Endaweni yokupakisha isidlo sasemini kwaye uphose iwaffle kumntwana ngamnye xa ephuma ngomnyango, utya konke ukutya kwakho ekhaya njengosapho kwezi ntsuku… kwaye unxibe iileggings 24/7. Ezi zezona ndawo zinkulu zokungena eluntwini. Kodwa okoko kuvalwe isikolo sabantwana bakho, ubunexhala lokuba ukufikelela ngokulula kwiziphazamiso (Molo, Nintendo Tshintshela) kuya kubabuyisela umva. Uza kuzigcina njani iingqondo zabantwana bakho zibukhali? Kulula. Nantsi emithandathu eyona midlalo ibalaseleyo yobuchopho, ngoncedo luka-Becky Rodriguez, umama wokwenyani ofunda ekhaya wabantwana abathathu (intombazana eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala kunye namakhwenkwe amabini, abaneminyaka esi-8 kunye ne-9).
1. Xela loo Milo
Igqibelele: Abafundi bamabanga aphantsi
Iimilo ezisisiseko esiqala ukufunda ngazo singabantwana-izangqa, izikwere, oonxantathu kunye noxande-zikho kuyo yonke indawo kumakhaya ethu. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufundisa abantwana bakho ukuba bazibone njani ezi milo kukubuza ukuba ziyintoni na njengoko usenza umsebenzi ofana nokucoca.
Siza kubeka amathoyizi entombi yam eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala, kwaye ndiza kuthabatha ibhloko kwaye ndizenze ngathi ndiyalibala ukuba yiyiphi imilo, utsho uRodriguez. Uyayazi yonke into kwaye akakwazi kuzibamba, ngoko ke uya kuba ngathi, 'Sikwere, duh!' Ngoko ke ndiza kuzama ukumqhatha ndibuze ngento efana nesitulo sakhe samampunge, umva wexande kunye nesihlalo esikwere. Kodwa wayifumana!
2. Umsebenzi weTape
Igqibelele: Abantwana abancinci kunye nabasebancinci
Ekuphela kwento oyifunayo kulo mdlalo yiteyiphu eqengqelekayo esuswa ngokulula, njengeteyiphu yomzobi. Fumana into umntwana wakho omncinci anokuyifikelela, njengetafile yekofu. Ukukrazula iziqwenga zeteyipu kwaye uzibeke phezu kwetafile-phezulu, uxhonywe emphethweni, emilenzeni. U-Rodriguez ucebisa ukuba inxalenye ye-tape, njengesiphelo okanye i-gap phakathi, ayichukumisi nantoni na. Oku kwenza kube lula ukuba abantwana babambe.
Injongo apha ilula: Susa iqhekeza ngalinye ngaphandle kokulikrazula. Lo msebenzi ubandakanya ingqondo kunye neminwe yomntwana wakho kumsebenzi omnandi wemoto. Kuyonwabisa kuye, kodwa eneneni kumnandi kum ukumbona ezama ukuzicingela ngokwakhe kwaye abe nobuchule ngakumbi, utshilo uRodriguez.
3. Chain Reaction
Igqibelele: Ubudala be-6 nangaphezulu
Khetha unobumba, nawuphi na unobumba, kwaye ukhethe igama eliqala ngalo nobumba. Unokubuyela umva nabantwana bakho de omnye wenu aphinde igama okanye umntu avale ixesha elide kangangokuba nonke niqhuma yintsini. Phindaphinda bade babe ziingcaphephe.
Ngethuba lokugqibela sidlala le nto, sasidlala ngonobumba C kunye nomntwana wam oneminyaka eyi-8 wakhupha 'i-cardigan' ngaphandle kwendawo, uRodriguez uthi. Andikwazi ukukuxelela ngexesha lokugqibela ndinxibe i-cardigan.
4. IiSamesi
Igqibelele: Ubudala be-8 nangaphezulu
Abantwana abakwibanga lesibini nelesithathu bafunda nje ukuba yintoni isithethantonye, kutheni ke ungenzi umdlalo ngawo kwaye ubabuze kancinci?
Siza kuqala kancinci, utshilo uRodriguez. Emva kokuba oyena mncinane eye ehla ukuze alale, mna namakhwenkwe siza kuqala ngento ‘enjengentle,’ emva koko omnye athi ‘mhle’ okanye ‘mhle.’ Bakhuphisana kakhulu ngayo!
5. I-Verbal Venn Diagram
Igqibelele: Ubudala be-8 nangaphezulu
Ezo zangqa zidibanayo ootitshala bethu bazisebenzise ukusinceda ukuba sifunde ukuba izinto okanye izimvo zinokunxulumana njani? Baseyinto. Kodwa ngelixa usenza isidlo sangokuhlwa kwaye abantwana bakho bencwina, kude kube nini? unokubaphazamisa (kwaye ubafundise).
Ndiza kukhomba izinto ezimbini—kule mpelaveki iphelileyo ibiliphepha lokubhaka kunye nepakethe yeetships zetshokholethi—kwaye ndiza kubuza umdala wam, ofunda ibanga lesithathu, ukuba andixelele zonke izinto anokucinga ngazo eziyelelene kwinto nganye. , uthi. Uya kuba nebhongo kakhulu xa besithi chocolate chip cookies okanye itshokolethi isonka banana, kuba oko kuthetha ukuba bayaqonda ukuba ukwenza chocolate chip cookies, kufuneka baking sheet kunye chips, kwaye baking sheet uya eziko ngaphantsi kwesonka. ipani xa sisenza isonka sebhanana ngeechips zetshokolethi.
6. Odd Man Out
Igqibelele: Yonke iminyaka
Awudingi imagazini efundisayo enemifanekiso eneenkcukacha ukuze ingqondo yomntwana wakho isebenze. Lo ngumdlalo usapho lonke olunokuthi luwudlale kunye, kungakhathaliseki ubudala.
Ndiza kubuza umntwana wam oneminyaka emi-4 ukuba yintoni engeyoyeapile, iorenji kunye nebaseball, utshilo uRodriquez. Uyazi ukuba zonke zizizangqa kodwa uya kuqonda ukuba ezibini ziziqhamo, ke ibhola iphumile. Emva koko umntwana wakhe oneminyaka eyi-8, othanda ubugcisa, uya kufumana obomvu, i-orenji kunye nohlaza. Uya kwazi ukuba uluhlaza, umbala opholileyo, yimpendulo. Kwaye umntwana wakhe oneminyaka eli-9 uza kufumana umgca onje Umkhenkce 2 , Ubomi Obuyimfihlo Bezilwanyana Zasekhaya kwaye VeggieTales , kwaye kuya kufuneka aqonde ukuba ezimbini zokuqala ziimuvi kwaye eyesithathu ngumboniso weTV.
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