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Ukuthandana nomntu ongekho kuwe, kunokuba yinto ephazamisayo kwaye edidayo. Kodwa kutheni umfazi eza kuthandana nendoda engenamdla kuye? Ewe, kunokubakho amaxesha apho (funda: umfazi) unokubona umfana oqale abonakale ukuba unomdla kuwe kwaye abonakale ngathi akanamdla. Unokuzama ukufumanisa ukuba uyakuthanda okanye akathandi kwaye ugcina iimvakalelo zothando kuwe.
Unokufuna ukuba akwenze uzive uthandwa kwaye ukhethekile kodwa ke awuqinisekanga ukuba uyafuna ukuba nawe. Ngamaxesha athile unokukuthumelela isicatshulwa esimnandi ngokwaneleyo ukuze ubenentloni kodwa emva koko ngomzuzu olandelayo, akunike ukuthula nonyango olubandayo. Oku kunokukubhida kwaye kubonakale kuyacaphukisa ukufumanisa ukuba ingaba unomdla kuwe okanye akunjalo. Ukukunceda ngale nto, silapha kunye neengcebiso eziluncedo kuwe. Skrolela ezantsi ukuze ufunde ngakumbi.
1. Akaze Akufowunele okanye akubhalele wena kuqala
Yikholwe okanye hayi, ukuba umntu ukuwe, uya kuzama konke okusemandleni akhe ukunxibelelana nawe ngalo lonke ixesha. Uya kukuthumela imiyalezo aze akufowunele kwaye uya kufumana iindlela zokunxibelelana nawe rhoqo. Kodwa ukuba akaze akutsalele umnxeba okanye akubhalele, nokuba akaxakekanga kwaye unexesha elithile, ke oku kunokuba luphawu lokuba akakuthandi. Isenokungaphinde ikubize emva kokuba iphoswe kukufumana iifowuni okanye ingaphenduli kwimiyalezo yakho.
2. Udla ngokurhoxisa izicwangciso
Oku kunokuba sesinye isibonakaliso sokuba akakuthandi kwaphela. Uya kuhlala esirhoxisa isicwangciso. Okwangoku xa usenza nasiphi na isicwangciso kwaye umcele ukuba abonakale, unokukunika ikhulu lezizathu zokuba kutheni engenakuza. Kukho amaxesha apho anokuxakeka ngokwenyani okanye enze omnye umsebenzi obalulekileyo ekufuneka ewenzile. Kodwa ukuba uhlala esirhoxisa isicwangciso kwaye angaze azame ukusicwangcisa kwakhona, unokuthatha njengophawu lokuba akakho kuwe.
3. Uhlala esenza izizathu ezingacacanga
Okwangoku xa umjongana naye ukuba kutheni engakubizanga okanye akubhalele umyalezo okanye yintoni unobangela wokurhoxisa izicwangciso, kaninzi, unokwenza izizathu ezingacacanga. Unokukuxelela ukuba ikati yakhe inefiva okanye ngempazamo waphule ivazi. Nokuba nihleli kunye kwaye nisela ikofu, uya kumfumana esenza isingxengxezo sokuphelisa intlanganiso ngokukhawuleza.
4. Akaze Alinge Ukuchitha Ixesha Nawe
Njengokuba besesitshilo ngasentla, uya kuzirhoxisa izicwangciso okanye uza kwenza izizathu zokuphepha ukuxhoma kunye nawe. Ekuqaleni, unokucinga ukuba uxakeke ngokwenyani kwaye ngenxa yoko, akakwazanga ukufikelela. Kodwa uza kuthini ukuba akaze azame ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe? Zibuze, ngaba wenza naliphi na icebo lokudibana nawe okanye axhome kunye nawe? Ngaba uziva onwabile ukudibana nawe emva kweveki okanye njalo?
5. Uhlala ekhankanya abanye abantu basetyhini
Ungamfumana ekhankanya abanye abafazi, naxa ekunye nawe. Ayisiyiyo le kuphela, kodwa unokufuna neengcebiso kuwe ngokuthandana nabanye abantu basetyhini. Okanye unokukubuza ukuba amantombazana akho ayamthanda okanye awamthandi. Usenokukubuza malunga nendlela onokubonisa ngayo omnye wabahlobo bakho okanye ungamazisa kuye. Usenokukhankanya ukuba uthanda omnye wabahlobo bakho kwaye ufuna ukumsa kwikofu okanye kwisidlo sangokuhlwa.
