Izibonelelo zeMisebenzi: Izizathu ezisi-8 okufuneka uzinike abantwana bakho ngoku

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Iindaba ezimnandi kubazali—abaphandi bathi kukho iingenelo ezinkulu zemisebenzi yasekhaya, njengoko ihlobene nabantwana bakho. (Kwaye, hayi, asiyonyaniso nje yokuba ekugqibeleni ingca ichetyiwe.) Apha, izizathu ezisibhozo zokubanika, kunye noluhlu lwemisebenzi yasekhaya elungele ubudala nokuba umntwana wakho uneminyaka emibini okanye eli-10.

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1. Umntwana Wakho Angaphumelela Ngakumbi

Xa uGqr. Marty Rossmann ovela kwiYunivesithi yaseMinnesota idatha ehlalutyiweyo evela kuphononongo lwexesha elide elandela abantwana abangama-84 kumaxesha amane obomi babo, wafumanisa ukuba abo benza imisebenzi yasekhaya xa babebancinci bakhula baba nempumelelo ethe chatha kwimfundo nakwimisebenzi yabo yokuqala. Kungenxa yokuba imvakalelo yoxanduva apho i-munchkin yakho encinci ivakalelwa malunga nokukhulula umatshini wokuhlamba izitya iya kuhlala naye ubomi bakhe bonke. Kodwa nantsi into yokubambisa: Ezona ziphumo zibalaseleyo zabonwa xa abantwana beqalisa ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya beneminyaka emithathu okanye emine ubudala. Ukuba baqale ukuncedisa xa bebadala (njenge-15 okanye i-16) emva koko iziphumo zabuyela umva, kwaye abathathi-nxaxheba abazange banandiphe amanqanaba afanayo empumelelo. Qala ngokunika umntwana wakho umsebenzi ohambahambayo ukuba abeke izinto zakhe zokudlala emva koko usebenze ukuya kwimisebenzi emikhulu njengokukhwela iyadi njengoko ekhula. (Kodwa ukutsiba kwiimfumba zamagqabi kufuneka konwatywe nakweyiphi na iminyaka).

2. Baya konwaba ngakumbi njengabadala

Kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba ukunika abantwana imisebenzi kuya kubenza babe nolonwabo ngakumbi, kodwa ngokutsho kwe-longitudinal enye Isifundo kwiYunivesithi yaseHarvard , isenokuba. Abaphandi bahlalutya abathathi-nxaxheba abangama-456 kwaye bafumanisa ukuba ukuzimisela kunye namandla okusebenza ebuntwaneni (ngomsebenzi wesingxungxo okanye ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, umzekelo) yayiyindlela engcono yokuqikelela impilo yengqondo xa umntu emdala kunezinye izinto ezininzi ezibandakanya inqanaba lentlalontle kunye nemiba yosapho. . Zama ukuyigcina engqondweni loo nto xa usenokumva umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo encwina ngenxa yesandi sesicoci sevacuum.

3. Baza Kufunda Indlela Yokulawula Ixesha

Ukuba umntwana wakho unomsebenzi omninzi wesikolo awenzayo okanye i-sleepover ecwangciswe kwangaphambili ukuba aye kuyo, kunokuhenda ukumnika ukudlula simahla kwimisebenzi yakhe yasekhaya. Kodwa owayesakuba ngumphathi wabasaqalayo kunye nabacebisi ngesidanga kwiYunivesithi yaseStanford UJulie Lythcott-Haims icebisa ngokuchasene nayo. Ubomi bokwenyani buza kufuna ukuba benze zonke ezi zinto, utshilo. Xa besemsebenzini, kusenokubakho amaxesha okuba basebenze kade, kodwa kusafuneka baye kuthenga igrosari baze bahlambe izitya. Akukho lizwi okwangoku ukuba ukwenza imisebenzi kuya kukhokelela kwi-Ivy League yokufunda nangona kunjalo.

4. Baya kufumana uTyando kuPhuhliso lwengqondo

Ewe, ukubeka igrosari okanye ukhula egadini kuthathwa njengemisebenzi yobuchwephesha, kodwa ikwayeyona nxalenye ifanelekileyo kwimitsi ephambili yokufunda ebangelwa yintshukumo esekwe yintshukumo, utshilo uSally Goddard Blythe Umntwana Olungeleleneyo . Yicinge ngolu hlobo: Ubuntwana kuxa i-anatomy esebenzayo yengqondo yakho isakhula kwaye iqhelana, kodwa amava okusebenza, ngakumbi lawo asekelwe kumzimba ofuna ukuqiqa, ayinxalenye ebalulekileyo yoko kukhula. Umzekelo: Ukuba umntwana wakho ubeka itafile, bayashukuma kwaye babeka iipleyiti, izinto zesilivere kunye nokunye. Kodwa bakwasebenzisa izakhono zobomi bokwenyani zokuhlalutya kunye nezibalo njengoko bephindaphinda isethingi yendawo nganye, babale izixhobo ngenani labantu etafileni, njl.njl. Oku kuvula indlela yempumelelo kwezinye iindawo, kuquka ukufunda nokubhala.

