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Ukuthanda umntu ukuqala ukumbona
Kutshanje umlingisi weLaila, uSunny Leone, kunye nomyeni wakhe uDaniel Weber bamkele ekhaya intwazana eneenyanga ezingama-21 ubudala ethandekayo, esi sibini samthatha eLatur, eMaharashtra. Abazali abanekratshi babize i-munchkin yabo encinci u-Nisha Kaur Weber kwaye bathi bathandana naye ekuqaleni kokubona. Ukungakwazi ukuzibamba yimincili efanayo, uLeone uxelele iphephandaba lesizwe yonke imihla, andazi malunga naye wonke umntu, kodwa kuthi, khange kukhathaliseke nokuba ngumntwana wethu okanye ayingowethu. umntwana. Kuthi, yayimalunga nokuqalisa usapho kwaye ndisenokungabi [nomntwana wemvelo] ngenxa yeeshedyuli zethu nezinye izinto ezininzi kodwa sobabini sacinga, ‘kutheni singavele sithathe abantwana?
Ukubulawa kwabantu abadumileyo, bobabini abavela kwi-Bollywood naseHollywood, nabo baye bahamba ngendlela yokwamkelwa. Dibana nabanye oomama bethu abasakhulayo kunye nabantwana babo.
I-Sen engathintekiyo
Kwiminyaka eyi-18, u-Sushmita Sen wenza imbali xa waphumelela ukhuphiswano lukaMiss Universe ngo-1994-indoda yokuqala yaseIndiya ukuphumelela iwonga elidumileyo-kodwa yayisisigqibo sakhe sokwamkela iintombi zakhe ezimbini, uRenee, xa uSen wayeneminyaka engama-24, kunye no-Alisah, xa wayeneminyaka engama-35, oko kwamenza wathandwa luhlanga. Umdlali we-actor-turned-entrepreneur uye wahlala ekholelwa ukuba ubomi bokuphila ngokupheleleyo kwaye akaze anikezele nokuba yintoni na. Ethetha newebhusayithi yeendaba malunga namava akhe, uthe, Ukuba ngumama ongatshatanga akukho lula. Ndandineminyaka engama-24 ubudala kwaye ndandizama ukususela xa ndandineminyaka engama-22 ukuba ndibe ngumama ngokukhuliswa komntwana. Kwaye abazange bakuvumele oko. Kwasithatha ixesha. Kodwa umntwana wesibini (uAlisa) eneneni yayingumlo wenkundla omkhulu kunowokuqala. Kuba eIndiya, imithetho ithi awukwazi ukuthatha intombi emva kwentombi ... Kwaye ndandifuna ukuthatha intombi, ngoko iminyaka eyi-10 ndalwa waza u-Alisah wam weza. Ibilindiwe ixesha elide.
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Abahlobo kuqala, umama okwesibini
Kwakungowe-1995 awathi uRaveena Tandon Thadani wagqiba kwelokuba athabathe amantombazana amabini, uChhaya, oneminyaka esi-8, noPooja, oneminyaka eli-10—bobabini babengabantwana besalamane esasineengxaki zemali. Wayeneminyaka engama-21 kuphela ubudala xa wazithabathela kuye imbopheleleko yokukhulisa la mantombazana mabini. Ndandisazi ukuba ndingakwazi ukukhulisa kwaye ndinike ubomi obuhle kubantwana ababini kwaye ndaqhubeka nayo. Ndinebhongo ngabo namhlanje, uxelele iphephandaba lesizwe yonke imihla. Iintombi zam ngabahlobo bam abakhulu. Ndikhumbula nditshate ngabo bebehleli emotweni bandikhapha bandisa emandap. Yimvakalelo ekhethekileyo ngolo hlobo, utsho. Ukwanayo nentombi, uRasha, kunye nonyana, uRanbirvardhan, kunye nomyeni uAnil Thadani.
Yintoni kwimfuza?
U-Angelina Jolie, umlingisi omangalisayo waseHollywood kunyeunceda abantu,ungumama kubantwana abathathu abamkelwe kunye nabathathu bemvelo. Ukholelwa ukuba ukuba ngumama kumfundise ukuba 'ukukhulisa' kunamandla kangakanani na njengendalo, kwaye ufuzo alumisele unxibelelwano lomntu. Ungacinga ukuba uya kufana ngakumbi nabantwana ononxibelelwano lwemfuzo, kodwa andinjalo. Ndifana kakhulu noMaddox (umntwana wakhe wokuqala, owamkelwa eCambodia). Ke, ayinayo impembelelo yokuba abanye baqhagamshelwe ngokwemfuza, uxelele i-portal yeendaba. Ubona abantwana bakhe njengeyona mpumelelo yakhe inkulu.
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