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Ngaba uziva ngathi umntu othandana naye akasakuhoyi? Ngaba uyakuphepha ukuya nawe kumatheko okanye kwimisitho? Ngaba iifowuni zakho kunye neetekisi zihoywa rhoqo? Ngaba sele eyekile ukuxabisa iinzame ozibeka kulwalamano? Unokuziva ukuba umntu othandana naye utshintshile kakhulu kwaye nobudlelwane bakho butshintshile. Unokuziva ngathi ulwalamano lwecala elinye.
Ayisiyiyo le kuphela, kodwa kunokubakho amaxesha apho anokugxeka imikhwa, iinkolelo, izimvo neengcinga zakho. Ukuba kunjalo kuwe, lixesha eliphezulu xa ufuna ukumenza abone ukubaluleka kwakho. Ukwazi ukuba ungamenza njani ukuba abone ukubaluleka kwakho, skrolela ezantsi kwinqaku ukuze ufunde ngakumbi.
1. Yiqonde Into yokuba Uxabisekile
Phambi kokwenza ukuba umntu othandana naye akuqonde ukuzixabisa kwakho, kubalulekile ukuba ukwamkele oko ukufaneleyo. Kuya kufuneka uzikhumbuze ukuba uyamangalisa kwaye kufanelekile ukuthandwa kwaye uzive ukhethekile. Awuyonto ekufuneka igcinwe kwikona yendlu yakhe. Ke eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyenzile yeka ukucinga ngokulusizi kwaye uqonde ukuzixabisa kwakho.
2. Yeka ukufowuna okanye ukuthumela imiyalezo kuye
Ngaba nguwe ohlala usitsalela umnxeba okanye ubhala kuqala? Ngaba ushiya iitekisi zakho kunye neefowuni zingakhathalelwanga? Ukuba kunjalo kuwe kwaye siyaqonda ukuba ungaziva kakubi kangakanani. Akukho nto inokudakumba ngaphandle kokufumana isimilo esinjalo kuthando lobomi bakho. Kodwa emva koko, yeyiphi inqaku lokuphalaza iinyembezi ngenxa yeetekisi zakho ezingakhathalelwanga kunye neefowuni? Endaweni yokuba umfowunele okanye umthumelele imiyalezo kaninzi, menzele umnxeba okanye akuthumelele umyalezo. Ekuqaleni, akanokukufowunela okanye akubhalele umyalezo ngenxa yokuba eqhele umbono wentombazana yakhe ethatha inyathelo lokuqala. Kodwa nje ukuba aqaphele ukwehla kweefowuni kunye neetekisi zakho, uya kuzama ukufikelela kuwe.
3. Zigcine Uxakekile Kwinto Enemveliso
Endaweni yokuziva ulusizi kwaye ucela ingqalelo yakhe, into onokuyenza kukuzigcina uxakekile kwinto ethile enemveliso. Zibandakanye ekwenzeni izinto ezinokukwenza uzive ungcono. Umzekelo, ukuba uyakuthanda ukuthenga, yiya kwangoko, funda incwadi emnandi, uziphekele into emnandi okanye ubukele imovie elungileyo. Ngale ndlela awuzukuzigcina uxakekile kuphela kodwa unokuziphazamisa nakwisithokothoko.
Chitha ixesha nabahlobo bakho
Ukuze wenze indoda yakho ikubone ukubaluleka kwakho, kufuneka ube nobomi ngaphandle kolwalamano lwakho. Kuya kufuneka umenze aqonde ukuba ubomi bakho abuphelelanga kuye. Ukwenza oku, chitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabahlobo bakho. Ukuba uhlala ufuna ukuthatha uhambo kunye neqela lakho leentombazana, eli lixesha apho unokwenza isicwangciso kwaye upakishe iibhegi zakho. Ukubona ukuba unexesha lakho nokuba ungekho ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kumenza azive enomona. Unokuhlakulela uloyiko lokuphulukana nawe kwaye kulapho aya kuthi ahlawule ngakumbi nangakumbi kuwe.
