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Kubudlelwane, ukuhambelana omnye nomnye kubalulekile, kodwa ukucacisa kakuhle kangakanani ukungavisisani kwenu kubaluleke ngakumbi. Ulwalamano lufuna ulondolozo. Umntu kufuneka ayondle ngothando nenkathalo ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho micimbi ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Uthando lodwa alwanele ukwenza isibini sime kuvavanyo lwexesha. Umntu kufuneka aqole ngokwaneleyo ukusingatha imeko enzima kulwalamano. Ayisiyonto ithi, uthando kunye nokuvuthwa kuyahambelana.
Ke kuya kufuneka wenze ntoni ukongeza ukukhula kubudlelwane bakho? Ewe, kukho iingcebiso ezingapheliyo kodwa sidwelise iingcebiso ezi-8 ezilungileyo kakhulu. Phuma!
1. Yithi 'Hayi' kukuzingca
Ukuba ufuna ulwalamano lwakho luhlale ixesha elide, kuya kufuneka ulahle ukuzingca ngefestile yakho. Xa usebudlelwaneni, kufuneka ucinge ngokhetho lweqabane lakho. Oku kuyakuqinisekisa inyani yokuba umkhathalele ngokwenene iqabane lakho kwaye uzibophelele kulo. Ngale ndlela, uya kuthintela iingxoxo ezimbi ezinokubangela umlo oqhelekileyo.
2. Thembela kwaye Uhloniphe iqabane lakho
Inani lokuthembela kunye nentlonipho onayo kwiqabane lakho libonisa inqanaba lokukhula onalo kubudlelwane bakho. Ngamaxesha athile, xa kukho ukungavisisani phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho, kunyanzelekile ukuba uthembe iqabane lakho.
Nokuba ucatshukisiwe yindlela oziphethe ngayo okanye awuyamkeli, kuya kufuneka ume neqabane lakho xa niphakathi kwabantu okanye nizimase umsitho. Endaweni yokuba nomsindo, ungavakalisa uluvo lwakho kwaye usombulule ingxaki ngokuqolileyo.
3. Sukulindela ukuba iqabane lakho lifezeke
Akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo kwaye ke, bubuntwana ukulindela njalo kwiqabane lakho. Ukuhlala malunga nokusilela kweqabane lakho kunokwenza ubudlelwane bakho bube mandundu. Ubomi abumnyama namhlophe kwaye kunjalo nobudlelwane. Kuhlala kuneendawo ezingwevu kwaye ke ngoko unokuzisingatha ngokulula iimvakalelo zakhe zokutshintsha umsindo kunye nokutshintsha kwemood. Ngamafutshane, kufuneka usoloko uzamkela iziphene zeqabane lakho kwaye ungamgwebi ngokwesiseko sobuthathaka bakhe. Kodwa, ukuba uyavutha ngumsindo uze uthethe amazwi amabi, ubudlelwane bakho bunokubandezeleka. Kufuneka ukudumise ukungafezeki kwakhe. Ngale ndlela ukukhula kwakho kuya kubonakala.
Funda kwakhona: Iimpawu ezili-11 zaBasetyhini abaJongayo ngelixa bekhetha uMyeni wabo wexesha elizayo. Madoda, Bambani ipeni nephepha!
4. Yiba Nomonde Nonyamezelo
Ubudlelwane buya kuhlala bunamahla ndinyuka kwaye kwimeko apho, ukuba ungabuthathaka, izinto zinokuba mbi. Ngexesha lokulwa ngokunjalo, kufuneka uhlale uzolile. Nokuba uyazi ukuba iqabane lakho alilunganga, endaweni yokukhwaza phezulu kwilizwi lakho, kufuneka ube nomonde. Xa iqabane lakho likwimo entle, ungamcacisela izinto. Ukukhula kuxa uhlala uzolile kwaye unyamezele nokuba kunzima.
5. Beka iimfuno zomlingane wakho phambi kwezakho
Iya kuba yinto encinci ukuba lonke ixesha ugcina iimfuno zakho phambi kweqabane lakho.
Kuya kufuneka uqonde iimfuno zomnye nomnye kwaye ubudlelwane bakho buya kuba buhle ngokuzenzekelayo. Oku akuyi kubonisa kuphela inqanaba lokukhula kwakho, kodwa bonisa ukuba ulukhathalele ukonwaba kweqabane lakho.
6.Qonda imbono yeQabane lakho ngokunjalo
Ngamanye amaxesha, kunokwenzeka ukuba awukwazi ukuqonda imbono yeqabane lakho okanye ngokuchaseneyo. Ke ngoko, uninzi lwamaxesha, abantu abatshatileyo bayazilahla izimvo zamaqabane abo, bekholelwa ukuba omnye umntu uphosisile. Ukukhula kuxa ujonga ukhetho lweqabane lakho, ngaphambi kokwenza isigqibo.
7. Zamkele iimpazamo
Ukwamkela iimpazamo kunye nokucela uxolo yenye indlela yokubonisa ukukhula kwakho nokuba awunatyala. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bubaluleke kakhulu hayi imeko ethile.
Kodwa, kunyanzelekile ukuba wenze iqabane lakho liqonde iimpazamo zabo ngendlela abangaziva bethotyiwe okanye bekhubekisiwe. Ukuba iqabane lakho lenze gwenxa, kuya kufuneka uncede iqabane lakho ekuqondeni iimpazamo zalo kodwa ngendlela ezolileyo. Unokuthi, 'Ndicinga ukuba ukhohliwe ukutshixa umnyango ngelixa uhamba ukuhamba ekuseni. Ndiyazi ukuba awuyi kuyiphinda loo nto. '
Ngaphezu koko, ukuba iqabane lakho licela uxolo ngeempazamo ezenziwe lilo, kufuneka uxole. Ukubamba ingqumbo akunampilo nakoluphi na ulwalamano.
Funda kwakhona: Yiba Nobulumko, Sukoyika! Amadoda angaphendula njani kule mibuzo mithandathu inkohliso ebuzwa ngabafazi
8. Bonisa ukuzibophelela
Ukukhula kuhlala kugxile emsebenzini wakho kwaye ungawushiyi embindini. Kuyafana xa kufikwa kumba wokuzibophelela. Ukuba uthembise into kwiqabane lakho, bambelela kuyo. Oku kuya kuchaza ukuba unyaniseke kangakanani malunga nolwalamano lwakho.
Umntu kufuneka afumane isixa esikhulu sokuqola ukwenza ubudlelwane busebenze kunye nokuhlala ixesha elide kwaye ukukhula akunakuze kuphuhliswe ngosuku.
Nokuba ungavakala kangakanani na, kodwa ukuziqhelanisa ngokuqinisekileyo kuyenza indoda igqibelele.