Nangona ixesha ledijithali lenze ubomi bube lula kuthi, ukwenza ihlabathi libe yindawo edibeneyo yokuhlala; icala le-flip kukuba abantu ngoku banxibelelene kancinci kwinqanaba leemvakalelo. Ke, sihlala sithumela imiyalezo endaweni yokuthetha, umnxeba wevidiyo endaweni yokuhlangana ubuso ngobuso kwaye sithumele ii-emoticon endaweni yokuchaza iimvakalelo zethu kubantu abasondeleyo nababathandayo.
Lufuna ntoni naluphi na ulwalamano?
Unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo, intetho, ukwabelana, ukuthembana, uthando, intlonipho, ubunye, ulonwabo, ukuqonda, ukunika indawo, ukugcina ubumfihlo, ukwamkelwa, isimo sengqondo esingagwebiyo, kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi, utshilo uPrasanna Rabade, ugqirha wengqondo kunye nomcebisi weDisha Psychological Counseling. Iziko. Uqhubeka echaza, ukuba ezi nqobo zizalisekiswa yiyiphi na indlela, ngoko akukho ngxaki kubudlelwane. Ke akunamsebenzi ukuba uqhagamshelwe ngokwedijithali okanye ngeendlela zemveli. Umcebisi kunye ne-psychotherapist u-Parul Khona, kwelinye icala, ukholelwa ukuba i-digitization yenze ubudlelwane kube nzima kakhulu ukuphatha. Iifowuni, i-Instagram, i-Facebook kunye neminye imithombo yeendaba zentlalo yenze ubudlelwane bunoxinzelelo ngakumbi kunokuba bekuya kubenza babe nomhla okanye ezimbini ngeveki okanye ngaphambili.
Ngaba ukwenza idijithali kwenza amaqabane axhalabe ngakumbi?
‘‘Umyalezo oqhubekayo kumakhasi onxibelelwano uyamangalisa kakhulu, uziva njalo uKhona. Abantu baqhubeka bejonga ukuba esinye isiqingatha sabo sikwi-intanethi, ixesha elingakanani emva kokuba iqabane likwi-intanethi okanye lifunde umyalezo kodwa lingaphenduli? 'Esi sidingo siqhubekayo sokwazi ukuba iqabane lenza ntoni linokubeka isipanela kubudlelwane,'' uziva.Kodwa kwelinye icala, uRabade ukholelwa ukuba itekhnoloji ilungile kuba ixhasa unxibelelwano olukhawulezayo nolulula, intetho, kwaye ivumela unxibelelwano olungakumbi, ikuvumela ukuba ugxile kwiinkumbulo, kwaye uqhagamshelane nabanye ngakumbi kunangaphambili. I-Digitization iluncedo kwabo bakubudlelwane obude. Noko ke, sele kudlule ixesha apho abantu babenxibelelana ngokubhalelana iileta. Nangona izibini ezizinikeleyo zingenambulelo kwinkqubela phambili yetekhnoloji ngokwaneleyo ukubasondeza ngaphandle komgama, itekhnoloji ngokuqinisekileyo iwuhluthile umtsalane kunye nobudlelwane obunokuthi ileta ebhalwe ngesandla inxibelelane ngempumelelo.
Ziziphi iingenelo kunye neengozi zobudlelwane kwixesha ledijithali?
I-Khona icacisa ukuba izibini ezitshatileyo ziyakwazi ukunxulumana ngcono ngokubonga kwidijithali. I-Facebook isenza sazi oko umntu akucingayo, okanye ukwenza, okanye ukumamela, kwaye oko ngokucacileyo kudala 'uqhagamshelwano'. Ngapha koko, kukho ubudlelwane obuqala kwi-Intanethi, kwaye kungekudala uye ngaphandle kweintanethi ukuze babe ngabahlobo kwihlabathi lokwenyani! Njengale blogger yokutya iMegha Chhatbar's. Wadibana nomyeni wakhe, uBhavesh, kwinethiwekhi yoluntu eyayidumile ngelo xesha i-Orkut, ishumi leminyaka emva, kwaye wonwabile emtshatweni ukusukela oko. Baqala badibana okokuqala ngexesha lengxoxo malunga nezinto ezifanayo e-Orkut. Emva kokuxoxa kwiforamu, ndaqonda ukuba izinto sijonga ngendlela efanayo, ngoko ndamthumelela isicelo somhlobo. Impendulo yakhe yathi, ‘Ndikubona njengomfazi wam endiza kutshata naye ngoko thumela idilesi ye-imeyile yakho size sithethe ngeposi.’ Ndothuka! Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa ze-imeyile, saqala ukuthetha ngefowuni. Kwisithuba nje seveki, sasidibene ngokobuqu. Sasithandana kangangokuba weza eJaipur ukuze athethe nentsapho yam ngomtshato. Emva kokuba bavumile, kwiintsuku ze-10, intsapho yam yatyelela indawo yakhe ePune kwaye senza i-roka (uthethathethwano). Imihla yagqitywa kwaye satshata kwiinyanga ezine!Ke, ubudlelwane kwidijithali yobudala bufana nobudlelwane ngaphambili, kodwa izibini kufuneka zigcine izinto ezimbalwa engqondweni. Ngokomzekelo, ubuhlobo obusondeleyo bunokwabelwana kuphela xa abantu ababini bejonge omnye komnye kwaye kungekhona kwizixhobo zabo, uKhona ukholelwa. URabade uthi unxibelelwano lungundoqo. Mamelani omnye nomnye kwaye nichaze iimvakalelo zenu ngaphandle kokuthandabuza.
