Ngaphandle nje
- Chaitra Navratri 2021: Umhla, iMuhurta, izithethe kunye nokubaluleka kwalo mnyhadala
- U-Hina Khan uyakhazimla phezulu nge-Copper Green Eye Shadow Kwaye i-Glossy Nude Lips Fumana ukuKhangela kumanyathelo ambalwa alula!
- I-Ugadi kunye ne-Baisakhi 2021: Spruce Jonga ukuHlala kwakho kunye neeCelebs-eziPhefumlelweyo zeSuti
- I-Horoscope yemihla ngemihla: 13 Epreli 2021
Ungaphoswa
- Abaqeqeshi baseMelika bakhokelela kwizifundo zesiNgesi zabahlohli baseIndiya
- I-Ugadi 2021: UMahesh Babu, uRam Charan, uJr NTR, iDarshan kunye nezinye iinkwenkwezi zaseMzantsi zithumela iminqweno kubalandeli babo
- I-IPL 2021: Ndisebenze ukubetha kwam emva kokungahoywa kwifandesi ka-2018, utshilo uHarshal Patel
- Ixabiso leGolide liwe ngokungekho xhala kwiiNBFCs, iibhanki kufuneka ziBukele
- Amatyala e-AGR kunye nefandesi yakutshanje yeSpectrum enokuthi ichaphazele icandelo leTelecom
- Mahindra Thar Ukubhukisha ukuwela i-50 000 Milestone kwiinyanga nje ezintandathu
- Isiphumo sokugqibela sama-2021 samapolisa e-Bihar Bihar
- Iindawo ezili-10 ezigqibeleleyo zokundwendwela eMaharashtra ngo-Epreli
Namhlanje, sidibana namadoda amaninzi atshata okwesibini. Ezinye zezizathu ezisemva komtshato wesibini zinokuba ngenxa yomtshato owongezelelekileyo apho indoda yamshiya khona umfazi wayo wokuqala okanye ingangunobangela wokufa naye. Amadoda atshata okwesibini ahlala onwabile xa kuthelekiswa nomtshato wabo wokuqala.
Xa kuziwa kubafazi nokuba ngumfazi wesibini kwindoda ayithandayo kwaye ayithandayo, ucinga ukuba kukho iingxaki? Ukuba uqhubeka ufunda eli nqaku uyakukwazi eminye yemiceli mngeni emikhulu yokuba ngumfazi wesibini kwindoda ebethandwa ngumfazi wayo wokuqala!
Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umfazi wesibini uhlala engumfazi oya kuthi ngokuzenzekelayo abhalwe 'njengomnye umfazi'.
Ngezi ngcinga engqondweni makhe sijonge eminye yemiceli mngeni yokuba ngumfazi wesibini.
Ayithandi ngabaninzi
Xa indoda itshata okokuqala, umfazi wayo wokuqala wamkelwa kusapho ngeengalo ezivulekileyo kunye nobushushu obukhulu. Kodwa xa umfazi wokuqala eba ngumntu ongalindelwanga kangako kwindoda emtshatileyo, izinto ziyatshintsha okanye zihlala zinje de kufike ixesha apho umfazi wesibini ethatha indawo yakhe. Omnye wemiceli mngeni ephambili yokuba ngumfazi wesibini kukufumana ukuthanda izinto ezininzi eziyinxalenye yobomi bomyeni wakhe.
Ngaba ungumfazi ongcono?
Ukuthelekiswa yenye yemingeni ephambili yokuba ngumfazi wesibini. Njengomfazi, akukho mntu uthanda ukuthelekiswa nomnye umfazi nokuba injani imeko. Abafazi besibini bahlala bethelekiswa nendoda yabo ebenza bazive bengalunganga emtshatweni.
Xa abantwana bebandakanyeka
Umceli mngeni omkhulu wokuba ngumfazi wesibini kuxa kukho abantwana ababandakanyekayo kumtshato wangaphambili. Indibaniselwano phakathi komfazi wesibini kunye nabantwana bomyeni wakhe ayisoze igudise ngakumbi ukuba ngabakwishumi elivisayo. Ngalo mzuzu ebomini, kuba ngumzabalazo onzima ukuba umfazi wesibini adlule ngokulula.
Ukujongana nabasebukhweni
Ukuba umfazi wokuqala wayeloyikiso kumyeni wakhe kwaye engathandwa ngabazala bakhe, akhona amathuba apho kumfazi wesibini naye eza kujongana nemiceli mngeni efanayo yokukholisa abazali bomyeni wakhe. Kwikhaya ngalinye, kuhlala kukho umba wabazala, ngoko ke ayingomceli mngeni omtsha ukujongana nenkosikazi yesibini.
Amaxabiso oqhawulo mtshato
Ukuba indoda inokutshata okwesibini, yintoni eqinisekisa ukuba ayizukutshata okwesithathu? Iingcali zithi amadoda anikezela ngokulula kumtshato wabo wokuqala ahlala encama nakowesibini. Lo ngomnye wemiceli mngeni yokuba ngumfazi wesibini, yena ekufuneka ebekwe kwimeko yendoda engenakuqiniseka!
Le yeminye yemiceli mngeni yokuba ngumfazi wesibini. Ukuba ungumfazi wesibini, uya kuvuma nam ngokupheleleyo, andithi?