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Ukusukela iminyaka, abantu bebelandela la mazwi ka Chanakya. Uthathwa njengendoda enobulumko kunye nomntu onokusombulula nayiphi na ingxaki. Nokuba zezemali okanye imicimbi yobuqu, wayenoluvo lwakhe kuyo yonke into.
Apha, kweli nqaku, siza kubelana ngemigaqo uChanakya awayeshumayele ngayo malunga nabafazi. Ezi ziingcinga awabelana ngazo nabalandeli bakhe ngaphambi kokuba batshate.
Kuba umtshato yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini bomntu, amadoda ebedla ngokubonisana noChanakya malunga noluvo lwakhe malunga neentlobo zabafazi ekufuneka bezitshatile.
U-Chanakya wayewalumkisile amadoda malunga neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zabafazi ekungafanelekanga ukuba batshate nabo. Ezi zezi abasetyhini abaneempawu ezithile kwaye u-Chanakya wayewalumkisile amadoda kwangaphambili ukuba ahlukane nabafazi.
Ke, fumana ngakumbi malunga nezi zinto zinomdla zowesifazane ekufuneka uziphephe ngokupheleleyo emntwini. Funda ukuze wazi ngakumbi.
“Musa Ukububona Ubuhle Ngaphezu Kweengqondo”
Ngokubanzi, amadoda akhetha amaqabane abo obomi ngokusekwe kwinkangeleko yenenekazi kunokubona inqanaba lakhe lobukrelekrele. Kodwa, u-Chanakya walumkisa amadoda ukuba angatshati nabasetyhini abahle kuphela kodwa abangakhaliphileyo.
“Musa Ukuya Kumanenekazi Anemvelaphi Engalunganga Yentsapho”
U-Chanakya uthe umntu kufuneka ajonge imvelaphi yentombazana ngaphambi kokuba ayitshate. Ukuba imvelaphi yosapho lwentombazana imbi, ke amathuba okuba inenekazi linokujika libe ngumqhekezi wendlu.
“Zikhwebuleni Kumakhosikazi Angcolileyo Nawanyolukileyo”
Ukuba umntu obhinqileyo ukrwada kwaye utyhafile, indoda ayifanelanga ukuba imtshate kwaphela. Oku kuthetha ukuba intle yasezulwini ngaphandle. Wayekholelwa ukuba lo mfazi angangcungcuthekisa umyeni wakhe ubomi bakhe bonke.
“Sukuya Kubafazi Abangalunganga”
Umfazi onesimo esibi unokulonakalisa ngokulula ubudlelwane bakhe nomyeni wakhe ngenxa yendalo yakhe. Yiyo loo nto indoda ingafanelekanga ukuba itshate umfazi onjalo.
“Wabe ulixoki, usoloko ulixoki”
Le yinto sonke esikholelwa kuyo. U-Chanakya wayekholelwa ukuba umntu obhinqileyo oxokayo uya kuyisebenzisa ngokuchasene nendoda yakhe kwaye unokuluqhekeza nosapho. Kungenxa yoko le nto amadoda engafanele kutshata abafazi abanjalo.
“Zikhwebule Kumfazi Ongathembekanga”
Umfazi ongathembekanga kusapho lwakhe ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuthembeka kumyeni wakhe. Unokumkhohlisa kamva. Yiyo loo nto wacebisa amadoda ukuba angatshati abantu abanjalo.
“Ungatshati Umfazi Ongazi Nanye Ngemisebenzi Yasekhaya”
Ngokuka-Chanakya, umfazi ongazi kangako ngemisebenzi yasekhaya akufuneki atshate kwaphela. Nangona esi sisihloko esinokuxoxwa kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, bambalwa abantu abasakholelwayo koku.