Ndandiphupha ngokwenza into enkulu ebomini
fbb Imibala yeFemina Miss India World 2019, uSuman Rao, uzolile kwaye uyile xa sidibana naye. Uvula amandla akhe, ubuthathaka, usapho, kunye noMiss World 2019
Emva kokuphumelela i-fbb Colors Femina Miss India World 2019, u-Suman Rao, akashiyi ilitye ukuze alungiselele uMiss World 2019, eya kwenzeka kungekudala. Intombazana yaseMumbai ithatha uManushi Chhillar (Miss World 2017) ukuba ibe yinkuthazo yakhe, kwaye iyavuma ukuba ekugqibeleni ifumene iqonga lakhe ukwenza umehluko.
Sixelele ngemvelaphi yakho.
Ndazalelwa kwidolophana ekufuphi neUdaipur ndaza ndakhulela eMumbai. Silusapho lweMewadi oluqhelekileyo lwabasixhenxe, olubandakanya abazali bam, abantakwethu ababini kunye nootatomkhulu noomakhulu. Utata unevenkile yobucwebe ngelixa umama esebenza ekhaya. Silusapho olukumgangatho ophakathi olunqwenela ukuba lulolona lubalaseleyo emhlabeni (uncumo).
Ngaba wawunenjongo eyahlukileyo xa kufikwa kumsebenzi wakho?
Bendihlala ndifuna ukugqwesa kwizifundo, kwaye ngoku ndiqhuba izifundo ze-accounting eziqeshiweyo ezivela kwiZiko leeChartered Accountants yaseIndiya, eMumbai. Ngeliphandle, bendiphupha ngokwenza into enkulu ebomini ndingajonganga nto
umsebenzi.
Wenza ntoni kuqala emva kokuba uthweswe isithsaba?
Ndibone abazali bam! Babenemincili; waqala walila umama. Kulapho kwafika khona ukuba kukho into endiyizuzileyo ebomini.
Yintoni, ngokutsho kwakho, amandla akho amakhulu kunye nobuthathaka?
Amandla am amakhulu kukuzithemba, ukugxila kunye nenkxaso yosapho. Ngokubhekiselele kubuthathaka, ndiyacinga kakhulu, nto leyo ngamanye amaxesha ikhokelela ekubeni ndingazithembi.
Ulungiselela njani uMiss World 2019?
Ukusuka kuqeqesho lokuhamba ngeempumlo kunye ne-diction ukuya kwizakhono zonxibelelwano, isimilo, kunye nophuhliso lomntu, ndisebenza kuyo yonke into. Sobathathu nathi siye saya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca rhoqo, kwaye sinesicwangciso sokutya esilungiselelwe thina ngokuxhomekeke kwiintlobo zemizimba yethu.
Luluphi utshintsho ongathanda ukulwenza eIndiya?
Ndikholelwa kakhulu kwintetho ethi—ukuba utshintsha indlela ozijonga ngayo izinto, izinto ozijongayo ziya kutshintsha. Ithetha ngengqondo, kwaye ibalulekile namhlanje. Sithanda ukubabamba abafazi ngasemva kwaye singabavumeli ukuba benze oko banako ukukwenza. Indoda okanye ibhinqa, umntu makafumane oko kubafaneleyo.
Ndifunde lukhulu kuye wonke umntu
Imibala ye-fbb iFemina Miss Grand India ka-2019, uShivani Jadhav usihambisa kumava akhe kukhuphiswano, indlela aluqeqeshele lona, kunye nesizathu sentlalo anxulunyaniswa nayo.
Intombazana yasePune kunye nenjineli ngokomsebenzi, uShivani Jadhav uphila iphupha kwaye uthi uyonwabela udumo olutsha ngokupheleleyo. Injongo yakhe? Ukukhuthaza izigidi zamantombazana kweli lizwe ukuba alandele ezabo. Uzilungiselele unyaka phambi kokungenela ukhuphiswano, uzolile kwaye uzithembile njengoko ephendula imibuzo ngqo.
Chaza amava akho kukhuphiswano.
UNkosazana India liphupha elizalisekileyo. Uhambo lweentsuku ezingama-40 lwahamba ngokukhawuleza. Eyona nto ingakholelekiyo malunga nokhuphiswano yayikukuhlala nabasetyhini abavela kwamanye amazwe angama-29. Ndifunde lukhulu kuye wonke umntu.
Thumela uMiss India, ukuza kwakho ekhaya kubonakala ngathi ngumcimbi omkhulu.
Kwandivuyisa ukuphinda ndidibane nosapho nabahlobo emva kokuba ndingekho ixesha elide. Khange ndiyilindele indlela endamkelwa ngayo. Abantu babendingqongile befuna ukucofa imifanekiso. Ndayibona indlela abonwabe ngayo intsapho nabahlobo bam. Yayingamava achukumisayo.
