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Ulwalamano olonwabisayo ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo lwenza ubomi bukabani buhle. Kodwa kukho amaxesha apho umntu anokuziva ukuba ulwalamano lwabo alusafani. Ngasizathu sithile, unokuzifumana uxakeke yimithambo okanye nijongane ubuso ngobuso. Yilapho unokuzibuza ukuba ulwalamano olufanelekileyo na. Nangona uzama nzima ukuthetha ngokufanayo kwiqabane lakho, unokuhlala uthe cwaka ukuze ungonzakalisi iimvakalelo zeqabane lakho.
Kwimeko enjalo, kungcono ukuthatha ikhefu kubudlelwane bakho kwaye ninikezane indawo. Ngaphandle koko, unokugqibela ngokuziva uminxekile kulwalamano. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba usadidekile nokuba lixesha lokuba uthathe ikhefu kubudlelwane, silapha sinemiqondiso eza kukuxelela. Funda uqhubeke.
1. Uhlala ulwela into enye
Ukulwa akuyonto intsha kubo nabuphi na ubudlelwane. Usenokungavumelani neqabane lakho okanye niphikisane ngezinto. Akukho siphoso kule nto ngaphandle kokuba ulwele into enye ngaphandle kwesiphumo esihle. Ngapha koko, uninzi lwencoko lunokuthatha ujike kwingxoxo embi. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka kaninzi, kuya kufuneka uchithe ixesha ngokwahlukana kwaye uphuhlise ezakho izimvo kwaye uhlalutye ubudlelwane bakho.
2. Uyathandabuza Ukuba Kuyaphumelela
Ukuba uhlala uzibuza ukuba ingaba ubudlelwane bakho buyasebenza okanye akunjalo, oku kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuba ufuna ikhefu kubudlelwane bakho. Usenokuzifumana ucinga ukuba ubungenani. Ngapha koko, usenokuthi uhlala uphuma ngaphandle okanye uve elinye iqabane lakho likoyikisa ngokuphuma kubudlelwane. Okwangoku, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ikhefu.
3. Ufuna ukuchitha ixesha ngokwakho
Amaqabane ahlala ejonge ukuchitha ixesha kunye kwaye ngenxa yoku, bahlala benza izicwangciso ezininzi. Banandipha nendawo yabo. Kodwa ukuba ufikelele kwinqanaba kubudlelwane bakho apho ufuna ukuchitha ixesha lakho wedwa, oku kunokuba luphawu lokuxela. Unokuhlala urhoxisa izicwangciso ezenziwe liqabane lakho ukuze uqiniseke ukuba akufuneki ubanike ixesha lakho. Nokuba iqabane lakho lizama ukufumana ingqalelo yakho, awunakukhathazeka. Nangona kunjalo, unokuziva unetyala emva koko kodwa awunakukunceda.
4. Uziva ungakhathalelwanga
Ukuba kubudlelwane kunye nokuziva ulilolo yenye yezona zinto zidandathekisayo. Xa usebudlelwaneni nomntu, uyazi ukuba unomntu omele ujonge kuye. Nokuba sele uthethile malunga nesizungu kunye neqabane lakho kwaye usahamba kwinto enye, ke kungcono ukuba ulilolo wedwa. Endaweni yokuhlawulwa ngokungakhathalelwanga kubudlelwane, unokucinga ngokuthatha ikhefu kwaye uhlalutye umlinganiso wakho neqabane lakho.
5. Uyakhathazeka Ngumlingane Wakho
Izinto ezakha zakwenza waziva ubalulekile kwaye zithandwa zinokubonakala zikucaphukisa. Nokuba umntu wakho uzama kangakanani ukwenza usuku lwakho kwaye abonise uthando nenkathalo kuwe, izinto zisenokungabonakali zilungile. Nokuba izinto ezincinci malunga neqabane lakho zinokuyonakalisa imeko yakho. Ayisiyiyo le kuphela, kodwa unokuziva ukuba iqabane lakho ayinguye lowo ubufuna ukuchitha ubomi bakho kunye naye. Oku kunokuhlala kukhokelela kwiingxabano ezingafunekiyo kunye nokulwa. Okwangoku, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba kunokufuna ikhefu kubudlelwane bakho.
6. Aniziva Nxibelelene
Enye yezinto ezigcina abantu ababini bekunye kubudlelwane kukudibana ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuba nangaliphi na ixesha uziva ukuba awusenxibelelananga ngendlela owawuyiyo, izinto zisenokungafani. Ungaziva ungonwabanga kwaye ushiywe ulwalamano. Ayisiyiyo le kuphela, kodwa unokukwazi ukunika okona kulungileyo kulwalamano. Unokulicaphukela iqabane lakho kwaye usithandabuze isigqibo sakho sokuthandana nabo.
7. Usoloko ufumana iziphoso komnye nomnye
Nje ukuba ungaziva uxhulumene, ungaqala ukufumana iimpazamo komnye nomnye. Awusayi kuphinda uthandaze iziphene zabo kwakhona. Ngapha koko, ungazithiya ezinye izinto malunga neqabane lakho. Umzekelo, awungekhe uyithande indlela iqabane lakho elixhoma ngayo iimpahla, indlela abanxiba ngayo okanye uhlobo lomsebenzi abawenzayo. Unokuthelekisa iqabane lakho nomnye umntu. Okwangoku, endaweni yokutyhola nokuthuka iqabane lakho yonke imihla, eyona nto unokuyenza kukuthatha ikhefu kwaye ube nendawo yakho.
8. Awufumani Ulwalamano Lwakho A Happy One
Ukuba uziva ukuba ubudlelwane bakho abusonwabanga kwaye busempilweni, ke oku kunokuba luphawu lokuba ufuna ikhefu. Usenokoyika ulwalamano lwakho. Nemicimbi emincinci kulwalamano lwakho isenokubonakala inkulu kakhulu. Ngaphandle kwalonto, unokuthelekisa ubudlelwane bakho nobabanye. Kwimeko enjalo, kungcono ukuba nina nobabini nithathe ikhefu nize niqinise ubudlelwane benu kunokuba bube buthathaka.
Ngoku ngoku sixoxe ngezinye zeempawu, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba ukuthatha ikhefu akuthethi ukuba ungaze uphinde ulibone iqabane lakho okanye uliqhathe. Imalunga nokuchitha iintsuku ezithile, iiveki okanye kube ziinyanga ezimbalwa ukwahlukana kwaye usebenza kwizinto ezichaphazele ulwalamano lwakho. Endaweni yokukrwitshana kulwalamano, kungcono ukuba uvumele ubudlelwane buphefumle.