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Nokuba bubudlelwane okanye ubuhlobo, ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ukuba wamkele iinyani ezimbalwa kwaye uqhubeke ukuze ube neqabane elinothando nelinokuthenjwa okanye abahlobo.
Ngabahlobo bethu esiba nabo ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nabangaphandle kwamalungu osapho lwethu. Mhlawumbi akukho mntu kweli lizwe ongafuni kuziva ngathi uyathandwa, kodwa xa ukunye nabantu abangalunganga ngekhe ungaze ube namava.
Ke, sidwelise iinyani ezingathandekiyo ngobuhlobo, onokuthi ungazazi. Skrolela ezantsi ukuze uzifunde.
1. Ubuhlobo obugqibeleleyo abuzange bube khona
Idlulela ngaphaya kwentetho yokuba abantu abafezekileyo abanakuze babekho kwaye ke, akukho buhlobo bungenasiphako okanye bufezekile. Ukubeka ulindelo oluphezulu kubahlobo bakho kungabonakalisa ubuhlobo bakho. Kwakhona, kungcono ukwamkela abahlobo bakho ngendlela abayiyo. Endaweni yokukhwaza iimpazamo kunye nokungafezeki kwabahlobo bakho, unokubanceda ukuba babe ngumntu olunge ngakumbi.
2. Ngamaxesha, Usenokuziva Ushiyiwe
Isithuba sibalulekile, nokuba bubuhlobo okanye ubudlelwane. Ukuba ungumhlobo wokwenene, awuyi kuphazamisa indawo yomntu. Ke, abahlobo bakho banokuba nabanye abahlobo abanokubutha kunye nabo. Into onokuyenza kukwamkela le nyaniso kunokuba uvumele i-ego yakho ukuba ifumane okungcono kuwe. Kananjalo unokuthandana nomntu othile. Kwimeko enjalo, unokuziva ngathi umhlobo wakho ubalulekile kwabanye abantu. Ngenxa yoku, unokuhlakulela umona kodwa emva koko kufuneka uhloniphe indawo yabo endaweni yokuziva ungakhuselekanga.
3. Kunokubakho Ungquzulwano Kubuhlobo Bakho
Njengobudlelwane, ubuhlobo abufani nokuhamba egadini yeerosi. Akukho buhlobo bunjalo obugqibeleleyo kwaye obungafakwanga kwiingxabano. Kukho amaxesha apho ungavumelaniyo omnye nomnye. Unokuziva ucatshukisiwe kwaye uyacaphuka kubahlobo bakho kodwa ke kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuba akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo. Endaweni yokuzama ukutshintsha abahlobo bakho, ungabanceda bakhulise umbono omtsha nolunge ngakumbi ngobomi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kubuhlobo bakho yindlela yokwamkelana.
4. Ayinguye wonke umntu othetha ukuba uya kuhlala ngonaphakade
Uya kudibana nabantu abaninzi ebomini bakho kwaye uphuhlise ubuhlobo kunye nabo. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba bayenzelwe ukuhlala ngonaphakade. Ngamanye amaxesha izinto zinokuhamba ngendlela engalindelekanga okanye awuzukuziva unxibelelana nabahlobo bakho kwakhona. Ngenxa yoko, ubuhlobo bakho bunokuphela. Kwimeko enjalo, ukulilela ubuhlobo bakho obaphukileyo ayibobulumko ukwenza. Kule meko, kufuneka uhloniphe ukhetho lwabanye abantu.
5. Ukuba neQela akuyomfuneko
Amaqonga eendaba ezentlalo asenze sikholelwa ukuba abantu abasingqongileyo banobomi obugqibeleleyo. Akukho mntu uthanda ukwabelana ngokungafezeki kwawo nakubani na, ke ngoko, into esiyibonayo yinguqulelo ehluziweyo yobomi babanye. Usenokuba ubonile abantu bethumela imifanekiso kunye nabahlobo babo phantsi kwegama 'leenjongo zeqela'. Ukubona loo mifanekiso, unokufuna ukuba nabahlobo bakho kwisangqa apho nonke nihambelana ngokulinganayo. Kodwa ke kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ukuba neqela akuyomfuneko. Ungabuphila ubomi bakho bonwabile nokuba unayo umhlobo okanye ezimbini.
Kungcono ukuba neqaqobana labahlobo abathembekileyo kunokuba nomkhosi wabahlobo abangahambelaniyo kunye nabahlobo bobuxoki.
6. Ngekhe nibonane kangangeminyaka
Baninzi abantu abangafaniyo emzimbeni kodwa benxibelelene ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuba ngumhlobo womntu akuthethi ukuba uya kubonana rhoqo. Kunokubakho amaxesha, apho ungangadibani nabahlobo bakho iminyaka ngenxa yezifundo, iingxaki ezinxulumene nosapho okanye indawo yakho yomsebenzi. Oku akuthethi ukuba abakukhathalelanga. Kwimeko apho, kunokuba utyholane ngokungabonisi kwaye wenze umbono wokuba ubuhlobo bakho bubuxoki, usengabugcina ubuhlobo bakho.
7. Asingabo Bonke Abahlobo Abaxhasayo Nabakhathalelayo
Ukuba ucinga ukuba wonke umntu odibana naye esikolweni sakho okanye kwikholeji ungumhlobo onika inkxaso unokuphazama. Ewe ,, kukho izihlobo ezingasoze zikhathalele kukhetho lwakho, makungabikho mntu unokukunceda kumaxesha akho anzima. Aba bahlobo baya kukuphelisa ukuzithemba kwakho ngobume babo obunetyhefu. Kwimeko enjalo, kungcono ukukhathalela ukonwaba kwakho kwaye utyale ixesha lakho kunye neemvakalelo kwiqhina elinentsingiselo.
8. Awunakuba Nodityaniso Olufanayo Ngonaphakade
Awuyi kukwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obufanayo kunye nomhlobo wakho wonke ebomini bakho. Njengokuba ukhula kwaye usiba mdala, unokukhangela abantu abanentsingiselo kunokuba ube ngabahlobo abahlebayo. Okanye awuyi kuziva ngathi uthetha ngento efanayo njengoko wenzayo ebuntwaneni bakho okanye ngeentsuku zakho zekholeji. Ukhetho lwakho lungahluka kwaye awunakufikelela kufutshane njengokuba wawunjalo ngaphambili.
Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ubomi abunakulindeleka kwaye abantu abafuna ukuhlala ebomini bakho, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuyifumana indlela yokuhlala kunye nawe. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube phithi yingcinga yokuba nobuhlobo obugqibeleleyo. Sukubala iminyaka, kungcono ujonge umgangatho wobuhlobo bakho. Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kwakha ezinye iinkumbulo oya kuzixabisa ngonaphakade.