Kutshanje ndikunye nomfana omtsha—yaye ngoyena mntu ubalaseleyo ndakha ndathandana naye. Sele singabahlobo abasenyongweni. Sibonakala sicinga iingcamango ezifanayo, kwaye silungelelaniswa ngokupheleleyo kwimilinganiselo; sihlala sihleka. Ndivuya kakhulu ukuba ndimfumene. Kodwa kutshanje siqale ukwabelana ngesondo, kwaye...Esi sesona siqalo sibi kubudlelwane bezesondo endakha ndanabo. Akabonakali ethatha iimpawu zam ebhedini. Akamkhulu ngomlomo, nto leyo ibaluleke kakhulu kum. Kwaye ndivakalelwa kukuba umnqweno wam wokusondelana uyaphela. Nangona lo ingumntu endimbona ehleli naye ngonaphakade, ndiziva ngathi ndigwetyiwe ngokwesini. Singangena njani kwiphepha elinye apha? Okanye ngaba oku kuya kusilela, kuba asihambelani ngokwesondo?
Esinye seziqwenga endizithandayo zesayensi yobudlelwane kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo izoba kulo mbandela kanye. Ngokwalo phando, Abaphandi baseToronto bazimisele abantu bawela kwiinkampu ezimbini. Elinye iqela lalineenkolelo ze-sex destiny, okuthetha ukuba ukuba nekhemistry enkulu phakathi kwamaphepha kwangoko yayiluphawu lokuhambelana kobudlelwane obuhle. Elinye iqela lalineenkolelo zokukhula ngokwesondo, kuba babekholelwa ukuba isini esilungileyo yayilulwimi oluphuhlileyo phakathi kwamaqabane. Ewe, kuthatha umsebenzi othile.
Abo baneenkolelo zokukhula ngokwesondo, abakholelwa ukuba i-chemistry elungileyo yafunyanwa ngonxibelelwano kunye nokusebenza, bavame ukuba nobudlelwane obungcono kunye nobomi bobulili obushushu.
Isifundo sesi: Ukwabelana ngesondo okushushu akukho malunga nokwazi kwangoko ukuba yintoni eyenza iqabane lakho lihambe. Ukwabelana ngesondo okukhulu malunga nokuba nengqondo evulekileyo, ukumamela ingxelo kunye nokufuna ukuhambelana ngakumbi neminqweno yesini yeqabane lakho.
Ukubheja kwam kukuba isoka lakho elimangalisayo lingathanda ukukhula nawe kwaye likwenze wonwabe kwaye wonwabe ngakumbi ngobomi bakho bokwabelana ngesondo. Nantsi into ongayenza ukuze umkhokele kuloo nto ... ngobunono.
Ingcebiso ngaphakathi kwigumbi lokulala.
Uninzi lwabantu, ingakumbi amabhinqa (afundiswe ukuba angabi namdla ngesini), awacacelwa yinto ayifunayo ebhedini—nokuba ucinga ukuba uthetha phandle. Thetha kakhulu, uthethe kakhulu ngento oyithandayo, kwaye ungaqinisekisi into ongayifuniyo-oko kuthetha ukuba ungaze, UNGAZE wenze i-orgasm yakho. Kungabonakala ngathi yinto efanelekileyo yokwenza okwangoku, kodwa ndidibene nabasetyhini abaye bangena kwixesha elide lokukhohlisa, ukuxoka kunye nokukhathazeka ngokwesondo. Nyaniseka xa ebetha onke amanqaku afanelekileyo.
Xa engekho, musa ukothuka. Endaweni yoko, phumla-vala amehlo akho, nkqu-kwaye ulawule lo loliwe we-choo choo. Hambisa izandla zakhe apho ungathanda ukuba zibekho. Ngexesha lomlomo, yenza iziphakamiso malunga nesantya, uxinzelelo, ukubamba. Uyayazi into eye yakusebenzela kwixesha elidlulileyo, akunjalo? Cebisa istroke. Ndiyakuthanda xa uhamba kancinci kwaye uxinzelelo luqinile. Thetha. Ukuba uthatha isikhokelo sakho buqu, mhlawumbi lixesha lokuhambisa le ngxoxo ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala.
Ingcebiso ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala.
Kubalulekile ukuba amaqabane axoxe ngobomi babo bobulili ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala. Wonke umntu wenza ngcono xa enempendulo ecacileyo, ngokuthe ngqo-kodwa ngexesha okanye emva kokwabelana ngesondo lixesha elisengozini. Kungcono ukuba ungathethi nantoni na enokuthi iqondwe kakubi njengoko ndingekho kuyo, ngelixa uhamba ze. Ke, gcina ingxelo ethe ngqo yomzuzwana ozolileyo kwisidlo sangokuhlwa ekhaya (okanye into enjalo).
Xa ixesha lilungile, yiya kuyo. Yithi nje, Sithandwa, ndingathanda ukongeza ngomlomo ngakumbi xa silala ngesondo. Ngaba sinokuzama ngakumbi / ngaphantsi koxinzelelo lolwimi kunye nemivimbo emfutshane kwixesha elizayo? Nanini na usenza loo nto, indenza ndibe neentloni. Okanye ukuba ucinga ukuba ufuna i-foreplay engaphezulu, yithi, Ngexesha elizayo xa sisabelana ngesondo, ndibheja ukuba ndiza kwehla ngokukhawuleza ukuba sinyusa umdlalo wangaphambili. Masidlale ngeenxa zonke; ndothuse. Kwakhona, ungalibali ukubuza, Yintoni ofuna ndiyenze ngakumbi? Ndifuna ukwenza kanye loo nto. Emva koko qhwanyaza, okanye uncume ngesidlele. Oku kufanele kube mnandi.
Intetho yokwabelana ngesondo inokuba yintshayelelo emnandi yento yokwenyani. Zama ukungagxininisi malunga nenyaniso yokuba awukabugqibi ubuchule bakho; into ohamba kuyo iqhelekile ngokupheleleyo. Ubomi besondo obulungileyo bumalunga nokukhuthaza ukubeka umsebenzi kuwo. Ke ... zibophelele ekubekeni lo msebenzi kuwo.
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