Ukufumana uthando kwihlabathi virtual
Ngokuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwetekhnoloji kumashumi ambalwa eminyaka adlulileyo, ayimangalisi into yokuba yonke imeko yokuthandana itshintshile. Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi ekugqibeleni kufumene indawo yayo eIndiya. Ke, qhubela phambili kwaye ufumane leyo ungcangcazela nayo, enkosi kuzo zonke eziapps onazo.I-Tinder: Sele iyinkqubo eyaziwayo yokuthandana kwihlabathi jikelele, iTinder isandula kungena eIndiya. I-algorithm yayo ngokungathandabuzekiyo isiphakamiso sayo sokuthengisa esikhethekileyo kwaye inamandla okukuxhuma nomntu onengqondo efanayo ngaphantsi komzuzu. I-Tinder ineempawu ezintle ezinje ngabahlobo bobabini kunye nokhetho olufana noluphezulu. Ngapha koko, unokukhetha ukuvumela iprofayile yakho ifunyanwe ngabanye abantu kwaye uqhagamshelane nabo sele ubathandile. Ngaphandle koko, i-app ikunika lula ukulawula iziphumo zakho zokukhangela ngokusekelwe kwizinto ezifana neminyaka okanye umgama.
Emtshatweni: Imizabalazo yesizukulwana esiselula esihamba ngendlela yemveli yokufumana iqabane lobomi yavusa ingcamango yokusungula uMtshato. Sisicelo sokwenza umdlalo womtshato esijolise kwiingcali ezijolise kwikhondo lomsebenzi ezingathanda ukuya ngaphaya kwendlela eqhelekileyo yomtshato njengoko zidweliswe kwiiwebhusayithi zomtshato. Umtshato usebenzisa amanqaku amaninzi okuqinisekisa ngobuchule njengokubhaliswa kukaFacebook kunye nokuqinisekiswa ngeeselfies, ukuqinisekisa iiprofayili zokwenyani. Iye yazisa ingqikelelo Marrily Socials apho iziganeko ezifana bhanyabhanya, iwayini ukungcamla, umdlalo ebusuku, etc. zilungelelaniswe singles ezikhethiweyo apho bafumana ithuba lokusebenzisana kwaye bafumanise ukuba bayathandana.
Uchulumanco: Luhlelo lokusebenza lwaseIndiya lokuthandana, elenziwe ligcina engqondweni abantu abasenokungabi yi-tech-savvy. I-app ine-interface yomsebenzisi enembile eyenza izinto zibe lula kumsebenzisi, kwaye iqinisekisa ukuba abafazi bathatha isigqibo. Ukuba amadoda afuna ukujoyina uluntu, kufuneka avotelwe liqela labasetyhini. Ukuzaliswa okupheleleyo kweprofayile kule app kuya kukunceda ufaniswe ngokukhawuleza nangokufanelekileyo. Inqaku elinomtsalane lokuqinisekiswa kweaudio kunye nevidiyo yinto eyenza le app yahluke.
Ngokwenene Madly: Le app ikwazile ukwenza amaza njengoko iliqabane laseIndiya leTinder. Inceda umntu afumane umdlalo osekelwe kwizinto ezinomdla kunye nezinto ezikhethwayo, ukuya ngaphaya kweeparameters zeminyaka kunye nomgama. Into ekhethekileyo yolu setyenziso kukuba ayiqinisekisi kuphela ukhuseleko lwemifanekiso yakho kodwa ikwakhuthaza umsebenzisi ukuba acele abahlobo bakhe ukuba babaxhase ukuze bafumane amanqaku angcono ‘okuthemba’. Oku ekugqibeleni kukhokelela umsebenzisi kwinani eliphezulu leencoko kunye nemidlalo. I-app ikwakhuthaza abasebenzisi ukuba badlale imidlalo ethile ngemidlalo yabo efana neSitayiletastic kunye neFoodie Funda ebanceda ukuba bazane ngcono.
Woo: Luhlelo lokuthandana kunye nokumatanisa olugxile kuphela kwiingcali ezifundileyo. Le app ibandakanya kakhulu kubasebenzisi ngenxa yeempawu ezinje ngeNgesi yelizwi, uKhangelo lweThegi, ukuphosa umbuzo kunye nomyalezo othe ngqo. I-algorithm yale app inceda umsebenzisi ukuba afumane iimatshisi ezisekwe kwiithegi zomdla kwaye yenza ukuba umsebenzisi ajonge iimatshisi ezinokwenzeka kwisiseko sethegi enye kumxholo oziva unomdla kuwo kakhulu.
Izimvo zikaRuchi Shewade