5. Nciphisa ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe
Esinye sezizathu zokuba angakuhloniphi ukuzixabisa kwakho kwaye akuthathe kancinci kungenxa yokuba engayiqondi indlela omenzela ngayo. Isenokungawamkeli amaxesha okupheka kwakho, uhlambe iimpahla zakhe, ukhathalele impilo yakhe, njl.njl., Kunokubakho amaxesha apho anokuhlekisa ngokungenzi nto. Kodwa lixesha apho kufuneka umenze aqonde indima oyidlalayo ebomini bakhe. Kuya kufuneka unciphise ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe. Makaziphekele athathe iimpahla zakhe azokuzihlamba. Ngeli xesha ke aya kukuqonda ukubaluleka kwakho.
6. Vakalisa iimvakalelo zakho ngezenzo zakho
Ngaba ulivile ibinzana, 'izenzo zithetha kakhulu kunamazwi'. Endaweni yokuba uzive ungonwabanga kwaye ukhathazekile kukungakhathali kwesithandwa sakho, bonisa iimvakalelo zakho ngezenzo zakho. Umzekelo, mxelele ukuba awonwabanga ngenxa yokungazi kwakhe. Ukuba uyakucela ukuba wenze imisebenzi yakhe, ungala ukuyenza kwaye ubonise ukungavumelani kwakho ngezigqibo zakhe ezizimeleyo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba umbone rhoqo okanye ube yintombi ethobelayo.
7. Thatha izigqibo ngokwakho
Ukuba ungomnye wabo bathanda ukutya kwaye banxibe into eyamkelwa ngamakhwenkwe abo, kuya kufuneka utshintshe indlela oziphethe ngayo. Awunakukuqonda oku kodwa ukuvumela umntu athandana naye ukuba akwenzele izigqibo ungamenza angakuhoyi ukubaluleka kwakho. Sukuvumela isoka lakho ukuba linyanzele izigqibo kunye nokhetho lwakho kuwe. Ukuba ufuna ukunxiba isikeyiti ke sukuvumela isoka lakho ukuba likunyanzele ukuba unxibe ijean. Kubalulekile ukuba wenze izigqibo ngokwakho. Akukho bulumko ekutyeni isaladi kuba efuna ukuba uyitye.
8. Thanda kwaye uzithobe ngokwakho
Ngaphandle kokuba awuzithandi kwaye uzive ufanelekile, ungalindela njani ukuba abanye bakuxabise ukubaluleka kwakho? Rhoqo abantu basetyhini bathanda ukunika ukubaluleka okuncinci kubo kuba baxakekile ekwenzeni ukuba indoda yabo izive ibalulekile. Kufuneka uqale ukuzithanda. Zithambise kwaye uzivumele ukuba ube nenkathalo kunye nothando olufunekayo. Ngale nto, ungaya esaluni, hamba nabahlobo, uye eholideyini, uqhubeke nezinto onomdla kuzo kwaye uchithe ixesha elininzi.
9. Kunqande ukunyamezela isimilo sakhe
Le yenye into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyenzile ukuba ufuna ukuba umntu othandana naye akuqonde ukuzixabisa kwakho. Ukuba awonwabanga ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe kokungazi, mxelele okufanayo. Mxelele ukuba uziva njani xa engayi kwiminxeba yakho okanye kwiitekisi ngaphandle kwesizathu esivakalayo. Myekise ukulawula ubomi bakho kwaye umazise ukuba ufanelwe ngcono.
Ngaphezulu kwako konke, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba ubudlelwane obungonwabisiyo abunakuze bonwabe. Iya kukwenza uzive ungonwabanga ngalo lonke ixesha. Endaweni yokunyamezela ukungakhathali nokuziphatha kwakhe ngokungazi, ungaya kubudlelwane obungcono. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ubudlelwane obonwabileyo bumalunga nokuhloniphana nokuhambelana.
