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Njengokuba usiba mdala unyaka nonyaka, ufuna umntu okhethekileyo ukuba abelane ngeemvakalelo zakho, ukuze onwabe kwaye onwabele imihla eseleyo yobomi. Ukuthandana kwabantu abadala kuyafana nokubhiyozela ubunye. Amadoda nabafazi emva komtshato ngebenze amahla ndinyuka kwaye ebudaleni babo, lixesha lokuba uhlale uzolile kwaye uphumle. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngeendlela zokugcina uthando luphila nokuba sele umdala. Thatha ujongo.
Iindlela Zokugcina Ukuthandana Kwabantu Abadala
1. Akukho bubi ekubeni kunye nokuziva uthandana nabantu abadala. Esi sibini, kwiminyaka yobudala sikhulile, sizimele kwaye sikhululekile kuxanduva. Banamaxesha onke omnye komnye ngoko ukucwangcisa uhambo kunye nokulahleka ngokupheleleyo kwisiqithi esikude kunokugcina iingqondo zobutsha kwaye babelane ngothando lwabantu abadala.
2. Yonke into efunwa liqabane lakho elikhulileyo kuwe ngamagama amnandi kunye nezipho ezincinci ukuze uthengele yena kwaye uzive ukhethekile. Ezi zinto zincinci zinokukhumbuza iinkumbulo kwaye zonwabise ukuthandana kwabantu abadala.
3. Kwaye ukuba iqabane lakho alisekho, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokufumana umntu wobomi bakho bonke. Utshintsho, kufuneka luqale ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Ukufumana uthando kunye nokuphila ubomi obutsha ayiyompazamo inkulu njengoko wonke umntu ecinga ukuba kunjalo.
4. Nabantwana kufuneka baqonde ukuba akukho minyaka yokutsala, uthando kunye nokuthandana kwabantu abadala. Akudingeki ukuba kube yimfuneko kwimeko zonke ukuphulukana nomdla malunga neziyolo zomzimba. Ukuze amadoda nabafazi abadala babe sempilweni bafuna uthando, inkathalo kunye nothando njengoko la engamayeza endalo.
5. Soloko uziva unelunda ngeqabane lakho kwaye ulincome ngobuhle balo obugugayo, ngubani omnye onokuyenza ngaphandle kwakho? Igalelo lakhe ekwakheni ubomi bakho likhulu kutheni ungamqapheli kwaye umvuze ngokuphila ubomi bakho kunye nawe.
Ukuthandana emtshatweni kubalulekile, nokuba sisibini esincinci okanye esidala. Ukuze ube nobomi obusempilweni, abantu abatshatileyo kufuneka bazityhile iimvakalelo zabo ngaphakathi kwaye bathethe njengoko ixesha lifutshane kakhulu ukuba bangavula iintliziyo neengqondo zabo.