dickinson nguEmily Dickinson
UDickinson owaziwayo ngokuziphindezela uchithe ixesha elininzi lobomi bakhe obudala yedwa kwikhaya losapho lwakhe. (Kodwa wenza, njengabatshayeli abaninzi, walondoloza ubuhlobo obuninzi ngokubhala iileta.) Imibongo yakhe emihle ixubusha iimvakalelo zakhe ngabantu ngokubanzi, kwaneengcamango zakhe zokujongana nehlabathi langaphandle.
ENXULUMENEYO : Iincwadi ezingama-40 Wonke umntu wasetyhini kufuneka afunde ngaphambi kokuba abe neminyaka engama-40
