Thembela kuSifanele Sithethe rhoqo ngooLwezine, apho kuLwazi Gibson Johns udliwano-ndlebe nosaziwayo obathandayo kunye nabaphembeleli . Bhalisa ku Sifanele Sithethe Apha .
UTyler Whitman ulungele isizini yakhe yokuqala epheleleyo Uluhlu lweedola ezizigidi eNew York .
Umseki we I-Triplemint Ujoyine umboniso ka-Bravo oqhuba ixesha elide lokuthengisa izindlu phakathi kwisizini yakhe yesibhozo, kwaye isizini yesithoba esandula kuqaliswa imbeka njenge-quasi-underdog xa ithelekiswa neqela lakhe leenkwenkwezi uRyan Serhant noFredrik Eklund. Kodwa uWhitman uneminqweno yokuba mkhulu njengabo.
UTyler Whitman ujoyine iPodcast yodliwanondlebe lwenkcubeko yoLwazi, Sifanele Sithethe , kule veki, apho abonise khona okuza kuza kwisizini yesi-9 Uluhlu lweedola ezizigidi eNew York , wandixelela indlela aqale ngayo Abafazi bezindlu bokwenyani kwisiXeko saseNew York inkwenkwezi uKelly Bensimon kwenye yeziganeko zakhe ezivulekileyo zendlu, wavula malunga nokungachazwa ngohambo lwakhe lokunciphisa umzimba kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Ndidlule kuguquko lwakutsha nje kwinto ethethwa ngala mava kum, uxelele kuLwazi. Ukujonga emva kwayo, hayi, ndandingoyiki ukwabelana ngayo, kodwa ndandidibanisa konke ukuzithemba kwam kwelo bali ngokukhawuleza. Ngequbuliso ndangathi, ‘Isizathu sokuba ndilunge ngokwaneleyo emehlweni kawonke-wonke kungenxa yokuba ndinalo eli bali.’ Ekugqibeleni kwafuna ukuba nje ndibe ngathi, ‘Hayi, ndim. Ndingumntu owahlukileyo. Ndingaphezulu kwebali lokunciphisa umzimba.'
Mamela kwimamela kum Uluhlu lweedola ezizigidi eNew York inkwenkwezi Isiqendu esipheleleyo sikaTyler Whitman Sifanele Sithethe ngezantsi, kwaye uqhubeke ufunda amagqabantshintshi kudliwano-ndlebe:
UTyler Whitman ngokudibana noKelly Bensimon Uluhlu lweedola ezizigidi kweli xesha lonyaka: Khange ndibenayo ikhebula, ngathi, iminyaka emihlanu okanye emithandathu, ngoko bendisekutsha Abafazi basemakhaya uthe phithi. Uthathekile! Emuva ngexesha lokuziva kwam kubomi bakhe, kwaye ndicinga ukuba uninzi lwaba bafazi banomdla kakhulu, kodwa bendicinga ukuba unomdla kakhulu. Emva koko, ngokucacileyo, xa wayengena kwi-real estate, wonke umntu weva ngayo. Kwakungathi, ‘uKelly Bensimon ukwi-real estate!’ Ndasondela kuye. Ngokucacileyo unxibelelene kakuhle, ngokuqinisekileyo [uyazi] abantu abaninzi abazizityebi, ngoko iyavakala into yokuba ukushishino. Andizange ndicinge ukuba angafika, kodwa ndammema. Emva koko weza! Yayisisihlandlo sokuqala ndidibana naye ubuso ngobuso, kwaye kufuneka ndikuxelele: Wayelunge kakhulu. Uzenza ezi ndaba ngababantu uthi bazophambana, bakhohlakele, bazobanzima. besincokola nje ngokuncipha nokuba kunjani, ndabe ndimbonisa indawo. Uyadlala kwaye uyonwabisa kwaye unamandla. Ndandingathi, ‘Ndiniphosisile nonke! Ungumntu olungileyo, ubuncinane ngendlela endijamelana ngayo nawe ngoku.’ Noko ke, andikade ndenze isivumelwano naye. Ndifuna ukwenza isivumelwano naye. […] Ndisandula ukufunda oku - hayi kuye kodwa kumqeqeshi wam wamahashe - ukuba ukhwela kwifama enye nam. Ndandingathi, ‘Asikhange sikhwele kunye njani?’ Mna naye singaba nomboniso wehashe. Ngaba unokuthelekelela?
