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Umoya ungqindilili yi-tension. Abantwana ababini bajongana. Phakathi kwabo kukho amavili amancinci ashushu, angenakuxhathiswa kunye ne-injini ye-chrome eveziweyo kunye ne-smoothie-smeared lacquer topcoat ebomvu. Kwaye ke kwenzeka. Umntwana wakho uyakhwaza ngowam! ukuxhwila isithuthi esincinci kunye nokubetha umchasi wakhe ngokungathi nguCarrie kunye noBig bamshiya nje esibingelelweni. Wenza ntoni ngokulandelayo? Tsalela umntwana wakho ecaleni ukuze ufumane intliziyo-to-intliziyo / ixesha lokuphuma? Ucel’ uxolo, ngoxa uqubuda ngokoqobo, ukhathazekile, kumama womnye umntwana? Ubambe umntwana wakho kwaye ubaleke? Apha, iindlela ezisixhenxe ezihlakaniphile, ezizolileyo, ezinengqiqo zokujongana nokubetha umntwana omncinci-zonke iindlela ezingcono kunokulwa okanye ukuhamba.

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1. Zola.

Uyazi ukuba isicatshulwa sePinterest Abantwana bangabalingani abakhulu, ngoko ke ubanike into entle ukuba baxeliswe? Yinyani. Ukuba uyakhupha, ungxole okanye ubambe umntwana wakho emva kokuba ebethe, usenokuxelisa loo kuziphatha aze acinge, Le yindlela esibaphatha ngayo abanye xa sicaphukile. Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza-ngalo naliphi na ixesha loxinzelelo-kukuphefumla. Ngokwenene unamandla amaninzi okuthintela le meko ukuba ingaphindi, ibhala ingcaphephe enye . Kuphela nje kufuneka ulawule iimvakalelo zakho ngaphambi kokuba uncede umntwana wakho alawule eyakhe.

2. Khumbula yena'incinci kakhulu.

Abantwana babetha xa amandla abo (sele emncinci) okulawula ukuphoxeka aphela, xa besoyika, bevuseleleke kakhulu, baziva benqanyuliwe kuwe kunye/okanye xa bengakwazi ukuziveza ngomlomo. Ubuchopho babo obukhulayo abukhuli kwaye i-bandwidth yabo yeemvakalelo ilayishwa ngokulula ngoko ke ukubetha kudla ngokuba yinto engxamisekileyo kwaye ayicwangciswanga kwangaphambili (funda: abenzelwe ukuba babe ngababulali). Ukwazi oku kunokukunceda endaweni yehlazo kunye nomsindo wakho (masiyibize 'i-shanger') ngovelwano.

3. Yiba nemantra.

Xa umntwana wakho ezolile (akayi kuthabatha nto ngelixa ehlaziyekile), phinda ibinzana eliphambili elahlula iimvakalelo kwizenzo. Enye ingcaphephe icebisa ukuba uxelele abantwana, Mad kulungile. Kodwa abantu abafanelanga ukubetha. Okanye Kulungile ukuba nomsindo kodwa akulunganga ukubetha. Ukubetha kuyabenzakalisa abantu. Enye inketho? Asibethi. Andisoze ndikubethe, kwaye andiyi kukuvumela ukuba undibethe. Kodwa nokuba uthini na, yiloo nto uyithethayo yenza oko kuyabala. Ngaphezu kwako konke, yiba nobubele. Nceda umntwana wakho athethe ngomsindo, ngoloyiko nangentlungu yakhe, ngoxa wena ubuyisela iimvakalelo zakhe kuye: Ndayibona indlela owakhathazeka ngayo xa umntakwenu engafuni ukudlala nawe. Oko kwakukwenza uzive udakumbile ngokwenene. Qinisekisa ukusabela kwakhe ngokweemvakalelo, kodwa ubeke imida ecacileyo kumzimba. Nje ukuba akhuphe iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye abone uthando lwakho alunamqathango, umsindo wakhe uya kuphela kwaye uya kukwazi ngcono ukufunxa izifundo ozama ukuzifundisa.

4. Musa ukohlwaya.

Iindaba ezimbi kuye nabani na ofuna iziphumo. Ukohlwaya umntwana obethayo akuyeki ukubetha, uyabhala ingcaphephe efanayo. Yongeza nje uloyiko lomntwana, okwenza ukuba ikamva libetheke ngakumbi. Ukuyeka ukubetha kube kanye, kufuneka ujongane neemvakalelo eziqhuba ukubetha.

5. Lindela.

UGqr. Sears ibiza oku kulandelelwa isiqalo. Zeziphi iimeko ezidla ngokundulela ukubetha iziqendu? Zibhale phantsi nize nibonisane ngezisombululo. Ukukhuphisana kwabantakwenu? Zama ukwakha ixesha elinye kunye naloo mntwana kusuku lwakho. Iingxabano zebala lokudlala? Hlala usondelene ngokomzimba ukuze umntwana wakho azive kukho umnatha wokhuseleko-kwaye ke ungangena phambi kokuba nabani na abethwe. Nje ukuba uqalise ukuqikelela ngcono ezi meko, unokuzisusa ngcono xa udlula, okanye uziphephe ngokupheleleyo.

6. Thatha ixesha lokungena.

Ukuphuma kwexesha ngokuqhelekileyo xa umntwana esuswa kwabanye kwaye athunyelwe kude, ngokuqhelekileyo kwigumbi lakhe. Ngaba kuyimfuneko ukunika wonke umntu ixesha lokuphefumla? Mhlawumbi (ngokukodwa, omnye unontlalontle esimaziyo ucebisa ukuba imizuzu echithwe ngexesha lokuphuma ihambelana neminyaka yomntwana, ngoko umntwana oneminyaka emithathu ufumana imizuzu emithathu, oneminyaka emine ubudala imizuzu emine, njalo njalo). Kodwa abaninzi baye bafumanisa ukuba ixesha lokuphuma libuyile, likhokelela kunxibelelwano oluncinci kunye nobundlobongela obungakumbi. Kunoko, abanye abazali bakhetha ukukhe bangene.' Uyamsusa umntwana wakho kuloo meko—ngethemba lokuba ngaphambi koko kwanasemva kokuba ebethe—yiya kwindawo ezolileyo, nihlale kunye ukuze uzole. Injongo kukumenza azive ekhuselekile. (Kuyoyikisa ukuphulukana nolawulo, ukuqonda ukuba wenze into oyenzileyo wayesazi ubungafaneleki ukwenza, kwaye ukuba wonke umntu, ngakumbi abo ubathandayo kakhulu, unomsindo kuwe!) Emva kokuba ekwenzile (ukulindela ukukhala okukhulu), unokuthetha ngeemvakalelo ezamenza wabetha kwasekuqaleni.

7. Mcele abethe umqamelo.

Okanye phefumlela phezulu kathathu. Okanye ubale ukuya kwishumi. Okanye umbethe ngeenyawo. Zonke zingcono kunokubetha umntu. Embindini woqhwithela, enye ingcali icebisa ukuba ujonge umntwana wakho uze uthi, Masiye kubetha loo nto kwenye indawo. Kodwa ungadlala indima ngexesha lokuphumla, kwaye wenze umntwana wakho enze into aza kuyenza endaweni yexesha elizayo xa eziva efuna ukubetha. Omnye umnyangi ufanisa oku nokudala inkumbulo yezihlunu, enokuthi ke ifikeleleke xa izinto zishushu.

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