Kuthatha ntoni ukulungiselela ukhuphiswano olukhulu njengoMiss India?
Kukho iinkalo ezininzi ekufuneka umntu azijonge. Ndithathe ikhefu lonyaka ndilungiselela. Ndasebenza indlela endihamba ngayo, ndithetha ndijonge xa ndithetha. Kukhuphiswano lobu bukhulu, umntu kufuneka abe yiphakheji.
Luluphi uphawu ekufuneka abe nalo umntu ophumelele kukhuphiswano loonobuhle ngaphandle kokuzithemba?
Umntu ophumelele kukhuphiswano loonobuhle kufuneka alungele ukujongana nayo nayiphi na imeko. Ngenxa yesihloko, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubekwe kwindawo, kodwa akakwazi ukugoba kuyo. Kufuneka akwazi ukujongana neemeko ngokuthe ngqo.
Sihambise kwindlela yakho yobuhle.
Kwanangaphambi kokhuphiswano, ndaqinisekisa ukuba ndilandela ukutya okufanelekileyo. Nditya imifuno eyaneleyo, kwaye ndibandakanya amaqanda amhlophe kunye ne-paneer ekutyeni kwam. Ngokumalunga nolusu lwam, ndiyathambisa, ndiqabe itoner, kwaye ndikhulule zonke izithambiso phambi kwexesha lokulala.
Ngowuphi unobangela wentlalo ofuna ukunxulumana nawo?
Bendisebenzela abantwana abazalelwe kwibrothels. Ndifuna wonke umntwana akhuliswe kwindawo esempilweni. Thina, kunye njengeqela, sineziko lokunyamekela ebusuku kubantwana abanjalo ePune. Abantwana bayatya, balale kwaye babukele iimuvi kunye. Yindawo eyonwabileyo.
Abafazi mabancedisane
fbb Colors Femina Miss India United Continents 2019, Shreya Shanker uthetha ngokufezekisa iphupha lakhe, ukuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhini, izicwangciso zokujoyina ishishini lefilimu, kunye nokunye.
Ukuba wayengengomgqatswa woonobuhle, mhlawumbi ngewayeyimbaleki. Yindawo yam, uyazi, uyaqhula. Emva kokumela u-Imphal kwinqanaba likarhulumente lokudubula umpu, uShreya Shanker, i-fbb Colors Femina Miss India United Continents 2019, ukonwabela ukukhwela ihashe, ibasketball, kunye ne-badminton. Yiya kuye.
Ibaluleke kangakanani inkxaso yosapho lwakho ekuncedeni ukuba ufezekise oko unako?
Usapho lwam lwalufuna ukuba ndithathe inxaxheba kuMiss India. Enyanisweni, yayiliphupha likamama ukususela xa ndandineminyaka emithathu. Bavuya kakhulu kunam (encumile).
Baye basabela njani xa uphumelele isithsaba?
Bavuya gqitha! Ndababona bexhumaxhuma bekhala xa ndithweswa isithsaba. Kwandivuyisa ukubona ulonwabo lwabo.
Leliphi icebiso ongasoze ulilibale?
Abazali bam bebesoloko besithi–Yonwaba, nokuba wenza ntoni na. Indincedile ukuba ndilandele amaphupha am ngokukhululekileyo, kwaye oku kuya kuhlala nam ubomi bam bonke.
Uhlangabezana njani neentsilelo kunye nokusilela?
Kutshanje, umama uye watyandwa ngenxa yethumba ebuchotsheni. Uyachacha ngoku, kodwa esi siganeko sivavanye amandla am, kwaye ndiye ndavela njengomntu onamandla ngakumbi, emva kwesiqendu.
Kuqhelekile ukuba abaphumeleleyo kukhuphiswano lobuhle bangene kwi-Bollywood. Ngaba nawe unqwenela ukuba ngumdlali weqonga?
Ndifuna ukugqiba i-MBA kwezemali, kwaye ndihambe nokuhamba. Yi-chievement kuye nabani na ongena kwi-Bollywood; liqonga elikhulu, kodwa khange ndiyicinge loo nto okwangoku.
Kuthetha ntoni ukuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhini kuwe?
Ukuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhini kum ngabafazi bayancedisana. Umzekelo, sobathathu—uSuman Rao, uShivani Jadhav kunye noShanker—sijonge omnye komnye, kwaye kule nkqubo, siphakamisa isini sethu. Kwakhona, ndiyakholelwa ukuba amadoda kufuneka axhase isizathu kuba ukulingana, ngoku kunanini ngaphambili, kungundoqo.
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