5. Baya kuba nobudlelwane obungcono

UGqr. Rossmann ukwafumanise ukuba abantwana abaqalisa ukuncedisa endlwini besebancinane babenolwalamano oluhle nentsapho nabahlobo xa bebadala. Oku mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba imisebenzi yasekhaya ifundisa abantwana ngokubaluleka kokuba negalelo kwiintsapho zabo nokusebenza kunye, nto leyo eguqulela ekubeni babe novelwano njengabantu abadala. Ngaphezu koko, njengoko nawuphi na umntu otshatileyo enobungqina, ukuba ngumncedi, umcoci kunye ne-sock-putter-away-er nje kunokukwenza ube liqabane elinqwenelekayo.

6. Baya kuba ngcono ekulawuleni imali

Ukwazi ukuba akukwazi ukudlala nabahlobo bakho okanye ukubukela umabonwakude de ube uyenza imisebenzi yakho yasekhaya kufundisa abantwana ngokuziphatha nokuzeyisa, nto leyo enokukhokelela kulwazi olungakumbi lwemali. Oko ngokutsho a Isifundo seDyunivesithi yaseDuke eyalandela abantwana abali-1 000 baseNew Zealand ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kutsho kwiminyaka engama-32 ubudala yaza yafumanisa ukuba abo bangakwaziyo ukuzeyisa basenokuba nezakhono ezibi ngakumbi zokulawula imali. (Ngokuphathelele ukubophelela imisebenzi yasekhaya kwisibonelelo, unokufuna ukucaca, ngoko IAtlantiki , ekubeni oko kunokuthumela umyalezo ochaseneyo noluxanduva losapho noluntu.)

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7. Baya Kuxabisa iiPerks zoMbutho

Ikhaya elonwabileyo likhaya elilungelelanisiweyo. Oku siyakwazi. Kodwa abantwana basafunda ukubaluleka kokuthatha emva kwabo kunye nokunyamekela izinto abazigcina kufutshane nabathandekayo. Imisebenzi yasekhaya-uthi, ukusonga kunye nokubeka impahla yabo yokuhlamba okanye ukujikelezisa abo basebenzela ukutya-yeyona ndawo ifanelekileyo yokutsiba ukunceda ukuseka inkqubo kunye nokukhuthaza indawo engenabumdaka.

8. Baya Kufunda Izakhono Ezixabisekileyo

Asithethi nje ngezinto ezicacileyo ezinjengokwazi ukugungqa umgangatho okanye ukucheba ingca. Cinga: Ukubona i-chemistry isebenza ngokunceda ukupheka isidlo sakusihlwa okanye ukufunda ngebhayoloji ngokuboleka isandla egadini. Emva koko kukho zonke ezinye izakhono ezibalulekileyo ezifana nomonde, ukuzingisa, ukusebenzisana kunye nokuziphatha komsebenzi. Yiza netshathi yomsebenzi.

Imisebenzi efanelekileyo yobudala kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwe-12:

Imisebenzi: Ubudala be-2 kunye ne-3

• Chola izinto zokudlala kunye neencwadi
• Nceda ukondla naziphi na izilwanyana zasekhaya
• Beka impahla kwihamper kwigumbi labo

Imisebenzi: Iminyaka emi-4 neye-5

• Seta kwaye uncede ukucima itafile
• Nceda ubeke igrosari
• Gcoba uthuli kwiishelufa (ungasebenzisa ikawusi)

Imisebenzi: Iminyaka emi-6 ukuya kweyesi-8

• Khupha inkunkuma
• Nceda ufunxe kwaye ukorobhe imigangatho
• Songa kwaye ubeke impahla

Imisebenzi: Ubudala be-9 ukuya kwe-12

• Hlamba izitya kwaye ulayishe i-dishwasher
• Coca igumbi lokuhlambela
• Sebenzisa iwasha kunye nesomisi ukulungiselela ukuhlamba impahla
• Uncedo ngokulungiselela ukutya okulula

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