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I-Bollywood isifundise ukuba 'Ek ladka okanye ek ladki kabhi dost nahi ho sakte' (Maine Pyar Kiya - 1989), eguqulela ngesiNgesi 'njengenkwenkwe nentombazana ayinakuba ngabahlobo'. Kodwa, okwangoku uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ayinyani. Baninzi kakhulu abantu basetyhini abanabahlobo abangamadoda kwaye kungenjalo.
Ubuchopho bomntu benziwe ngendlela eya kuthi ijonge ukwenza unxibelelwano lwasentlalweni nabantu ababangqongileyo ngaphandle kwesini. Abasetyhini bathathelwa ingqalelo njengoxolo ngakumbi kunye noluntu xa kuthelekiswa namadoda. Endaweni yokuzahlula kwaye uzilile ngenxa yokuphulukana nabo, abafazi bathanda ukwabelana ngeengcinga zabo kunye nentlungu kunye nabahlobo babo abasenyongweni. Kodwa ayisiyiyo yokuba abafazi baya kuba ngabahlobo nabanye abantu basetyhini kuphela. Kukho abanye abantu basetyhini abanokuba ngabahlobo namadoda ngokunjalo.
Funda kwakhona: Yiba Nobulumko, Sukoyika! Amadoda angaphendula njani kule mibuzo mithandathu inkohliso ebuzwa ngabafazi
Ngoku ungacinga ukuba yeyiphi imfuneko yokuba abantu basetyhini babe nabahlobo abalungileyo abangamadoda kunokuba babe nabahlobo abasenyongweni ababhinqileyo? Ewe, sidwelise ezinye zezizathu ezinokukunceda uqonde ukuba kutheni abafazi bekhetha ukuba nabahlobo abangamadoda.
1. Zicacile ngakumbi kwaye zithe ngqo
Xa kufikwa ekuvakaliseni iingcinga kunye neminqweno yabo, amadoda athe ngqo. Bayakuthanda ukuza kwinqanaba kwaye bathethe malunga nokuqhubeka ezingqondweni zabo. Endaweni yokudlulisa amacebo okanye ukulindela ukuba omnye umntu afunde iingqondo zabo, amadoda akhetha ukuvakalisa iingcinga zawo. Kananjalo baya kunika uluvo oluthembekileyo kwilokhwe enxitywa ngabahlobo babo ababalaseleyo.
2. Banokunceda abasetyhini ukuba bakhethe iqabane elingcono
Amadoda anoluvo olucacileyo malunga nento enokwenzeka ezingqondweni zamanye amadoda. Bayazi ukuba anjani amanye amadoda kwaye banokujonga njani kubudlelwane. Banokuqonda ukuba umntu ngumdlalo ofanelekileyo kubahlobo babo ababhinqileyo okanye hayi. Baza kuqinisekisa ukufumana olona mdlalo ufanelekileyo njengalowo unengqiqo, onyanisekileyo, onenkathalo kwaye uya kucela iqabane lomhlobo wabo ukuba limkhathalele.
3. Bakuqinisekisa ukuba ubona izinto ngokwembono eyahlukileyo
Xa owasetyhini esiba ngumhlobo nelinye ibhinqa, unokufumana imeko efanayo. Njengokubuyela ekhaya ngexesha, ukufunda imisebenzi yasekhaya kubalulekile nokunye okuninzi. Kodwa ukuba nomhlobo osenyongweni oyindoda kunokunceda abantu basetyhini ukuba babe nembono eyahlukileyo njengokuya kuhambo ngebhayisekile kungcono kunokuba ube neveki evila. Kwakhona, ukuba nomhlobo osenyongweni oyindoda kunokunceda abasetyhini ekuqondeni amanye amadoda ngendlela ebhetele.
4. Bangazenza Isithandwa Sabantu
Ngamaxesha athile, xa abasetyhini kufuneka baphume kumhla wokuncamathela okanye baphathe imibuzo ecaphukisayo enxulumene nokuthandana kunye nomtshato, bathatha uncedo lwabahlobo babo abangamadoda. Endaweni yokuthandana nomntu othile, abafazi banabahlobo babo abangamadoda, abakulungeleyo ukuzenza isoka labo kwaye bahlala kwicala labo ukubanceda kwii-es (zabo) zabo ezicaphukisayo.
Funda kwakhona: Usuku lwabahlobo lwango-2019: Izizathu zokuba abasetyhini bafune abathandana nabo ebomini babo
Ubuhlobo abuyamkeli imida yesini, eyenza intuthuzelo kakhulu. Kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani owenza ukuba uzive ungcono, wonwabile, ukuxhasa kwaye ukukhuthaze nokuba injani imeko. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba umntu uyindoda okanye ibhinqa. Ekuphela kwento ebalulekileyo kukuba umntu ongumhlobo wakho ngumntu wokwenene okanye hayi.