6. Akaze abe nomona ngabahlobo bakho abangamadoda
Ukuba umntu unomdla kuwe, uya kuhlala ebamonela abanye abahlobo bakho. Isenokungabathandi abanye babahlobo bakho abangamadoda. Kodwa ukuba akanamona kwaphela, nokuba ukhankanya omnye umntu, kukho into engalunganga ngokuqinisekileyo. Usenokungahoyi xa usithi uya kwi-movie nomnye wabahlobo bakho okanye ukuba umenyelwe isidlo sangokuhlwa ngumhlobo wakho. Unokubonakala elungile kwaye engathandi ukubuza malunga nalo mfo.
7. Akafuni Ukuthetha Ngobomi Bakhe Nekamva
Xa umntu enomdla kuwe, uya kuhlala exoxa nawe ngobomi bakhe kunye nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo kunye nawe. Uyakwazisa ukuba buhamba njani ubomi bakhe kwaye yeyiphi imiceli mngeni kunye neengxaki ahlangabezana nazo. Uya kukwazisa ukuba zithini iinjongo kunye namaphupha akhe. Ngoba? Kungenxa yokuba ekubona ubalulekile ebomini bakhe kwaye ufuna ukuba wazi ngakumbi nangakumbi malunga naye. Kodwa ukuba umntu wakho akafuni kwabelana nantoni na enxulumene nobomi bakhe kunye nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo, ke oku kunokuba luphawu lokuba akakho kuwe. Nokuba uzama ukuthetha ngobomi bakhe, uya kutshintsha isihloko okanye abonise umdla omncinci.
8. Akaze Akukhathalele
Ngaba umfumanisa engayikhathalelanga le nto uyithethayo? Nokuba unxibe kakuhle kangakanani kwaye wenze i-makeup, akukho nto ayiqapheleyo kuwe. Oku kunokuba ngumqondiso ocacileyo wokuba akakho kuwe. Ayisiyiyo le kuphela, kodwa usenokubonakala ephazamiseka, naxa nikunye. Ungamfumana ehamba ngefowuni yakhe okanye exakekile kwenye indawo. Akayi kukujonga kubalulekile ukunaka into oyithethayo okanye ukuba umenzele okuthile. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kuya kufuneka uyeke ukumleqa.
9. Akazibonakalisi Xa Umdinga
Kukho amaxesha apho unokumdinga njengokuba ukwimeko emaxongo kwaye ufune uncedo lwakhe. Ngeli xesha, angakubonisa umqolo wakhe kwaye azenze ngathi uxakekile komnye umsebenzi. Uya kukhetha nje ukuhamba okanye akujike. Nokuba izinto zibuyela umva, usenokungaziva enesidingo sokubuza ukuba uqhuba njani na kwaye ufuna olunye uncedo. Akasokuze axolise ngokungafumaneki xa ufuna uncedo nobukho bakhe.
10. Uhlala edlala nabanye abantu basetyhini
Ngaba wakuchukumisa ngobuchule bakhe bokudlala ngothando kunye nokuthanda umntu? Ewe kuya kufuneka unike ingqalelo indlela aziphethe ngayo. Jonga ukuba uyadlala nabanye abantu basetyhini. Amathuba kukuba angashiyi naliphi na ithuba lokudlala ngothando naliphi na ibhinqa. Unokudlala ngothando nabo ebusweni bakho kwaye unokukubiza ngokuba kukudlala nje. Kodwa khawukhathalele, usenokuba nezinye izicwangciso. Isenokungabi kuwe kwaye ke, iyadlala ngothando nabanye abantu basetyhini.
11. Utya iimvuthuluka phezu kwakho
Abo bangaziyo, i-breadcrumbing yimeko apho umntu aziphatha ngendlela engaqhelekanga. Uya kubonisa umdla kuwe kwaye emva koko uya kuziva ngathi ushiyiwe. Umntu uya kuthetha nawe kuphela xa eziva ethanda kwaye emva koko angakuhoyi de kubekho umnqweno wokuphinda uthethe. Ukuba abafana bakho benza okufanayo kuwe kwaye bahlala banika imiqondiso exubekileyo njengokuthumela isicatshulwa esimnandi kwaye bakunike igxalaba elibandayo, kuya kufuneka ulumke. Isenokungabi namdla kuwe kwaye idlala ngeemvakalelo zakho.
Ukukhulisa iimvakalelo zothando komnye umntu kusenokungabikho ezandleni zakho kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ungazihlangula kwintlungu ebuhlungu. Musa ukumleqa ukuba ubonakalisa le miqondiso ingasentla. Endaweni yoko, unokutyala ixesha kunye neemvakalelo zakho kumntu onomdla wokwenene ngawe kunye neemvakalelo zakho.
