Ukungakhathali. Phubbing . Ukugcina amanqaku. Kukho iitoni zezenzo ezincinci, ezicaphukisayo zeqabane sonke esinetyala lazo. Entsha? Ukugcinwa kwesango. Ke yintoni ukugcinwa kwesango kubudlelwane, kanye? Nantsi isivumelwano.
1. Yintoni ukugcinwa kwesango kubudlelwane?
Kuxa ulindele ukuba iqabane lakho likuncede ngento ejikeleze indlu (okanye kuyo nayiphi na indawo yobomi bakho bomtshato) kodwa i-micromanage ithe umsebenzi kakhulu kangangokuba akanakuwenza ngokwemigangatho yakho.
2. Nika imizekelo.
Ucela umyeni wakho ukuba akuhlambele iimpahla... emva koko ucaphuke xa engawasebenzisi amashiti omileyo owathandayo. Umfazi wakho uthi uzakuthetha namakhadi eKrisimesi kulo nyaka...ungena yonke imihla ngo-5pm. ukubona ukuba uqalile. Ucenga iqabane lakho ukuba lipheke isidlo sangokuhlwa… kwaye ujikeleze egxalabeni lakhe lonke ixesha, usalathisa ukubekwa kweparsley.
3. Kutheni le nto imbi emtshatweni wakho?
Xa iqabane lakho lizama ukunyusa kwaye lithathe isabelo esikhulu semisebenzi yasekhaya kuphela ukuze lithethiswe kwaye lilungiswe, kuyadimaza kuni nobabini: Uziva ekhutshiwe kwaye ekulungele ukunceda kwixesha elizayo; uziva ukhathazekile kukuba kufuneka uwenze ngokwakho umsebenzi.
4. Kufuneka wenze ntoni ke?
Ngokwamazwi kaElsa, yiyeke ihambe. Myeke ahlambe impahla ngaphandle koboya obuninzi. Makakhonze iitapile ngendlela yeparsley kakhulu (kwaye umxelele ukuba imnandi). Ubuncinci unempahla ecocekileyo kunye nokutya etafileni, akunjalo?
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