Yintoni uMsindisi oMhlophe kwaye kutheni ingekho i-Allyship?

Amagama Aphezulu Ebantwaneni

Kwi Uncedo, Umlingiswa ka-Emma Stone ubamba amabali amabhinqa amabini aMnyama kwaye abe yintatheli ebhengeza ubuhlanga emsebenzini wasekhaya. Kwi Icla elingabonakali, Umlingiswa kaSandra Bullock wamkela umntu okwishumi elivisayo oNtsundu kusapho lwakhe (emva kokubona indlela akhuliswe ngayo) kwaye waba ngumzali owamkela umntwana owabona amandla kuye. Kwi Incwadi eluhlaza, UViggo Mortensen uphuhlisa ubuhlobo kunye nomqeshi wakhe oMnyama wepiyano yepiyano kunye nejazz kwaye uyamkhusela xa ejongene nocalucalulo oluqhubekayo. Kubonakala ngathi iifilimu ezimsulwa nezinamandla akunjalo? Kodwa kukho intambo eqhelekileyo phakathi kwabo: Ifilimu nganye ibeka amabali aMnyama kwi-burner yangasemva kwaye yenza i-protagonist emhlophe iqhawe lesiqhekeza.



Kwaye oku kuyimbonakaliso nje yobomi benene. Xa abantu abamhlophe bezama ukunceda abantu abaNtsundu, abantu boMthonyama kunye/okanye abantu bebala ( I-BIPOC ), abanye bane-ajenda enokuthi ingabikho kwaye izuze kwimizabalazo yabo. Kwaye ngelixa isenokujongeka njengobudlelwane obuvela kude, eneneni, le ndlela yokuziphatha inokubangela ingozi enkulu kuluntu lweBIPOC okanye umntu kunokulunga. Nantsi yonke into oyifunayo ukuba uyazi malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumsindisi omhlophe kunye nendlela yokukuphepha.



Yintoni umsindisi omhlophe?

I-White saviorism kuxa umlungu ezama ukulungisa imiba yeBIPOC ngaphandle kokuthatha ixesha lokuqonda imbali yakhe, inkcubeko, imicimbi yezopolitiko okanye yangoku iimfuno. Kwaye ngelixa igama laqanjwa ngu Teju Cole ngo 2012, umkhuba akukho nto kodwa entsha. Thatha nayiphi na incwadi yembali kwaye uya kufumana umzekelo emva komzekelo wale ngqondo ye-knight-in-shining-armor: Indoda emhlophe iyavela-engamenywanga sinokuthi songeze-ilungele ukuphucula uluntu olusekwe zabo izimvo zento eyamkelekileyo. Namhlanje, abasindisi abamhlophe, nangona bahlala bengenzi ngabom, bazifaka kwiingxelo okanye izizathu ngaphandle kokuqwalasela iimfuno kunye neemfuno zoluntu abazama ukukunceda. Ngokwenza njalo, babhala ngokwabo (okanye bazivumele ukuba babhalwe) iqhawe ebalini.

Kutheni *iyingxaki* kangaka?

Uhlangulo lwabamhlophe luyingxaki kuba luzoba umfanekiso wokuba uluntu lweBIPOC alukwazi kuzinceda de kufike umlungu. Yingcinga yokuba ngaphandle koncedo lwalo mntu, uluntu alunathemba kwaye lulahlekile. Umsindisi omhlophe usebenzisa ilungelo labo lokukhuthaza ubunkokeli kodwa utyeshela ngokupheleleyo isiseko, iinjongo kunye neemfuno esele zikhona ngaphakathi koluntu oluthile. Endaweni yoko, olu manyano luba ngakumbi malunga nokuthatha ubunini nokuba kuthetha ukulinganisa kunye / okanye ukulawula iqela labantu abangazange bayicele kwasekuqaleni. Okona kubi kakhulu, iziphumo, nangona zibhiyozelwa rhoqo, zihlala zigqibezela ukukhathaza uluntu.

Umsindisi omhlophe uyidlala njani indima kwihlabathi lanamhlanje?

Ngelixa sibona indlela yokuziphatha komsindisi omhlophe idlala ngeendlela ezininzi, sibona ubukhulu becala oku kuvolontiya kunye nokhenketho. Elinye lawona matyala axhaphakileyo kukuthatha imifanekiso kunye nabahlali kunye nokuthumela kwimidiya yoluntu. Isenzo esincinci, esibonakala simsulwa eneneni sinokungabi nantlonipho, ubuhlanga kunye nengozi. Rhoqo, ezi selfies ziba nabantwana be-BIPOC (ngaphandle kwemvume yabazali babo) bezibonisa njengezixhobo kuguqulelo lokwenziwa komntu omhlophe lokubanceda.



Kwaye makhe sithethe ngeehambo zobuthunywa. Kwabanye, malunga nokuzifumana (okanye kwezinye iimeko ukufumana iqabane ). Kodwa akufuneki kube ngumboniso-kwaye-uxela malunga nokuba ungakanani na umSamariya olungileyo. Kuye kwaba yinto eyandayo ukuthatha indawo kwaye ungayihoyi indlela uluntu ngokwenene uziva ngokuphazamiseka. Yonke ibophelela kuluvo lokuba Siyazi okulungileyo kuwe endaweni yokuba singakunceda njani, uzincede?

