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Kudala-dala, kwakukho le ntombazana inentloni, ekhutheleyo. Owona mnqweno wakhe yayikukuya ekholejini kwaye enze uphando kwizifundo zakhe. Kodwa, usapho lwakhe lwalungekho kakuhle kwaye kwafuneka asindise iminyaka emininzi ngaphambi kokuba iphupha lakhe lizaliseke.
Emva kokuba abhalise kwikholeji, yayingekokufumanisa okumangalisayo kwisayensi eyayimlindile, kodwa luthando.
Uthando lwalomelele kakhulu, ulwandle lwamtshayela lwaya kude kunxweme ngaphambi kokuba aphume ngokwaneleyo, amaphupha akhe ayewangcolisa elunxwemeni.
Kule meko angenza ntoni, ushiye uthando okanye amaphupha akhe?
Oku akunakuba kukhulu kakhulu kodwa imeko ejongene neninzi lethu. Abanye abantu bawalahlile amaphupha abo ngelixa abanye belahla uthando lwabo.
Kodwa, bambalwa abahambe loo ntambo ilinganayo phakathi kwabo bobabini kwaye ekugqibeleni babe nawo amaphupha abo kunye nothando lwabo luqhakaza egadini yomphefumlo wabo.
Ukulinganisa ubudlelwane kunye nezifundo ayisiyonto ehlekisayo. Ifuna ukuzinikela. Zombini zifuna ixesha lakho kunye nokuzinikela ukuze ukhule kwaye uthwale iziqhamo ozifunileyo. Kwaye, inokuphumelela kuphela ukuba uku ubudlelwane nomntu oqondayo uthando lwakho lolwazi kunye nothando kubo.
Nazi ezinye izimvo zokulawula ubudlelwane bakho kunye nezifundo kunye.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba ufumane ingxaki?
Lo ngumbuzo wokuqala ekufuneka uphendule xa ulungelelanisa ubudlelwane kunye nesikolo. Ngowona mbuzo ufuna impendulo eyinyani esiphelweni sakho. Izifundo zixinzelelekile kwaye kunjalo nobudlelwane. Ke, ukuba ayisiyonto imbi, ukhetho olungcono kukubaleka kubudlelwane. Kwaye ukuba yinto enzulu ke kuya kufuneka ulwe ngokufuna kwakho kwaye kufuneka woyise zombini.
Kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima ukuze bobabini babenayo.
Izifundo ezidibeneyo
Elinye icebo lokulawula ubudlelwane kunye nezifundo kukuchitha ixesha kwithala leencwadi kunye neqabane lakho okanye kwenye indawo eninokuzinika yona ixesha enilifunayo kwaye nenze nezifundo zenu. Ewe! Isifundo esidibeneyo kunye neqabane lakho kuthetha ukuba uya kuwenza umsebenzi wakho ngelixa uchitha ixesha elongezelelweyo kunye.
Ulawulo lwexesha
Le yenye into ekufuneka uyifundile ngelixa ulawula ubudlelwane kunye nezifundo.
Beka ixesha lokufunda kunye nexesha lokuthandana. Gcina ishedyuli yakho. Yiza neqabane lakho kolu lungiselelo ngokunjalo. Oku kuya kukunceda ekuzinziseni zombini. Oku ayizokwanelisa kuphela unxano lwakho lokuba nothando lwakho kodwa iya kukunika nexesha lokoyisa amaphupha akho. Ulawulo lwexesha luyimfuneko kule meko njengoko ilixesha elinokuthatha amaxesha kude kuwe kwaye nalowo akunike ixesha elaneleyo lokuba kunye nesithandwa sakho.
Ixesha lokuthembela kunye nolawulo olululo lwexesha kwaye uya kunikwa ixesha ekugqibeleni.
Ixesha leemviwo
Ixesha leemviwo linokuba libi ngakumbi ngelixa ulungelelanisa ubudlelwane kunye nesikolo. Nobabini kufuneka nenze amadini ongezelelweyo ngeli xesha kwaye nijonge phambili esiphelweni seemviwo xa ninokubhiyozela.
Ngeli xesha unganciphisa iiyure zokuchitha ixesha kunye kunye kwaye ugxile ngakumbi kwizifundo zakho. Oku kuya kunikhokelela ekubeni nibe kunye emva koko njengoko nobabini nibe niziphumezile iithagethi zenu kwizifundo kwaye ngoku lixesha lokufezekisa iiyure zokwenza uthando omnye komnye. Ungaloyisa uthando lwakho emva kweemviwo. Kodwa ukwenza ngokuchaseneyo kuya kukhokelela ekubeni wena neqabane lakho ningafezekisi.
Ukuziqeqesha
Kufuneka uziqeqeshe ngokwakho xa uzilinganisela ubudlelwane kunye nesikolo. Ubudlelwane bunokuwawisa amaphupha akho kodwa ukuba uyaqeqeshwa kwaye uyazi indlela yokulawula iimfuno zakho, ulungile. Ukuphupha kusengaphambili kunokuba ziintshaba ezikhohlakeleyo xa ulungiselela iimviwo zakho.
Ukuziqeqesha kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye ngaphandle kwayo, uya kuwaphazamisa amaphupha akho nothando lwakho. Yenza iqabane lakho ukuba niziqeqeshe ngokunjalo.
Izinto ezincinci
Xa ufundile indlela yokulawula ubudlelwane kunye nezifundo, uyaqonda ukuba kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba nichithe ixesha kunye kunokuba beqhele ukuchitha ixesha. Zama imibono emitsha eya kwenza ubudlelwane bakho bufikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo kwaye unike i-vibe yokonwaba.
Ezi ziindlela onokuwahlula ngazo amaphupha akho kwaye ungonwaba kubudlelwane bakho. Unokonwabela zombini ngaxeshanye kuphela xa uhamba umendo ngazo zonke ezi zinto engqondweni yakho. Kunzima kodwa akunakwenzeka kwaphela ukuba ukwenze.
Ukuba uneemviwo zakho kwaye ukhathazekile malunga nolwalamano lwakho kuya kufuneka ulandele la manyathelo kwaye uphumelele ngakumbi.
Ukuba uziva ukuba inqaku likuncedile, nceda ukhankanye iingcinga zakho kwicandelo lamagqabaza apha ngezantsi.
Masinwabe!