UTyler Whitman kwimbono yakhe eguqukayo yohambo lwakhe lokuncipha: Ndiye ndadlula kwinguqu yamva nje kwinto athetha ngayo loo mava kum. Inxalenye yesizathu sokuba ndibe likhoboka lokutya kwaye ndiye ndasokola kumlutha ngokubanzi kungenxa yokuba ndizama ukuzixabisa, akunjalo? Ndandisokola kukungabinakulunga ngokwaneleyo okanye ukuziva ndifanelwe zizinto ezithile. Ukujonga emva kwayo, hayi, ndandingoyiki ukwabelana ngayo, kodwa ndandidibanisa konke ukuzithemba kwam kwelo bali ngokukhawuleza. Ngequbuliso ndangathi, ‘Isizathu sokuba ndilunge ngokwaneleyo emehlweni kawonke-wonke kungenxa yokuba ndinalo eli bali.’ Ekugqibeleni kwafuna ukuba nje ndibe ngathi, ‘Hayi, ndim. Ndingumntu owahlukileyo. Ndingaphezulu kwebali lokwehla kobunzima bomzimba.’ Kodwa, ndandisengqondweni emva phayaa ekuphela kwendlela abantu abaya kufuna ukuva ngayo ibali lam kukuba ndibaxelela eli bali limnandi lokuncipha. Nto leyo kum, yayiseyintsikelelo enjalo, kuba iye yandinika ukuzithemba. Kuye kwandenza ndaziva ndingumntu omtsha.
UTyler Whitman kubudlelwane bakhe kunye Uluhlu lweedola ezizigidi iqabane likaRyan Serhant: Enye yezinto esinxibelelana ngazo noRyan malunga nokuba akukho nalinye lamalungu akhoyo afanayo kukuba onke amanye amalungu asebenzela ezi nkampani zithengisa ngamagama amakhulu. Bafakela kwinkqubo yomnye umntu, kwaye bafakela kuzo zonke izinto ezintsha eziphuhliswayo ezisele zikhona. Ngaphambi kokuba ndiphoswe kulo mboniso, ndandibophelelekile kwaye ndizimisele ukwakha enye yezo kwaye ndingahambi ngeyomnye umntu. Ndiqalile I-Triplemint xa sasibathathu kwaye ngoku singama-400. Ndisandula ukuba kwindlela eyahlukileyo yomsebenzi, kwaye uRyan, ngokufanayo, wenza into efanayo. Yena kunye nam sinaloo nto ngokufanayo, kwaye ngumahluko omkhulu ukuba yena kunye nam sithelekise nawo onke amanye amalungu akwizixeko zombini. Akukho mntu wenze loo nto ngokwenene. Xa amalungu e-cast endinika ixesha elinzima malunga ne-Triplemint kunye nale nto kwaye, ndifana, 'Awazi ukuba kunjani. Awuzange uqalise inkampani yakho. Awuzange wakhe nto.’ Kodwa uyayenza. Yena kunye nam sifumana omnye komnye ngokusekwe kwizinto ezizinjongo zethu, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uhamba phambili kunam, ngokuqinisekileyo. Ndithobeke ngokwaneleyo [ukutsho oko], kodwa iihambo zethu zilungelelaniswe ngakumbi.
Tyler Whitman kwi kubangela isiphithiphithi ngokunxiba iibhulukhwe zesweat e Uluhlu lweedola ezizigidi phosa ifoto: Ndingakuxelela? Okokuqala, ndingathanda ukukhwaza u-Armani ngokundenza ndifaneleke kwicandelo lamagqabaza. Enkosi kakhulu. Abantu babesithi, ‘Ubucinga ntoni xa ubuthenga la suti?’ Ndandisithi, ‘Bendicinga ukuba ndimhle ngeyona ndlela kuyo!’ Uyazi ukuba maxa wambi usinxiba njani isinxibo uze uthi, ‘Wow. ! Ndiziva ndonwabile ngokwenene kule nto.’ Ndavakalelwa ngaloo ndlela ke kuloo suti. Yayimalunga nayo yonke loo nto. […] Bendicinga ukuba kumnandi kwaye kubuhlungu ngenxa yokuba sonke besinxibe iibhulukhwe zesweat kunyaka ophelileyo, kodwa ezi ibiziibhulukhwe zesuti ezikumgangatho ophezulu. Ndicinga ukuba abaphulaphuli babenezabo izimvo kuyo! Phulaphula, abanye abantu babeyithanda, kodwa abantu abaninzi babefana, ‘Ngoobani ababenokunxiba abantu ababalekayo xa besiya kufota?’ Ndifana nokuthi, ‘Le yeyona suti yexabiso eliphezulu endakha ndayithenga ebomini bam.’ Enoba yintoni na.
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