Kwaye ke kukho imizekelo emininzi yenkcubeko ye-pop

Owu, zikho kakhulu yemizekelo yenkcubeko ye-pop esebenzisa i-white-savior trope. Ihlala ifana: Umntu/iqela le-BIPOC lijongene nemiqobo (kunye/okanye 'iimeko ezinzima kakhulu') de umlinganiswa oyintloko (owaziwa ngokuba ngutitshala omhlophe, umcebisi, njl.njl) angene kwaye agcine imini. Kwaye ngelixa ucinga ukuba imuvi igxile kumlinganiswa (abalinganiswa), eyona nto ixhalabisayo ibonisa ukomelela kunye nemingeni ye-protagonist emhlophe endaweni yoko. Ezi zibonisi zisifundisa ukuba abalinganiswa beBIPOC abanakuba ngamagorha kuhambo lwabo. Kwaye ngelixa olu budlelwane bunzima kakhulu, iifilimu ezifana Uncedo, Icala Elingaboniyo, Ababhali beNkululeko kunye neNcwadi yoHlaza zisekhona iyabhiyozelwa kwaye yawongwa , ebonisa nangakumbi amapolisa ezendele nzulu kuluntu lwethu lokuvumela iBIPOC ithethe awabo amabali.

Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntu ngokwenene uzama ukunceda?

Sele ndibona ii-imeyile zigcwala kwi-inbox yam, So UKUNCEDA kuyingxaki nako??? Hayi, akuyongxaki ukunceda abanye. Kufuneka sinyathele kwaye sibonelele kulo naliphi na iqela elijongene nengcinezelo, ucalucalulo kunye nokungabikho kokumelwa. Kodwa kukho umahluko phakathi ngokwenene ukunceda uluntu nokwenza ntoni wena , umntu wangaphandle , cinga kuya kunceda uluntu.



Ekupheleni kosuku, konke malunga nokukhulula ilungelo lakho. Imalunga nokudiliza umkhethe ongaziyo malunga nomntu, indawo okanye iqela. Cinga, ngaba ungathanda ukuba kukho umntu oza ekhayeni lakho aze akuxelele into ekufuneka yenziwe? Ngaba ubuya kuthanda ukuba ubani uzithabathele uzuko ngokukusindisa nokugatya umsebenzi owawusenziwa ngabanye ngaphambi kwakhe? Kuthekani ngokusebenzisa ubuso bakho kunye nokufana nokuJonga indlela endibanceda ngayo! Umzuzu-mzuzu. Thatha umzuzwana ufumanise ukuba uncedo lwakho luyanceda okanye luyawonakalisa unobangela.

Ndiyifumene. Ke sinokwenza njani ngcono?

Kukho iindlela ezimbalwa zokuba ngumhlobo ongcono kwaye ugweme ukuwela kwi-saviorism emhlophe.

  • Kulungile ngokungabi ngundoqo wokuhoywa. Musa ukuzibiza ngokuba ungumsindisi okanye iqhawe. Oku akukho malunga nawe. Imalunga nokunceda apho kuyimfuneko.
  • Musa ukudibanisa iinjongo ezintle kunye nezenzo ezilungileyo. Uyafuna ukunceda. Kulungile-iinjongo zakho zikwindawo efanelekileyo. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba wena funa ukuba luncedo akuthethi ukuba izenzo zakho ziyanceda ngokwenene. Iinjongo ezilungileyo ayisosizathu sokuchitha ingxelo.
  • Mamela uze ubuze imibuzo. Eyona nto inamandla onokuyenza kukumamela uluntu olubonisayo ukuba luncede. Babuze, Yintoni obungathanda? Yintoni engekhoyo? Ndingakunceda njani? Qhagamshelana namavolontiya asekuhlaleni okanye iinkokeli ukuze uqonde ngcono ukuba unokuba yi-asethi kwisizathu (kunokuba wenze izinto ngendlela yakho).
  • Musa ukuyiphatha njengomzuzu ofanelekileyo we-Insta. Sonke sifuna ukwabelana ngesisa sethu nehlabathi ngethemba lokukhuthaza abanye ukuba nabo bancede. Kodwa ngaba sisizathu sakho okanye ufuna nje indumiso, ukuthanda kunye nezimvo? Zibuze lo mfanekiso ngokwenene ukunceda okanye kukubeka kobona kukhanya?

Umgca osezantsi

Umbono wokusindisa umntu wondla kuphela ingcinezelo yenkqubo esizama ukuhlukana nayo. Bonisa uvelwano ngaphandle kokubhenela kwimfesane okanye ukuthululela abantu ngezixhobo ezingazisiyo iimfuno zabo okanye iimfuno zabo. Zimisele ukufunda, utshintshe kwaye wamkele ukuba awuyompendulo kuzo zonke iingxaki zoluntu-kodwa ulapha ukuze uziphakamise.

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