Izinto ezili-15 omawuzenze kuhambo olude lwemoto (Ngaphandle kokudlala 'Ndiya Spy')

Amagama Aphezulu Ebantwaneni

Uyayazi loo nto ithi, Luhambo olubalulekileyo, hayi indawo ekuyiwa kuyo ? Kucacile ukuba nabani na oze naloo mntu akazange ahlale emotweni kunye nabantwana ababini abaxabanayo. Uhambo lwentsapho luhlala lubhengezwa njengamava adibanisayo, azaliswe ngokucula ixesha elide kunye neencoko ezisuka entliziyweni. Kodwa njengoko nawuphi na umzali owenze ngokwenene uyazi, ukuhlala emotweni ngaphezu kwemizuzu eyi-15 kunye nomntwana wakho luhlobo lwayo lwentuthumbo. Enyanisweni, eyona nto imbi ngaphezu kokubetha indlela kunye nabantu abancinci ijongene nokulibaziseka kwendiza, imithwalo elahlekileyo kunye nokutya kwenqwelomoya. Ke kweli hlobo, ubetha indlela. Ungakhathazeki- sineembono ezili-15 malunga nendlela yokwenza ixesha libaleke. Nazi ezona zinto zilungileyo onokuzenza xa uhamba ngemoto ende nabantwana. (Psst: Baza kusebenza kakuhle kuhambo olukhawulezayo lokuya kwivenkile yokutya.)

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1. Mamela ipodcast

Ewe, into enye ekugcina ukonwabisa kuhambo lwakho lwasekuseni iya kusebenza ukuze uhlale usapho lonke xa ukhwele imoto undwendwela umakhulu. Ukusuka kwizinto ezihlekisayo ukuya kwizinto ezixhokonxa iingcinga, nazi iipodcasts ezilithoba ezoyikekayo zabantwana. Kwaye kubantwana abadadlana, zama enye yezi podcasts zolutsha . Ngaba ufuna into encinci ngakumbi kwiindlebe ezincinci (ngenxa yokuba kusehlotyeni, akuthethi ukuba ukufunda kuphelile)? Zama enye yezi iipodcasts zokufundisa abantwana .

2. Okanye zama iaudiobook

Uye wavuya kakhulu ukuyifunda yonke uharry Potter series kwakhona, kodwa ngeli xesha ukwabelana ngehlabathi Hogwarts nomntwana wakho. Ingxaki kuphela? Ezo ncwadi ixesha elide. Kwaye ngexesha uchwechwela kwimini yakho ebusuku ukuze umfundele ibali ngexesha lokulala, unokulawula kuphela amaphepha ambalwa ngaphambi kokuba aphume. Ewe, uhambo olude lwemoto lelona thuba lifanelekileyo lokukhumbula umlingo. Khuphela uthotho lwe-wizarding kunye nokunye okuninzi ngokukhetha kwethu ezona ncwadi zibalaseleyo zokulalela ezilishumi zosapho lonke.



3. Dlala umdlalo wepleyiti yelayisensi karhulumente

Unokukhumbula lo msebenzi ukususela xa wawusengumntwana kwaye kungenxa yokuba iklasikhi ayiphumi kwisitayile. Ukudlala, yenza uluhlu lwazo zonke iindawo ezingama-50 nokuba kwangaphambili okanye ngelixa usemotweni (ukufumana umngeni owongezelelweyo, jonga ukuba iingcaphephe zakho ezincinci zingabiza onke amazwe ngaphandle kokuwajonga phezulu). Ke njengoko umntwana ngamnye efumana ipleyiti evela kwilizwe elitsha, bayayinqumla kuluhlu lwabo. Owokuqala ukugqiba onke amazwe angama-50 (okanye ufumane elona nani liphezulu lamazwe awele) nguye ophumeleleyo. Ibhonasi eyongezelelweyo? Umntwana wakho uya kuziqhelanisa nejografi kunye nezakhono zokukhumbula.

4. Phumla

Ukuba uhambo lwakho lwendlela lude ngenene kwaye unabantwana abancinci kunye nawe ke kufuneka ulale ebusuku. Kodwa yintoni onokuyenza xa umntwana wakho echasa? Yenza isitulo sangasemva sithokomeze kangangoko ukongeza amathuba okuthi snooze. Cinga: ukunciphisa izibane (mhlawumbi nokutyala imali kwenye yezi iifestile zeefestile ), bedlala iingoma ezimyoli, bexhasa intloko yabo kwaye bezisa into yokudlala abayithandayo.

izinto zokwenza kwimoto ende umntwana ejonge efestileni Iimveliso zeMoMo / Getty Images

5. Dlala iMad Libs

Enye intandokazi eyonwabisa kakhulu ukuyidlala ngoku njengoko kwakunjalo xa wawusengumntwana. Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe endleleni, thengisa ezimbalwa iipakethe zeMad Libs nize nitshintshisane ngokuzalisa izikhewu koko kuqinisekisiweyo kuya kubangela intsini eninzi macala onke. (Psst: Inguqulelo yeJunior ilungile kwiseti engaphantsi kwesi-8.)

6. Bukela imuvi

Naliphi na ityala onalo malunga nexesha lesikrini, lishiye ekhaya. Umboniso okhethwe kakuhle okanye ifilimu unokugcina uhambo olubi kwaye wenze into eyonwabisayo (kuwo wonke umntu obandakanyekayo). Ukusuka kwiikhathuni ezimfutshane ukuya kwii-comedies ezihlekisayo, nazi ezethu iimuvi zosapho ezizithandayo onokuthi urente okanye ukhuphele phambi kohambo lwakho. Heyi, ungade ufumane olo sapho lucula kunye nawe ubuphupha ngalo (ukuya Yekela ihambe , ngokucacileyo).



