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Umsindo uyingozi kulwalamano. Iphula ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Ibulala uthando. Itshabalalisa iimvakalelo zabantu.
Ngaba iphazamisa ulwalamano lwakho?
Mininzi imibuzo eza engqondweni yethu enxulumene nomsindo kubudlelwane, kodwa akukaze kubonakale ngathi kunesisombululo sako.
'Umsindo ofihliweyo entliziyweni uhlahlula uthando lwakho' - Umxube oxubeneyo
Inzondo kunye nomsindo kubudlelwane kuhlala kubangelwa kukungonwabi kwindlela iqabane lakho elinokuthi lenze ngayo into eliyenzileyo.
Xa umsindo uqhuba umendo wakho kubudlelwane, uyazi ukuba udibana nengozi.
Ukuthintela iingxaki ezinjalo, kufuneka ulawule umsindo wakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Ukulawula umsindo kunzima, kodwa indlela yokuwenza awunjalo. Kuthatha umonde kunye nomonde ukuze ulawule umsindo wakho.
Ke, masibone iindlela zokulawula umsindo kubudlelwane.
1. Zigcine Uzolile
Uninzi lwethu luba ndlongondlongo xa sixambulisana namaqabane ethu. Olu ndlongondlongo luthatha uhlobo lomsindo ukuba luyaqhubeka.
Zama ukungabi ndlongondlongo kwaphela. Zolile kwaye ube nengxoxo malunga neengxaki ojamelene nazo nobabini niyiyeke ihambe ngoluhlobo. Ngale ndlela, awulawuli ubundlongondlongo bakho kuphela, kodwa awuzibandakanyi nemo yomsindo kwaphela.
Le yeyona ndlela isebenzayo yokungavumeli umsindo ungene kubudlelwane bakho.
2. Thatha ixesha lokuphuma
Ukuba uziva ukuba awukwazi ukulawula umsindo wakho kubudlelwane, zithathe ixesha lokuba ngokwakho.
Ukuba uyacaphuka phakathi kwencoko kwaye ibalulekile, xelela iqabane lakho ukuba le ncoko ibalulekile kum kodwa udinga ikhefu kwaye uyakusityhala esi sihloko ukuba sibe sencoko, nje ukuba uve ukukhanya entliziyweni kwaye xa umsindo Uncedisiwe.
Ngale ndlela, ukhupha okanye uhambisa umsindo wakho.
3. Thatha umphefumlo onzulu
Gxila kumphefumlo wakho xa unomsindo. Oku kuthoba umzimba nengqondo yakho.
Ikwahlula kwimeko. Yenza ukuphazamiseka kumsindo wakho kwaye ayichaphazeli imeko okuyo. Phefumla ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwesithsaba sakho emva koko uzivumele uzole kwaye uzigcine. Ngale ndlela, uthintela umsindo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
4. Ukuguqula ukubala ukusuka ku-10 ukuya ku-1.
Le yeyona ndlela isebenzayo kwaye ithatha umsindo kude. Okomzuzu uziva ukuba unomsindo, khulula izandla zakho, tyhila inqindi lakho kwaye ubale nje ubuyele umva ukusuka kwi-10 kuye kwi-1.
Oku kukunceda ngokuthe ngqo ekunciphiseni umsindo okhulayo engqondweni yakho. Inceda ekulawuleni umsindo nangaliphi na ixesha.
5. Cinga ngaphambi kokuba uthethe
Ngobushushu bomzuzwana, kulula ukuthetha into oya kuzisola ngayo kamva. Kodwa oku kubangela ingxaki enkulu kubudlelwane. Ukuyiphepha, thatha ithutyana ukuqokelela iingcinga zakho ngaphambi kokuba uthethe nantoni na. Ngale ndlela, uyazi ukuba awuthethi kwanto ongazange wafuna ukuyithetha kodwa ngomsindo, kwavela nje.
Vumela iqabane lakho ukuba lenze okufanayo. Ngale ndlela, unokuthintela ngokuthe ngqo ukudala indlela yokuba umsindo ungene kuwo.
6. Yiba ngumphulaphuli okhutheleyo
Zama ukuphinda into ethethwa liqabane lakho uze uzame ukuphendula. Ngale ndlela, uziqhelanisa nokumamela kwaye kwangaxeshanye, uqiniseke ngeemvakalelo zeqabane lakho. Kwakhona, ufunxa umsindo owawuza kuphinda uvuke.
7. Zazi Iimpawu Zomsindo
Umsindo awusombululi naziphi na iingxaki kodwa uyonyusa. Ukuze uyeke ukuba nomsindo, yazi umsindo ogcwele ngaphakathi kuwe. Fumanisa iimpawu zomsindo wakho kwaye emva koko unokuwulawula ngcono. Yonke amanqindi ajijekileyo, ukungcangcazela, ukubila, ukubetha intloko, njl., Ziimpawu zomsindo.
Funda iindlela zokuyilawula kwaye ngaloo ndlela, unokulawula isiphumo sakho somsindo.
8. Zitshixe
Ukucaphuka kubudlelwane? Zikrobe nje qho xa unomsindo. Yindlela elula nehlekisayo yokwenza umsindo wakho uqaphele imida yawo.
Ezi ziindlela ezithile apho ungalawuleki kuphela umsindo kodwa ube nolwalamano olusempilweni nolonwabisayo.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba eli nqaku likuncedile kumendo wakho, ke yabelana ngengxelo yakho kwicandelo lokuphawula.