Ukusukela oko uvavanyo lwakho lokukhulelwa luphume lunethemba (kwaye ezi zintathu uzithathe emva koko ukuze uqiniseke), ube neengcinga ezisisigidi zibaleka entloko kunye noluhlu olubonakala lungapheli lwezinto oza kuzenza. #1,073 kwi-ajenda yakho? Cwangcisa ukudibana kunye nokubulisa nogqirha wakho wabantwana wexesha elizayo. Yiza nolu luhlu lwemibuzo ukuze ufumane okuninzi kwimizuzu elishumi yexesha lakho lokujongana.
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GeorgeRudy/Getty Imifanekiso 1. Ngaba uyayithatha i-inshurensi yam?
Phinda ujonge ukuba ugqirha wakho uyakwamkela na kwaye ubuze ukuba kukho naziphi na iintlawulo ezongezelelweyo okanye iimali ezibandakanyekayo (zithi, iingcebiso ezifowunelwayo emva kweeyure okanye zokuzaliswa kwakhona kwamayeza). Unokufuna ukubona ukuba zeziphi ezinye izicwangciso abasebenzisana nazo, ukuba uguqulo lwakho lutshintsha endleleni.
2. Sesiphi isibhedlele onxulumana naso?
Qinisekisa ukuba i-inshurensi yakho ibandakanya iinkonzo apho, nayo. Kwaye xa kufikwa kukudubula kunye nomsebenzi wegazi, ngaba kukho ilebhu kwindawo okanye kuya kufuneka uye kwenye indawo (ukuba kunjalo, phi)?
Choreograph / Getty Imifanekiso 3. Ithini imvelaphi yakho?
This is job-interviewing 101 (ndixelele ngawe). Izinto ezifana ne-American Board of Pediatrics certification kunye nomdla wokwenyani okanye umdla kumayeza abantwana zonke zizibonakaliso ezilungileyo.
4. Ngaba oku kukuziqhelanisa uwedwa okanye weqela?
Ukuba iyodwa, buza ukuba ngubani ovalayo xa ugqirha engafumaneki. Ukuba luqheliselo lweqela, buza ukuba ungadibana kangaphi nabanye oogqirha.
5. Ingaba unazo naziphi na iisubspecialities?
Oku kungabalulekile ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho usenokuba nezidingo zonyango ezikhethekileyo.
6. Zithini iiyure zomsebenzi wakho?
Ukuba impelaveki okanye amadinga angokuhlwa abalulekile kuwe, ngoku lixesha lokufumanisa ukuba ngaba lukhetho. Kodwa nangona ishedyuli yakho iguquguqukayo, ngokuqinisekileyo buza malunga nokuba kwenzekani xa umntwana wakho egula ngaphandle kweeyure zeofisi eziqhelekileyo.
yacobchuk/Getty Imifanekiso 7. Ithini ifilosofi yakho...?
Wena kunye nogqirha wakho wabantwana akukho mfuneko yokuba nabelane ngeembono ezifanayo yonke into , kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana umntu onokholo lwakhe malunga nezinto ezinkulu zomzali (njengokuncancisa, ukulala ngokubambisana, i-antibiotics kunye nokwaluka) ukulungelelanisa neyakho.
8. Ngaba i-ofisi iyaphendula kwii-imeyile?
Ngaba kukho indlela engeyoyengxamiseko yokudibana nogqirha? Umzekelo, ezinye iinkqubo zinexesha lokufowuna mihla le xa (okanye abongikazi) bephendula imibuzo yesiqhelo.
9. Ingaba intlanganiso yakho yokuqala nosana lwam iya kuba sesibhedlele okanye kuxilongo lokuqala?
Kwaye ukuba akukho esibhedlele, qiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuba ngubani oza kuhlola umntwana apho. Lo gama sithetha ngalo mba, ngaba ugqirha wabantwana uyaluka? (Ngamanye amaxesha oku kwenziwa ngugqirha ohambisayo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akunjalo.)
KatarzynaBialasiewicz / Getty Imifanekiso 10. Ingaba banayo ipolisi yokungena kumntwana ogulayo?
Uza kudibana nogqirha wakho wabantwana ngaphezu kokujongwa rhoqo, ke fumanisa ukuba yeyiphi iprotocol yokhathalelo olungxamisekileyo.
11. Ndingenza nini kwaye njani idinga lam lokuqala emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe?
Sithembe-ukuba umntwana wakho uzalwa ngempelaveki, ngoko uya kuvuya ukuba ubuze.
12. Okokugqibela, imibuzo embalwa omele uzibuze yona.
Ngokuqinisekileyo luluvo olulungileyo ukubuza ugqirha wakho oza kuba ngugqirha wabantwana malunga nezinto ezikuxhalabisayo, kodwa ungalibali ukuzibuza ezinye izinto, nawe. Ngaba uye waziva ukhululekile kunye nogqirha wabantwana? Ngaba igumbi lokulinda belimnandi? Ngaba abasebenzi bebenobubele kwaye beluncedo? Ngaba ugqirha wayamkela imibuzo? Ngamanye amazwi - themba ezo mvakalelo zebhere.
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