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Sonke sivile ukuba akukho bantu bagqibelele kwaye ukungafezeki kuyinto entle. Ngaba siyayikholelwa? Ewe sakwenza njalo. Wonke umntu uyazenza iimpazamo. Ke, akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo.
Kodwa xa kufikwa ekubeni ngumfazi, amadoda afuna ukugqibelela. Yima! Ukugqibelela kwiintsilelo abanazo. Amadoda aneemfuno ezithile kubafazi babo kwaye kungenjalo.
Makhe sithethe ngazo zonke izinto ezinokwenziwa ngumntu obhinqileyo emtshatweni ukuba zigqibelele indoda yakhe.
Ayizenzululwazi zerokethi ekufuneka uziqonde. Ezi zinto zilula kwaye zibalulekile eziyimfuneko yendoda nganye emfazini wayo. Ukuba ufuna umyeni wakho onwabe, kuya kufuneka ke ulandele ezi zinto zisisiseko zomtshato.
Umtshato unzima kwaye sonke siyawazi. Kodwa ukusebenza kunye neqabane lakho kuxhomekeke ekubeni wena kunye neqabane lakho niyadibana kangakanani.
Abasetyhini besiba nzima ngakumbi kwaye amadoda eyinto elula, kulula ukuba umtshato usebenze. Kodwa kubonakala ngathi akukho lula njengoko kuvakala.
Izizathu zolu hlobo zizinto ezisisiseko amadoda nabafazi abalibele ukuba nazo kwaye bazilandele emtshatweni.
Eli nqaku lelabo bonke abantu basetyhini abakulungeleyo ukuzilungisa ngcono kunoko bebekwenza ngaphambili emtshatweni. Kukubenza baqonde apho kusonakala khona.
Masibone zonke izinto ezisisiseko sokuba ngumfazi ogqibeleleyo.
1. Ukunyaniseka
Ewe ukunyaniseka yeyona nto ibalulekileyo emtshatweni. Emtshatweni, konke malunga nokuxhasana kunye nokuma kunye, ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukuze wonke umtshato usebenze, nokuba ungakanani na kwinqanaba, umntu kufuneka ahlala ethembekile kwiqabane lakhe, kanye ngendlela ekufuneka bethembekile ngayo kuwe.
Kuya kufuneka uthembe iqabane lakho malunga nokungakuqhathi. Ukuze ube ngumfazi ogqibeleleyo, kuya kufuneka uthembeke kwiqabane lakho mzuzu ngamnye. Nokuba wena kunye nomyeni wakho niya kwinqanaba elibi, kuya kufuneka uthembeke kumyeni wakho. Ukuba uyamthanda umyeni wakho kwaye naye uyakuthanda, uya kuwusebenza ngokuqinisekileyo nakwinqanaba eligqithisileyo lomtshato wakho.
Nokuba yintoni, ukuhlala unyanisekile emtshatweni sisitshixo sokuba ngumfazi ogqibeleleyo.
2. Ukunyaniseka
Ukunyaniseka kwaye kuya kuhlala kuyinkqubo elungileyo ebomini nasemtshatweni.
Ukuze ube ngumfazi ogqibeleleyo, kufuneka uthembeke nokuba imeko imbi kangakanani nokuba iyakuchasa. Ukunyaniseka yindlela eya emtshatweni ophumelelayo.
Yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ezisisiseko ezifunekayo kuwo wonke umtshato. Ayisiyondoda kuphela, umfazi kufuneka anyaniseke. Imitshato iyaqhekeka ukuba elinye lamaqabane alinyanisekanga.
Ukuqonda izizathu zokutshata, bekusoloko kufunyaniswa ukuba imitshato ingawohloka ukuba elinye lamaqabane alinyanisekanga.
Ukuba ngumfazi ogqibeleleyo kufuna ukunyaniseka nokuzinikezela kwinyaniso. Ukuba unayo, ugqibelele, milady!
3. Ukukhathalela
Umfazi ngokuzalwa unenkathalo ngakumbi kunendoda. Kodwa umfazi otshatileyo akanyanzelekanga ukuba azikhathalele, kodwa nomyeni wakhe kunye nabazala bakhe. Yonke indoda iyathanda ukuba nomfazi okhathalayo. Bayayithanda inyani yokutshata umfazi okhathalayo. Baziva ngathi banokunxibelelana ngakumbi nabo.
Amadoda afuna umhlobo, iqabane, isithandwa kunye nomama ngohlobo lomfazi. Ukuba umnika loo nto, ke umkhathalele ngokwaneleyo ukuba angakubiza ngokuba ngumfazi ogqibeleleyo.
4. Imfesane
Kuyimfuneko esisiseko emtshatweni. Imfesane ikwenza ube nentliziyo entle kwaye yonke indoda ifuna umfazi onentliziyo entle. Ukuba nemfesane kuzo naziphi na iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo umyeni wakho uziva yenye into ebalulekileyo yokuba ngumfazi ogqibeleleyo. Kuya kufuneka ubonakalise ukuba umkhathalele ngokwaneleyo ngaye kwaye ububele bakho yeyona nto imenza azive kamnandi. Ukuba unobubele kwiimvakalelo zakhe kwaye uyayiqonda, sele ugqibelele emehlweni endoda yakho.
5. Ukusondelelana
Ukusondelelana yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka wonke umntu ukuba abe nayo emtshatweni. Ukusondelelana nomyeni wakho sisitshixo kumfazi ogqibeleleyo. Ukusondelelana kunokuba ngumlomo okanye ngokwasemzimbeni. Isenokuba kwimiqondiso. Logama nje kukho ukusondelelana kubudlelwane, kunzima ukuba umtshato uqhawuke. Ukuphulukana nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kudala umohluko emtshatweni kwaye ke oko kukhokelela kwiziphelo ezaphukileyo.
Umfazi ogqibeleleyo ngumntu onazo zonke ezi zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini bakhe nasemtshatweni, naphakathi kwendoda yakhe. Ukuba uziva uswele enye yezi, qalisa ukuyibethelela ukuze ube ngumfazi ogqibeleleyo kwindoda yakho.
Khumbula, ayisiyiyo irokethi yesayensi ukugqibelela kukungafezeki onakho neqabane lakho. Yinyani kwisiseko ngasinye esikhankanyiweyo kwaye uya kuphumelela emtshatweni wakho.
