Usele uqhelana nesitayela semfundo yeMontessori , kodwa xa kunjalo, ingcamango yokuba abantwana bafunda kakuhle ngokwenza, indlela ebizwa ngokuba kunceda abantwana baphuhlise izakhono zobunkokeli, baziqhelanise noxanduva kwaye bazimele ngakumbi ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala. Kodwa ubusazi na ukuba lo mbono unokusebenza kwindlela omisa ngayo kwaye uyihombise igumbi lomntwana wakho? Nantsi indlela yokuphumeza isitayile seMontessori kwigumbi lokulala-kwaye kutheni inokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aqale ngokufunda.
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1. Umgaqo olawulayo weMontessori: Yonke into ekufikelelwa kuyo
Nangona kuzama ukwakha i-nursery okanye igumbi lokulala le-kindergartner ukusuka kumbono woyilo (yiza, zipholile kangakanani ezinye zale mibono ye-shelf?), Ingqondo ye-Montessori ithetha ukuba kufuneka ulungelelanise i-decor ukuze ihambelane nokuphakama kwangempela komntwana.
Ngamanye amazwi, ukuba ulala emgangathweni (njengoko usana luza kwenza) okanye uhlale phantsi (ubude obuqikelelwayo bomntwana osahambayo okanye umntwana osesikolweni) unokubona ntoni? Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, izandla zakho ezincinci zinokufikelela kwaye zibambe ntoni? Thatha isicatshulwa sakho soyilo ukusuka apho, ugcine engqondweni ukuba injongo yakho enye kukudala indawo ekhuselekileyo, kodwa iphinda ikhuthaze ukuhlola okuzimeleyo-ingqondo yeMontessori.
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2. Gxininisa kuqala kwiBhedi
Ibhedi yomgangatho (okuthi kuzo zonke iinjongo kunye neenjongo ngumandlalo ophantsi) yeyona nto iphambili yegumbi lokulala laseMontessori. Ngelixa abanye besenza imeko yokuba unokuyazisa kwakamsinya nje ukuba umntwana wakho eselula, uninzi lweempawu zibathengisa iminyaka emibini ukuya phezulu. (Btw, siyaluthanda olu khetho ukusuka Hlumela okanye olu khetho lusuka Ekujoliswe kuko .) Kodwa kukho iinzuzo ezininzi kolu hlobo lokuseta.
Ngokungafani nezibhedlele, ezifuna ukuba abazali balawule iipatheni zokulala kunye nokuvuka kwabantwana babo, umbhede womgangatho ubeka umntwana ophetheyo, ovumela ukuhamba kunye nokuzimela. Banokuphuma—baphinde babuyele—kwiibhedi zabo njengoko bethanda ngaphandle koncedo lomnye umntu. (Kakade, kukho ukushukuma okuzimeleyo kunye neebhedi ezincinci, kwakhona, kodwa ibhedi evunyiweyo yaseMontessori inezithintelo zero, kwaye akukho mzila wokugada.)
Umbono kukuba le nkululeko yokuhamba ekugqibeleni ifundisa abantwana inkululeko yokucinga. Xa bevuka, bajonga kwinto ekwigumbi abanomdla kakhulu ngayo, befumanisa kwaye bajonge njengoko behamba.
d3sign/Getty Imifanekiso3. Okulandelayo, Khetha Izinto ekufikelelwe kuzo
Indlela yeMontessori iphinda iphumelele imisebenzi kunye nezinto ezihambelana ngokwemvelo kunye neemfuno zophuhliso. Oku kuthetha ukuba xa umntwana wakho ephuma kumandlalo omgangatho wakhe, ihlabathi labo-okanye ubuncinane amathoyizi ajikelezileyo-zigcinwe ngononophelo kunye nokukhetha okulinganiselwe kodwa okukhuthazayo.
Ke, endaweni yokubeka iincwadi ezininzi kunye nezinto zokudlala ngaphandle, zero kukhetho oluncinci. Yitsho, oku rhaxa , oku ukupakisha ithoyizi , ezi lacing amaso okanye ezi iibhere zomnyama . (Nathi singabalandeli abakhulu bebhokisi yobhaliso esekelwe kwi-Lovevery kaMontessori, ethumela ukhetho lweethoyi ezijoliswe kwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo kunye nezigaba kanye emva kweenyanga ezimbini.) Le ndlela yokuzonwabisa ivumela ukuba bamkele ngokwenene umdla wolo suku, kodwa baphinde baziqhelanise ngcono. izakhono zoxinaniso. Kwaye, yonke into efikelelekayo ithetha ukuba uzisuse kwi-equation, akusekho mfuneko yokuba uqashele okanye ucebise imisebenzi. Ekuphela kwento eseleyo kukukhenkceza kwaye uphonononge.
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4. Cwangcisa izitishi zokuLungela
Njengoko usakha igumbi lakho lokulala laseMontessori, jonga ezinye iindlela eziphathekayo umntwana wakho angasebenzisa ngazo igumbi. Umzekelo, endaweni yeedrowa zokugqoka ezinde kwaye kunzima ukuzibona, zama isiporo esisezantsi kwikhabhathi okanye iicubhi eziqulethe iikawusi kunye neehempe zazo. Unokuseta indawo ekubude bayo kanye ngesipili kunye nebrashi yeenwele-okanye nayiphi na enye into abanokuyidinga ukuze balungiselele kwaye baphume ngomnyango. Kwakhona, imalunga nokubaxhobisa ukuba bathathe uxanduva kwaye basebenzise ukuzimela.
Ezinye izitishi: Indawo yokufunda enebhaskithi encinci yeencwadi (sithetha nawe, Intlanzi yePout Pout ). Mhlawumbi nokuba itafile nezitulo ukuba ubude babo nje ukusebenza kwiiprojekthi. Injongo kukuba igumbi labo lokulala lizive njengendawo engcwele.
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Kwakhona, ufuna ukuthatha imbono yomntwana wakho, ngoko cinga malunga nobugcisa abaya kukuthanda kwaye babuxabise, kwaye buxhome kwinqanaba abanokubona ngokwenene. Ngapha koko, yintoni elungileyo isilwanyana okanye iipowusta zealfabhethi (ezinje Le okanye Le ) ukuba ziphakame kakhulu, umntwana wakho akakwazi ukuzifunda?
Okokugqibela kodwa kuncinci, ekubeni igumbi lokulala laseMontessori lenzelwe ukukhuthaza umoya wokuzola, ngokuqhelekileyo ipeyinti emhlophe okanye ithoni yendalo ethulisiwe. Oku kunceda ukutsalela ingqalelo kuyo nayiphi na ubugcisa (okanye iifoto zentsapho), kodwa ikwaxhasa indawo epholileyo kunye nekhululekile. Khumbula: Umntwana wakho ungumnikazi wendawo, nguwe kuphela omisela impumelelo yabo.
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