7. Yiba nesnack

Umntwana olambileyo uyoyikisa naphi na apho ukhoyo-isihlalo sangasemva semoto sibandakanyiwe. Qiniseka ukuba upakisha ukhetho lokutya okunempilo kuhambo lwakho kwaye uzikhuphe xa uva ukuba umntwana wakho uyaphambuka. Sithanda ukubetha ibhetshi yeegranola ze-cherry-almond okanye ukulunywa kwe-mac-and-cheese ngaphambi kokuba uhambe kodwa ungaphinda uthenge iipowutshi ezimbalwa okanye umtya wamasi oza kuhamba nawe. Oku kuya kunceda ekuqinisekiseni ukuba awuphambani kwisikhululo serhasi kwaye ulayishe iitshiphusi kunye neelekese (kuba umntwana ogxunyekwe ngeswekile akaze abe ngumbono olungileyo).

8. Qhagamshelana

Ngokuqinisekileyo, nibonana yonke imihla kodwa kukangaphi ngokwenene nihlala phantsi nivulelane isifuba? Sebenzisa olu hambo lwemoto njengethuba lokunxibelelana kwakhona. Njani? Ngokubuza imibuzo exhokonx’ ingcinga engenakuphendulwa ngoewe okanye uhayi olula. Nazi ezinye iimbono: Yeyiphi eyona nto ilungileyo ekhe yenzeka kuwe? Yeyiphi eyona nto imbi kakhulu ekhe yenzeka kuwe? Ukuba ubunokwenza umgaqo omnye ebekufuneka ulandelwe ngumntu wonke ehlabathini, ubuya kuba yintoni?

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9. Funda ulwimi

Kulungile, akukho mntu ukholelwa ukuba uza kufundisa abantwana bakho isiMandarin kuhambo lwemoto lweeyure ezintathu ukuya phezulu. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho sele eqalisile ukufunda ulwimi esikolweni, kutheni ungathathi eli thuba ukuphonononga oko akufundileyo kwaye mhlawumbi ubafundise (kunye nawe) amagama ambalwa kunye nemigaqo yegrama. Khuphela usetyenziso (siyathanda Amabali kaGus ekuhambeni ngeSpanish okanye Duolingo ngaphezu kweelwimi ezingama-30) kwaye niyifunde kunye. Vamanos.

10. Dlala umdlalo wokuhamba

Nje ukuba inzala yakho ifumane onke amazwe angama-50, udinga omnye umdlalo ukugcina wonke umntu ehleli. Ukusuka kwi-chess yokuhamba kwaye udibanise i-4 ekuhambeni ukuya kwii-brain teasers kunye neepuzzle zememori, ezi Iimidlalo ezingama-21 zokuhamba zabantwana ngokuqinisekileyo iya kunceda ukugcina ukuba sikhona okwangoku? imibuzo ubuncinane.



11. Vumela abantwana bahombise iifestile zabo

Nali ingcamango ukuba abantwana bakho baya kuyithanda: Banike iiseti zokuncamathela zefestile kunye iimpawu ezihlambekayo kwaye bavumele ukuba bahambe ngamantongomane kwifestile yemoto yabo (ngelixa bebotshelelwe ngokukhuselekileyo ezihlalweni zabo, kunjalo). Baya kuba mnandi kakhulu ekwenzeni imisebenzi yabo yobugcisa kwaye ukuba upakisha ilaphu lomqhaphu kwisitulo esingasemva, baya kukwazi ukucima indalo yabo kwaye baqale kwakhona.

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12. Yenza ukuzingela

Le yona ifuna ukucwangciswa okuncinci kwicala lakho kodwa intlawulo-mali inkulu (oko kukuthi, umntwana ongakhalazi ukuba unesithukuthezi kwisihlalo esingasemva). Yenza uludwe lwezinto oza kuzikhangela ngaphambi kokuba ungene emotweni ukuze umntwana wakho aziphawule xa uhamba. Nazi ezinye iimbono zokuqalisa: iinkomo, iicawe, ilori yomlilo, imoto etyheli, uphawu lokumisa, inja…kaloku, uyalufumana olu luvo.

13. Camngca

Ngaba umbono wokufumana umntwana wakho onamandla aphezulu ukuba aphefumle nje kwaye Phola ibonakala ikude? Xa sithetha ngabantwana kunye nengqondo, injongo ayifanele ibe kukufezekisa inguqulelo yomntu omdala yokuphumla ngokupheleleyo okanye ukucamngca, utsho uRegine Galanti, Ph.D., umbhali we Uncedo lwexhala kubaTsha: Izakhono eziBalulekileyo ze-CBT kunye noQeqesho lokuQwalasela ukoyisa ixhala kunye noxinzelelo. . Into endithanda ukucinga ngayo nabantwana abancinci kukubanika enye into yokwenza ngemizimba yabo ephinda igxininise kubo, utsho. Akuyomfuneko ukuba baxolise ngokupheleleyo. Apha, imisebenzi esixhenxe yokuqaphela abantwana, yonke eyilelwe ukubanceda ukuba bazinze.

14. Dlala imibuzo engama-20

Nantsi indlela: Cinga ngomntu, indawo, okanye into. Lifikile ke ixesha lokuba wonke umntu ajike akubuze ewe okanye hayi umbuzo ade abeyiloo nto ucinga ngayo. Kuyonwabisa, kulula kwaye kuyindlela elungileyo kuyo yonke iminyaka.

15. Yiba nengoma kunye

Yiza, uyazi ukuba ufuna.

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