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Abantu badla ngokuthi kunzima ukukholisa umfazi. Ewe, ayinzima loo nto ukuba uluthando lwakho lwenenekazi. Ungasoloko umonwabisa umfazi wakho ngokumenzela izinto ezimbalwa ezimnandi. Ngapha koko, njengendoda othandana nayo, awusoze ufune ukuyicaphukisa intombi yakho okanye uyifumane isebumnyameni.
Ukuba sele ukrwele intloko yakho kwaye uyazibuza ukuba zeziphi iindlela onokumonwabisa ngazo, emva koko ufike kwindawo elungileyo. Kungenxa yokuba namhlanje sidwelise ezinye zeendlela ezintle onokuthi ukonwabise ngazo intombazana yakho kwaye uyonwabise.
1. Mmamele xa ethetha
Kulukrwada ukungamhoyi umntu othetha nawe, ngakumbi ukuba loo mntu uluthando lwakho lwenenekazi. Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo nezona zilula ukonwabisa intombi yakho kukumamela into ayithethayo. Ngamanye amaxesha, usenokungabi namdla wokumamela izinto azithethayo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kungcono ukuba umazise ukuba awukho kwimeko yokuthetha ngalo mzuzu. Kodwa ukusebenzisa ifowuni yakho okanye ukwenza enye into, xa ethetha ngento ebalulekileyo okanye esabelana ngeengcinga zakhe kubonisa ukuba awukhathali ngaye.
2. Nyaniseka Umthembe
Ukunyaniseka kubaluleke kakhulu kulo naluphi na ulwalamano. Ukwenza ubudlelwane benu buhlale ixesha elide kwaye buhlale bomelele, kubalulekile ukuba nihlale ninyanisekile omnye komnye. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba intombi yakho yonwabe. Abasetyhini bahlala befuna ukuba amaqabane abo athembeke kwaye abeke ithemba labo kuwo (funda: abasetyhini). Abasetyhini bayathiya xa amadoda abo enganyanisekanga okanye bekrokrela ixesha elininzi. Ke, ukuba ungumntu osoloko ezinzwaneni zakhe zokuhlola umfazi wakho okanye ongakhathaliyo ukunyaniseka kuye, ke kungcono ukuba utshintshe lo mkhwa.
3. Nxibelelana nothando lwakho ngaye
Le yenye indlela elula yokwenza umfazi wakho onwabe kwaye athandwe. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwazisa uthando lwakho kwintombazana yakho. Ungasoloko umxelela ukuba umthanda kangakanani kwaye unethamsanqa lokuziva unaye ebomini bakho. Ungazama ukuthetha izinto ezimnandi kuye ngelixa umjongile. Ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya kumonwabisa kwaye nothando lwakho kuwe luya kukhula lube nzulu.
4. Menzele ixesha elithile
Akukho nto ingangcono kunokuthatha ixesha lothando lwakho lwenenekazi. Nokuba uhlala ucwangcisile, zama ukuchitha ixesha kunye naye. Oku akuyi kuzisa uncumo ebusweni bakhe kuphela kodwa kuya kumenza azive ebalulekile. Uya kuqaphela ukuba wenza oku ukumenza azive onwabile kwaye ke, uya kukuxabisa ngakumbi.
5. Ukumothusa ngeZikhumbuzo
Ukuba uceba ukuya kuhambo lweshishini okanye uhambo lwendlela kunye nabahlobo bakho, ke qiniseka ukuzisa izikhumbuzo zothando lwakho lwenenekazi. Inokuba yiyo nantoni na enje ngeetshokholethi, izincedisi, ibhegi yesandla, njl. Le yindlela entle yokubonisa ukuba uyamthanda kwaye wayesengqondweni yakho naxa ungekho. Ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya kumenza azive wonwabile.
6. Thumela ezinye iitekisi ezimnandi kuye
Ukuba awukwazi ukuchitha ixesha kunye nomfazi wakho ngenxa yeshedyuli yakho exakekileyo okanye ngenxa yokuba ukwizixeko ezahlukileyo, unokuzama ukuthumela imiyalezo emnandi kuye. Sithembe, ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuyakusebenzela. Umzekelo, ungambhalela iikowuti ezimnandi, okanye indlela oziva ngayo xa umbone okokuqala. Ungabhala nokuba ukhetheke kangakanani okanye ungabelana ngeenkumbulo ezimnandi enithe nabelana ngazo.
