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Umama kunye nendodana ubudlelwane bubudlelwane obuhle. Kwaye abo nyana banodade, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, babamonela abazalwana babo kolu lwalamano. Kukho amabali athi umama akufuneki agcine unyana wakhe esondele kakhulu, kuba oku kungamthintela ekubeni yindoda eyomeleleyo, ekhaliphileyo ezimeleyo. Nangona kunjalo, uphononongo lubonakalisile ukuba oku akuyonyani.
Oomama bahlala beqinile-intliziyo kwaye ubudlelwane obusondeleyo bonyana kunye nonina kunokumenza omelele ngakumbi kwaye azimele. Yiyo loo nto kuqinisekisiwe ngokwenzululwazi ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kukamama nonyana ngokuqinisekileyo busempilweni kwaye buluncedo.
Funda kwakhona: Indlela yokwenza uMama wakho azive ekhethekileyo
Kuqapheleka kakhulu ukuba kukho unxibelelwano ngokwendalo phakathi kwabantwana besini esahlukileyo kunye nabazali babo. Umzekelo, ootata babonakala bezikhusela kakhulu iintombi zabo. Kwangokunjalo, oomama babona oonyana babo njengabantu abanobuchule kwaye babakhulisa ngendlela efanayo.
Nangona oku kulungile, ngamanye amaxesha kuneziphumo ezibi nazo. Ngamanye amaxesha ootata bavame ukuba nomona xa umama ehoya ngakumbi unyana. Ngokufanayo, oomama baziva ngathi bafumana ingqalelo encinci xa bebona iintombi zabo ziba ntle kwaye zithandwa ngutata. Leyo yingqondo yabantu nangona kunjalo, oku akusosigxina kwaye kuyaphela njengoko ixesha lihamba.
Ukuba ngumzali ongalunganga kunokubangela imiba yokuziphatha kwabafana
Ngokukodwa kubafana, kuyabonakala ukuba ukungazali kakuhle kunokubangela iingxaki zokuziphatha kubo. Xa amakhwenkwe engafumani ngqwalaselo kunye nothando olufanelekileyo koonina, isimo sabo sengqondo siyabonakala sitshintsha. Baye babe ndlongondlongo ngamanye amaxesha. Izifundo zibonakalise ukuba amakhwenkwe ancanyathiselwe ngokungakhuselekanga ikakhulu anokukhaba abanye, angathobeli kwaye ayatshabalalisa.
Funda kwakhona: Qiniseka ukuba uMama wakho uyadlula kwezi mvavanyo zibalulekileyo zonyango
Kuyabonakala ukuba amakhwenkwe angazibopheleli ngokukhuselekileyo koomama kwiminyaka yabo yeentsana enza ububi ngakumbi, ayonakalise kwaye abe ndlongondlongo kwiminyaka yabo yobudala. Ubudlelwane obusondeleyo noomama babo, xa amakhwenkwe eselula, banokunceda ekuthinteleni ubugwenxa xa bekhula.
Kutheni le nto ooNyana bebanamathele koomama babo?
Oonyana babonwa ukuba banamathele ngakumbi koonina kuba ilungile impilo yabo yengqondo. Bavulekile ngokweemvakalelo. Bayayiqonda ngokulula into yokuba akukho mfuneko yokuba basebenze nzima, bayokuya bodwa okanye balwe ukungqina ubudoda babo, ngalo lonke ixesha befumana umngeni. Ubudlelwane obunobuhlobo bonyana kunye nonina banceda amakhwenkwe ukuba enze lula abahlobo abalungileyo, balahle isithukuthezi, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
Uyifumana njani into yokuba uNina-Nyana woNyana amncede uMfana
Amakhwenkwe asondele koomama ajika abe ngabahle ezifundweni. Baqhuba kakuhle esikolweni. Oomama bahlala bekhulisa ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo koonyana babo, bebafundisa ukuba babone kwaye bavakalise ezabo iimvakalelo kwaye kwangaxeshanye, ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye.
La makhwenkwe afunda ukuzazi kunokuba axelise abanye. Olu phawu lunceda amakhwenkwe ukuba acacise ngcono, nto leyo ebanceda ngokubanceda kwizakhono zabo zokufunda nokubhala. Nawo la makhwenkwe afunyanwa enokuzibamba okungcono kwigumbi lokufundela.
Abanye abantu banoluvo oluphosakeleyo lokuba umama othululela uthando kunye nokunyamekela unyana wakhe kunokuba yingozi. Bacinga ukuba abo bafana banokubaphanga abantwana. Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula, ayibobukho obonakalisa umntwana, zizipho ezonakalisa umntwana. Ke, boomama abathandekayo, musa ukuthatha indawo 'yobukho' bakho 'nezipho' zonyana wakho.
Funda kwakhona: Iingcamango zesipho esiBalaseleyo kuMama wakho
Sibonile imizekelo yamadoda amaninzi aphumeleleyo abebeyinkwenkwe kamama wabo. Sikwadibene nobudlelwane obuninzi obusondeleyo bonyana nonyana, apho amakhwenkwe akhuliswe ngoomama engekho amadoda.
Ngoomama abangenamaqabane abaphumeleleyo ekukhuliseni amanene. Oonyana abasondelelene noomama bahlala befunda ukuhlonipha abantu basetyhini kwaye ngelishwa, abaze bathande ukudlala ngobomi baliphi na ibhinqa.