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Ithini inkcazo yothando? Ngaba bekuya kuba yinto ephosakeleyo ukuthi ngamnye wethu unenkcazo eyahlukileyo kuyo? Uthando luphethe iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kuye wonke umntu kwaye luxhomekeke kakhulu kwinto esinamava ayo. Inye into eqinisekileyo- kuyasithatha ukusibekela ilifu alithoba. Isibhakabhaka siba luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ingca iluhlaza, imimoya iyarhashaza kwaye ihlebeza ezindlebeni, amathontsi emvula abetha inqaku lomculo kunye nemvula yolonwabo evela macala onke. Kwaye konke oku kuyenzeka kwiqhezu lomzuzwana xa uqaphela ukuba uyathandana, loo mzuzu wokuqala uvakalelo lukuhlasela.
Kangakanani Uthando kakhulu Ngaba Jika A ubudlelwane Sour
Kodwa ngaba zonke ezi zinto zenzeka xa ubona umntu othile? Ngaba uthando ekuboneni kuqala luyinyani okanye luyinyani? Kunzima ukutsho ukuba uthando lwenzeka xa uqala ukulala nomntu. Ukuqala kwethu ukubona umntu kwaye sikhulise imvakalelo kusondele ngakumbi ekutsaleni. Sitsalwa kuqala kukukhangeleka komntu. Uthando yinto ehamba ngaphaya kweembonakalo. Ngokujonga nje umntu kwaye sithi siyathandana naloo mntu inokuba yinto ekude kakhulu ukuyifumana.
Kuthatha lukhulu ukwazi umntu kwaye siqonde ukuba sikulungele ukuchitha ubomi bethu bonke nalo mntu okanye hayi. Ukuthatha isigqibo sokwenza oko ekuboneni kokuqala kungathwala amathandabuzo amaninzi ngekamva. Zininzi izinto ezidityanisiweyo kunye nee-minus ezinxulumene nokuqala kothando.
Phambi kokuba sijonge kulwazelelo lothando ekuboneni okokuqala makhe sijonge ezinye zeempikiswano ezichasene nalo mbuzo wokuba ingaba uthando lubonwa luyinyani okanye luyinyani.
Intabatheko: Ukuqala kwethu ukujonga umntu kukubonakala kuphela okusibethayo. Sitsaleleke kwinkangeleko yomntu kwaye asazi nto ngobuntu. Ukuwa kweembonakalo kufana nokutsalwa kunye nokuthabatheka. Uthando alwenzeki ngokulula. Kuthatha okuninzi ngakumbi ukuba uvakalelo lothando lukhule.
Akukho mfuneko yokuba nidibane: Unokujonga emntwini kwaye utsalwe. Unokufuna ukuba kubudlelwane naloo mntu kodwa uqinisekile ukuba kukho imvakalelo efanayo kwelinye icala? Imvakalelo yakho inokubamba intsingiselo kuphela ukuba uyazi ukuba iyahambelana.
Awazi nto malunga nalo mntu: Wazi kangakanani lo mntu uthandana naye? Akukho nto. Kwiimeko ezinjalo ungatsho njani ukuba uyamthanda loo mntu? Kuya kufuneka umazi umntu-izinto ezintle kunye nezinto ezimbi-ukuthanda.
Ubudlelwane obufutshane: Udibana nomntu utshate! Buza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani olo lwalamano? Emva kokuba nitshatile niqala ukubonana. Kunokubakho izinto ozithandayo ngomnye ngelixa kukho izinto ongazithandiyo. Kuya kufuneka wazi omnye nomnye ngaphambi kokungena kubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo.
Ngokuchasene nazo zonke ezi ngxoxo zingathandekiyo zothando ekuqaleni kokubona inye kuphela impikiswano eyenzekayo ukuba ihambisane nayo. Uyabonana, nitsaleleke, nithandane kwaye nithathe isigqibo sokuba ngamaqabane ebomini. Kwaye konke oku kuyenzeka kwimizuzu embalwa yokuqala yokuhlangana.
Ilizwi elinzulu ngaphakathi kuwe likwenza ukholelwe ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo. Luvakalelo oludibeneyo olungathathi xesha ukukhula. Ngokukhawuleza uyazi ukuba ufumene umntu okhethekileyo okulungeleyo ukuhamba naye ukuya esiphelweni seli hlabathi. Oku kunokwenzeka nakweliphi na inqanaba lobomi kwaye kunokwenzeka ngamaxesha apho ungakulungelanga kona.
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo xa uthi umbono wokuqala ungaphezulu komtsalane kunye nentabatheko. Kodwa ukuba olu mtsalane wokuqala ukhula ube luthando akuyi kuba yinto ephosakeleyo ukuthi yayiluthando ekuqaleni kokubona. Ke ungathini - ngaba uthando ekuboneni kuqala luyinyani okanye luyinyani?