Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba abafazi abatshatileyo bathanda ukubeka ubunzima emva komtshato. Ngokwesiko, bathi luphawu lomtshato owonwabileyo kodwa akusincedi ukuba sigcine impilo kunye nokomelela kwethu, akunjalo? Enyanisweni, ukuba sempilweni kwakho kuya kukukhokelela kumaxesha olonwabo kunokuba utshintshe. Kodwa kutheni sifumana ubunzima emva komtshato? Nantsi isizathu.
Hayi isini!
Enye yeentsomi ezinkulu ezijikeleze le nzuzo-yobunzima kukuba kwenzeka ngenxa yeehomoni eziveliswa emva kokuba ulale ngesondo. Ewe, ayilunganga. Ngokukodwa xa ucinga ukuba abanye banokuba babelane ngesondo ngaphambi komtshato wangempela kwaye abazange batyebe! Ngoko ke, le yintsomi etshatyalalisiwe. Ngelixa bekukho abanye abathi kukuphuma kwamadlozi emzimbeni, kodwa akunjalo.
Ukutya, ukutya kunye nokutya okuninzi
Imitshato lixesha lokuba usapho kunye nezizalwane ziyonwabele isibini. E-Indiya, oku kaninzi kunokunxibelelana ngokuthe ngqo kwizidlo ezinkulu ezisindlekwe ngembeko yesi sibini. Kwaye akukhona nje enye okanye ezimbini, isibini kufuneka sityelele zonke izalamane emakhayeni abo ukuze umtshakazi omtsha adibane nosapho lwakhe olutsha, kwaye ngokufanayo. Ukutya okuninzi kuya kubonakala kwindawo ethile, akunjalo?
Akukho xinzelelo
Ngaphambi komtshato wakho, usenokucinezelwa okanye ucinge ukuba ufanele umile ngendlela ethile, okanye ukhangeleke ngendlela encomekayo. Emva komtshato, imfuneko yokujonga indlela ethile yokutsala ayisekho ngoko umntu udla ngokufumana ukuyekelela.
Izibophelelo zexesha
Njengesibini esisandul’ ukutshata, nifuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni uyeke ixesha obuya kulichitha kwindawo yokuzivocavoca okanye wenze umthambo ukuze umnike ixesha elingakumbi.
Ngaphambi nasemva
Ukuba ulandele inkqubo engqongqo yokuqina komzimba ngaphambi kwe-D-Day ukuze unciphise umzimba kwaye emva koko uyeke ngokukhawuleza inkqubo yokutya kwaye wenze umthambo emva koko, oku kunokukhokelela ekuzuzeni ubunzima obukhulu emva komtshato.
Ingubo yokhuseleko
Uphando olwenziwa kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo lubonise ukuba imvakalelo yonqabiseko kunye nothando nolonwabo umntu aluvayo emva komtshato lwenza ubani atyebe.
