URenee Zelwegger noKenny Chesney: ichithiwe. USophia Bush kunye noChad Michael Murrary: ichithiwe. UKim Kardashian kunye noChris Humphries: baqhawule umtshato (kodwa yena wayefuna ukupheliswa ).
Ngenxa yokuba umtshato wamkelwe ngokusemthethweni, ukuphuma komnye, ukuba utshate ngokusemthethweni. Ngelixa omabini amaqabane esaphila, kukho iindlela ezimbini zokwenza oku: uqhawulo-mtshato kunye nokubhangisa. Ke yintoni umahluko? Igqwetha elisekelwe eChicago eligxile kumthetho wosapho kunye nomtshato, UTiffany M. Hughes , isinceda sicacise.
I-Annulment vs uqhawulo-mtshato: Ngowuphi umahluko omkhulu?
Zombini ukutshitshiswa kunye noqhawulo-mtshato zizenzo ezisemthethweni eziphelisa umtshato ekugqibeleni, kodwa zikwenza oko ngeenkqubo ezahlukeneyo kunye neentsingiselo. Per Hughes, Uqhawulo-mtshato luphelisa amaqhina omtshato phakathi kwamaqabane amabini. Uqhawulo-mtshato sisigwebo esisemthethweni esichaza ukuba umtshato awukho mthethweni. I-Annulments inqabile kakhulu kwaye kunokuba nzima ukungqina. Ngamanye amazwi, uqhawulo-mtshato luxhaphake kakhulu kunokupheliswa ngenxa yokuba uqhawulo-mtshato lunemiqathango engqongqo gqitha yokufaneleka inkoliso yezibini ezitshatileyo ingafikeleliyo kuyo. Ngaphezulu koko, abantu abaninzi phantsi kweemeko eziqhelekileyo abafuni okanye bafune ukuqinisekiswa okusemthethweni kokutshitshiswa-kufana nokwahlukana phakathi kokuthi umyeni wam wangaphambili kwaye akukho nkcazo.
Ngoku, kukho izizathu ezithe ngqo umntu anokuthi afune okanye afune imeko yokutshitshiswa-imeko ezikhokelele kumtshato zazinobuqhophololo (cinga: UJoe usozigidi ), iyathandabuzeka ngokuziphatha okanye ivele ngokungekho mthethweni. Ngelixa kusekho isiseko esisemthethweni sokuchitha (jonga ngezantsi), isizathu sokufuna ukutshitshiswa kusenokuba kukubuyisela ubume obusemthethweni phambi komtshato, njengokutsho, ukuba ubufumana inkxaso yeqabane kumtshato wangaphambili okanye kuba ufuna khusela impahla yakho. Oko kwathiwa, ilizwe ngalinye linemithetho eyahlukileyo. Ngokuphathelele kutheni uChris Humphries efuna ukutshitshiswa kukaKim Kardashian, asikwazi ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa mhlawumbi inento yokwenza ngakumbi nokubaluleka kokucela enye endaweni yeempembelelo ezisemthethweni. Ukufaka isicelo sokurhoxiswa ngesiseko sobuqhophololo kusenokwenzeka ukuba uHumphries wayecebisa ukuba mhlawumbi iiKardashians zamsebenzisela umboniso. Ekugqibeleni, umtshato kaHumphries noKardashian waphela ngoqhawulo-mtshato, kungekhona ukuchithwa.
Ziziphi izizathu zoqhawulo-mtshato?
Izizathu ezisemthethweni zoqhawulo-mtshato ziyahluka ngokwelizwe, yiyo loo nto mhlawumbi ukhe weva ibinzana elithi fault-based vs. no-fault states. Ngoku, onke amazwe avumela uqhawulo-mtshato olungenatyala, nto leyo ethetha ukuba akufuneki ubonakalise ubungqina bokuba umtshato uqhawule umtshato ukuze uqhawule umtshato. Naliphi na iqabane elikumtshato osemthethweni linokuthi lifake uqhawulo-mtshato emva kokuba lahlukene (ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwasemzimbeni) neqabane lalo kangangeenyanga ezintandathu, utsho uHughes. Yiyo loo nto iyantlukwano engalungisekiyo iyinto eqhelekileyo kuqhawulo-mtshato olungenatyala.
Kodwa, masithi ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato ngokukhawuleza (aka ukutsiba ukuba ukwahlukana kweenyanga ezintandathu) okanye ufuna ukubonisa ukuba iqabane lakho libe nempazamo ngenxa yokungaphumeleli komtshato ukuze ufune ulwahlulo olukhulu lwepropati yomtshato okanye isondlo, inokwenza oku kuphela kwimeko yoqhawulo-mtshato esekelwe kwimpazamo.
Noko ke, ngokunxulumene nokugcinwa komntwana, isondlo somntwana, isondlo somntwana, njl. njl., uHughes uchaza ukuba kumazwe amaninzi, isizathu soqhawulo-mtshato asisebenzi kwiimbopheleleko zenkxaso yabantwana kwaye oko kusemdleni womntwana (abantwana) bamaqela. .
Zeziphi izizathu zokubhangisa?
Per Hughes, izizathu eziqhelekileyo zokurhoxiswa, okanye isigwebo sokungabi nakusebenza, zezi zilandelayo:
- Elinye iqabane lalingenawo amandla okuvuma umtshato, ngexesha lomtshato, ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okanye ukusela utywala okanye iziyobisi.
- Elinye iqabane lawuvuma umtshato ngenxa yokunyanzelwa, ubuqhetseba okanye ukunyanzelwa.
- Elinye iqabane lalineminyaka eli-16 okanye i-17 ubudala ngexesha lomtshato kwaye lasilela ukufumana imvume esemthethweni yomzali, umgcini okanye ijaji.
- Elinye iqabane lalisemtshate ngokusemthethweni nomnye umntu ngexesha lomtshato.
- Umtshato wawungumbulo.
- Elinye iqabane lalingenawo amandla okuwugqibezela umtshato kwaye layifihla le nyaniso kwelinye iqabane.
Wazi njani ukuba yeyiphi ekulungeleyo?
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba, ngaphandle kokuba umtshato wakho ubungasebenzi, awunakufuna ukuwutshitshisa. Kwaye nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, kufuneka usoloko ufuna isikhokelo kwigqwetha elinamava loqhawulo-mtshato ukuze uxoxe ngeendlela zakho ezisemthethweni kwaye umisele eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza ngamava akho athile.
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