7. Bhala amanye amanqaku amnandi
Ukuthumela imiyalezo emnandi ngokuqinisekileyo yindlela entle yokubonisa uthando lwakho kuye kwaye umenze azive onwabile. Kodwa kutheni ungazami ukumbhalela inqaku elincinci. Nangona iileta zothando zinokuvakala ngathi zezakudala, zisenokwenza imimangaliso kubudlelwane bakho. Ungazibhala phantsi iimvakalelo zakho kuye kwaye usilayide kwisipaji sakhe, ibhegi yesandla okanye kwiindawo anokuzifumana kuzo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubhale ileta ende yothando. Endaweni yokuba ubhale 'Ndiyakuthanda' okanye eminye imiyalezo emnandi yokumenza ancume.
8. Mhloniphe
Sonke sifuna intlonipho kumaqabane ethu. Bonisa icala lakho chivalrous ukuba lady uthando lwakho uze ube mnene ngenxa yakhe. Ungamvuyisa ngokuhlonipha iimvakalelo zakhe, iingcinga, izimvo kunye nokukhetha kwakhe. Oku kuyakumenza akholelwe ukuba umkhathalele kwaye uyavuya ukumamkela ngale ndlela ayiyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, intlonipho yinto efunekayo ekwenzeni ubudlelwane buhlale ixesha elide kwaye buhlale bomelele.
9. Nika izincomo zokwenene kuye
Abasetyhini bayakuthanda ukufumana ukunconywa kumaqabane abo, ukuba kuyinyani. Ke kutheni ungamncomi kwaye umonwabise? Asitsho ukuba kufuneka usoloko umncoma ngenkangeleko yakhe. Unokudumisa nendlela yakhe yokuphatha izinto emsebenzini okanye indlela akukhathalele ngayo. Unokubuxabisa ubunkokeli bakhe, unxibelelwano kunye nezinye izakhono. Umzekelo, ukuba upheka kakuhle, umxabise ngokufanayo.
10.Menze azive ebalulekile
Ukuthatha iqabane lakho ngokungakhathali okanye ukungahoyi ngamanye amaxesha, kunokumenza azive engaxabisekanga. Siqinisekile ukuba njengendoda enothando nenenkathalo, ngekhe uyifune le. Ke kuyacetyiswa ukuba uyenze intombi yakho izive ibalulekile. Kule nto, mqwalasele ukuba uthetha okuthile, funa ingcebiso yakhe, uhloniphe ukhetho lwakho kwaye umbandakanye kwizicwangciso zakho. Xa kunjalo, awuvumelani naye, ungamazisa okufanayo.
11. Yothusa Ngayo Ukutya Okumnandi
Nawe ungayiphumelela intliziyo yentombi yakho ngokupheka ukutya akuthandayo. Kungenxa yokuba ayingobantu kuphela abo indlela yabo yentliziyo yabo isisu sabo. Abafazi nabo bayakuthanda ukutya. Ke, ukuba uyazibuza ngeendlela zokumenza onwabe, unokucinga ngokumothusa ngezinye izidlo. Kodwa ukuba awulunganga kangako ekuphekeni, unokuthatha uncedo kwiiresiphi ezikhoyo kwi-intanethi okanye u-odole ukutya akuthandayo.
12. Mxhase Ngamaxesha Anzima
Ngaba yeyiphi enye indlela yokumonwabisa ngaphandle kokumxhasa ngamaxesha obunzima? Ulindele ukuba umbambe kwaye umncede xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle. Ngapha koko, ngale ndlela unokunceda intombi yakho ekwenzeni isigqibo esifanelekileyo kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo zayo. Unokuhlala ecaleni kwakhe kwaye umxhase ngokwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo.
Zininzi ezinye iindlela zokwenza intombazana yakho yonwabe. Kodwa ezi zezinye zeendlela eziza kusebenza nakubani na ofana nawe. Oku akuyi kwenza inenekazi lakho lonwabile kuphela kodwa kuya komeleza neengcambu zobuhlobo bakho.