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'Akukho ndoda inokuze imthande njengaye.' Onke amantombazana ayavumelana noku. Ukuba oonyana basondele kunina, iintombi zezona zisondeleyo kuyise. Akukho mntu unokuze alubethe uthando lukayise kwintombi yakhe.
Nabani na onokuba ngutata, kodwa kuthatha umphefumlo ukuba ngutata wokwenene. Umntu akanakuba ngutata ngaphandle kokuthatha uxanduva lobuzali.
Intlungu yokukhulisa amantombazana abo iminyaka kwaye emva kokubakhulisa njengesityalo somntwana, omnye umntu uthi uyabathanda kwaye ubathatha ubomi babo bonke.
Eli nqaku liza kusilela ekubeni kutheni intombi ihlala iyakuba yeyona nto ixabisekileyo kutata, kodwa ukwenza usuku lweLizwi likaTata wakho lukhetheke, sidibanise izizathu ezibaluleke kakhulu nezifanelekileyo apho zonke iintombi zinokuhambelana nazo.
Makhe sibone ukuba zeziphi izizathu ezenza ukuba iintombi zisondele kakhulu kuyise:
Uyise kunye nentombi yokuDibanisa
Ewe, ngelixa oonyana bezinto ezithandekayo zoomama, iintombi zihlala zilawula iintliziyo zikayise. Kuhlala kusithiwa okuchaseneyo kuyadibana, ewe kuyalandela nalapha. Ootata bathambekele ngakumbi kwiintombi zabo kunye neentombi zihlala zithambekele kooyise ngenxa efanayo.
Inqanaba loKhuselo
Ootata bahlala bezikhusela ngakumbi malunga neentombi zabo. Bahlala benoloyiko lokuphulukana nabanye abantu. Baqinisekisa ukuba akukho bungozi buze bufike kwibhabhathane labo elincinci. Bayayazi indlela amadoda alungileyo nababi ngayo. Ziyakhusela ukuba kungabikho mntu ulungileyo oya kubathanda ngaphezu kwakhe kwaye indoda embi ayiyi kubenzakalisa nangaliphi na iindleko. Utata uhlala ekhusela ngakwintombi yabo xa kuthelekiswa nonyana wabo.
Iintombi zezona zixhobo zixabisekileyo
Intombi ihlala igqalwa njengempahla katata. Utata akaze athathe nantoni na kwiintombi zakhe, kunokuba aqhubeke emnika ubomi bonke. Utata uhlala eyithatha intombi yakhe njengesixhobo sobomi. Nokuba utata usisityebi okanye ulihlwempu, kodwa ukuba unentombi, uhlala eyithatha njengelitye elingenakuthelekiswa nanto. Akukho golide inokubetha ixabiso lentombi.
Umtshato wentombi
Ukusukela mhla intombi izalwa ngutata, uphupha ngomtshato wentombi yakhe aze ayinike omnye umntu isandla. Khawufane ucinge ukhulisa intombi iminyaka, ithathe njengesiqwengana sentliziyo yakho kwaye ngenye imini kuya kufuneka uyinike omnye umntu. Nangona wonke utata ephupha ngayo, ukanti uhlala esoyika kwaye elusizi ukuyenza. Ungathini ukuba akakhethanga iqabane elilungileyo kuye okanye uza kwenza ntoni ukuba akakwazi ukumnika enye indoda.
Yintoni Ikhaya Ngaphandle Komntwana Oyintombazana?
Ayingootata kuphela, kodwa lonke usapho luyayithanda xa kuzalwa intombazana. Intombazana elusapho ayisiyo kuphela oyintanda kabawo kodwa ipayi yomntu wonke. Ukusukela ngomhla wokuzalwa kwentombazana, wonke umntu unemincili yokumkhulisa, amkhulise, amfundise emva koko atshate. Iba liphupha losapho lonke ukumbona ekufumaneni komtshakazi. Intombi ithathwa njengobutyebi bendlu.
Konwaba kakhulu ukunxiba intombi
Wonke umntu osapho unemincili ngakumbi yokumnxibisa kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba ezelwe. Xa intombi izalwa ngutata, utata unemincili kakhulu kangangokuba uza kumthengela izinto ezintle kangaka. Usoloko enomdla wokumfumanela izinto ezintsha kunye neempahla. Ngokungafaniyo noonyana, iintombi azisoze zadika ukudlala kunye nokunxiba nazo.
Amabali okuphumelela entombi ayenze ukuba utata wakhe abe neqhayiya
Nanini na xa unyana ephumelela, utata kunye nosapho abonwabanga kwaye bonwabile kakhulu xa intombi yabo iphumelela. Sonke siyazi ukuba unyana angayenza into okanye enye okanye ancede utata wabo kwishishini, kodwa lelona xesha lithandekayo kuye nawuphi na utata ukuba ayibonise kwihlabathi ukuba intombi yakhe iphumelele okuthile. Ayingobawo kuphela, kodwa wonke umntu uziva enebhongo nanini na xa intombi iphumelela.
Soloko ugcina uBawo
Intombazana idlala indawo kasompempe phakathi kukatata nomama. Nanini na xa abazali beziva ukuba bayathandana, intombi ibanika isizathu sokuthandana ngakumbi. Xa utata nomama beveza ingxabano okanye ukulwa, intombi ihlala igcina icala likayise kwaye ibe ngusompempe.
Amagama aya kuhlala esilela ngelixa uchaza ubudlelwane babawo-ntombi.