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Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uthandane nabantu ababini kwaye ubathande ngaxeshanye? Ewe, oko kuvakala ngathi kudlala ngomlilo, akunjalo? Ukuba bobabini bayayazi loo nto, baya kukuntywila.
Ewe, kuvavanyo, amanye amadoda avumile ukuba athandana nomntu ongatshatanga naye. Xa bebuzwa ukuba kutheni besemtshatweni xa benothando ngaphandle komtshato, baphendula ngokulula ukuba babathanda bobabini inkosikazi kunye nenkosikazi!
Funda kwakhona: Iimpawu zoMcimbi weemvakalelo
Ngaba baxhamla? Okanye ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubathande abantu ababini ngaxeshanye? Makhe sixoxe.
# 1
Okokuqala, makhe sithethe malunga uninzi lwamadoda alala kunye nabanye abafazi ngaphandle komtshato. Leyo yinkanuko kwaye ayilo thando!
#Mbini
Luthini ke uthando? Ukwenza lula, uthando luhlobo lobudlelwane obusondeleyo oba nabo kunye nokufikelela kwinqanaba apho ubomi bubonakala bungenanjongo ngaphandle kwaloo mntu. Uziva uphelele phambi kwabo.
Ubudlelwane buzele ziimvakalelo ezintle. Ke, ukuba uthando lolona hlobo lukhulu kakhulu kunobomi beemvakalelo, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uhlakulele uhlobo olunye lweemvakalelo nabantu ababini ngaxeshanye?
# 3
Iingcali zobudlelwane zithi ngaxa lithile ebomini, abanye abantu abatshatileyo banokuphuhlisa iimvakalelo malunga nomntu ongatshatanga naye. Kodwa oko akufuneki ukuba kubhalwe njengothando njengoko kunokuba kukuthandana okanye ukukhanuka okanye enye into phakathi.
# 4
Ke, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uzive unamathele kumntu ongaphandle komtshato? Ewe ngamanye amaxesha inokwenzeka. Abanye abantu abatshatileyo bade baphuphe nomnye umntu kangangexesha elithile.
Abantu bathanda ukucinga okanye iphupha losuku malunga nokwenza uthando kubantu abanomdla. Kodwa ukuphupha akubangeli ngxaki emtshatweni. Ayinabungozi.
# 5
Xa utsalwa ngumntu ongatshatanga naye, ngaba unokuyeka? Ngaba unokuzilawula iimvakalelo zakho?
Iingcali ngengqondo zithi awukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo kodwa uyakwazi ukuzilawula izenzo zakho. Unokuyiyeka ingqondo yakho ukuba ingatsaleleki emntwini kodwa ungazinqanda ekubalekeni emva kwaloo mntu.
# 6
Iingcali zengqondo zithi awudingi ukuzibek 'ityala xa ingqondo yakho iphupha ngokulala nommelwane wakho oshushu okanye umntu osebenza naye. Kodwa ungasoloko uyeka ukuzalisekisa ezo ngcinga.
Zonke iingxaki zinokuvela xa uzama ukuphumeza ezo mbono ziphambeneyo. Xa ungenzi nto, ezo ngcinga ziya kukhawuleza zikhawuleze kwaye umtshato wakho uya kuhlala uzinzile.
# 7
Ke, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubathande abantu ababini ngexesha elinye? Nangona kubonakala kunokwenzeka, ukuba ujonga nzulu, enye yezi zinto zombini inokuba yinkanuko, umtsalane, intabatheko, okanye imbeko ecacileyo, ukuthanda iimvakalelo, umtsalane wobukrelekrele okanye enye into engenakuba luthando lwenene.