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Ukulawula iqabane lakho akusoloko kuyinto embi. Ukuba kunjalo okanye ukuphuculwa komtshato wakho kunye nosapho emva koko yenze ngandlela zonke. Xa abantu ababini betshata kwaye bahlala kunye izinto ezininzi ezingalindelekanga zivela. Le micimbi inokuconjululwa ngendlela enye kuphela, umgaqo omnye unike omnye. Kuhlala kusoloko kukho iqabane elinye eliphambili kubudlelwane bonke ungafiphisi, akukho sibini siyiyo ngaphandle kwemithetho yamandla. Ke ukuba uyakwazi ukuwulawula umtshato wakho ngendlela engcono, thatha ulawulo kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukuvumela ukuba ulawulwe.
Nazi ezinye zeendlela onokuthi ulawule ngalo iqabane lakho kwaye ayizukuba kwimeko engathandekiyo kwaphela.
Iingcebiso zokulawula iqabane lakho:
- Sika ikati kubusuku bokuqala: Inokuba uvile ngeli lizwi. Intsomi ithi xa uKumkani etshate nenkosazana enomsindo. Ukumkanikazi omtsha wayenekati ecaphukisayo eyathi yahlasela ukumkani ngobusuku babo bokuqala. Ukumkani waxhela ikati wathi ngokuzolileyo, 'Andizithandi iikati'. Ukusukela kwasekuqaleni komtshato wakho yenze icace kwiqabane lakho ukuba uyakubiza izithonga. Ukuba uyamnyanzela kube kanye kuyakufuneka umbambe rhoqo.
- Yenza eminye imigaqo: Ukulawula umyeni okanye umfazi wakho kulula xa unemigaqo emiselweyo. Ukuba izinto azizukulawula emtshatweni emva koko nguwe oza kubeka imigaqo. 'Kuya kufuneka ubuye kwisidlo sangokuhlwa nge-8'. Ungashiya iziphumo zokungathobeli zingachazwanga. Beka ngokuthobekileyo kodwa ngokuqinileyo kwaye uya kuthathwa ngokungathí sina.
- Landela iMithetho Yakho: Ukuba ufuna ukulawula iqabane lakho kuya kufuneka ulandele imigaqo eyenziwe nguwe. Nawe ngekhe uze kwisidlo sangokuhlwa ngo-9. Kuphela ukuba ulandela le mithetho uya kuthi awuhloniphe umyalelo wakho.
- Hlala Uzolile Ngomsindo: Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukubonisa ukungoneliseki uzolile. Ukuba uyazivumela ukuba uhambe unomsindo emva koko ungothusa iqabane lakho ekuthobeleni amaxesha ambalwa okuqala. Ekugqibeleni baya kusiqhela umsindo wakho kwaye ulinde ukuba uqhushumbe.
- Phatha Kodwa Ngobulali: Ukulawula umyeni wakho ngokukodwa akunakwenziwa kwangaphambili. Ukuba u-ego wakhe wonzakele akazokumamela nokuba unyanisile. Funda ngeendlela ezinobuqili. Ukuba awufuni ukuba aphume kunye nabahlobo bakhe sukungxola, tsala nje ubuso obuhlungu ngamehlo aneenyembezi kwaye uyakunyibilika njenge bhotolo.
- Qinisa iiReins kanye ngeXeshana: Xa izinto zingalawuleki nyani emtshatweni yenza unyango lothusayo. Xelela iqabane lakho ngendlela engqwabalala ukuba xa bengazilungisi iindlela zabo kuya kufuneka ujonge 'enye indlela'. Isebenza njengomlingo kodwa kuphela ukuba uyisebenzisa kakuhle.
Sebenzisa ezi ngcebiso zobudlelwane ukulawula iqabane lakho.