Ukuchaswa kubuhlungu, kodwa akunakuphepheka. Ngaxa lithile kubomi bomntu, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubani angadlula kwintlungu ephantse ibe yintlungu enganyamezelekiyo yentliziyo ebuhlungu. Kodwa kulungile, iintlungu zilungile, ungajongana nayo. Nangona usoyika njengoko uziva ngoku, yazi ukuba intlungu iza kuphela ekugqibeleni. Kwaye kungekudala, uya kubuyela ekukhanyeni kwelanga okonwabileyo komntu owawunguye ngaphambi kokuba 'laa mntu' aphule intliziyo yakho. Okwangoku, nazi iindlela ezili-10 onokuhlangabezana nazo neentlungu zothando olungenambuyekezo.
Zinike ixesha lokuba buhlungu
Njengoko i-cheesy kunye ne-romcom-efana njengoko ivakala, kufuneka uzivumele ukuba ube buhlungu; emva koko ukwaliwa kubuhlungu! Uphando lufumanise ukuba iintlungu zeemvakalelo zisebenza kwindawo enye yengqondo njengoko zisenza iintlungu zomzimba. Yiyo loo nto ‘intliziyo eyaphukileyo’ ibuhlungu eneneni. Musa ukuba nzima kuwe ngokuthanda umntu, zinike ixesha lokuba ukhathazeke kwaye ube buhlungu; nje ungagingqi kakhulu.
Thetha nawe kumntu wesithathu
Hayi, asilahleki. Eli qhinga liyasebenza kuba ukuthetha nawe kumntu wesithathu kukunceda ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho ngendlela engcono. Ubuchwephesha bukuvumela ukuba uvavanye imeko ngokwembono yenjongo. Ke, ewe, qalisa ukuncokola ngawe.
Ziphephe iinkohliso
Mhlawumbi ubuzibuza (kwaye unethemba) ukuba ngenye imini, ngenye imini izinto zinokulunga phakathi kwenu nobabini. Ithemba lidla ngokuba yimvakalelo enkulu, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo kwezi meko. Ukuhlala kwinkohliso yokuba ngenye imini isithandwa sakho siya kukuthanda njengoko umthanda kuya kwenza izinto zibe mbi ngakumbi. Kuphephe oku kukhohlisa ngazo zonke iindleko kwaye uya kuba usendleleni eya ukuqhubela phambili.
Yenza indawo
Asitsho ukuba kufuneka uqhawule onke amaqhina kunye naye kwaye uyeke ukuhlala naye ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kufuneka uzame ukwenza isithuba phakathi kwakhe nawe. Ukuba usengabahlobo kunye naye, zama ukumtsalela umnxeba okanye umthumelele umyalezo kancinci kancinci; makakufowunele kube kanye. Ngamaxesha apho intliziyo yakho ichacha, indawo inceda inkqubo.
Yenza ixesha lokuzonwabisa
Endaweni yokuphupha emini ngendlela emangalisa ngayo, ziphazamise ngento oyithandayo oyithandayo. Ukuphupha emini okungenangqondo yinkcitho epheleleyo yexesha lakho kwaye endaweni yoko uhambisa amandla akho ekwenzeni into enemveliso. Khetha into eyenza umdla wakho okanye into oyithandayo osoloko ufuna ukuyizama.
Zicombulule
Ukuzithanda kuphantsi kakhulu! Kwaye xa uphantsi kwaye uphuma kwaye uzive unenzondo enkulu malunga nothando kunye nayo yonke into enxulumene nalo, yima kanye apho. Uthando yinto entle kwaye ukuzithanda kuhle ngakumbi. Bhukisha idinga kunye nesalon yakho kwaye uye kwiseshini epheleleyo yokutolika. Okanye fumana nje iityuwa zakho zokuhlambela ozithandayo kunye neeoyile ezibalulekileyo kwaye uzise i-spa kwikhaya lakho. Yazi ukuba ubalulekile!
Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga
Njengoko ivakala ihlekisa, iyanceda ngokwenene! Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezilungileyo kunye nezibi malunga nokungatshati. Kuya kukunceda ufumane umbono. Icala le-cons mhlawumbi lide kune-pros kodwa ilungile ngokupheleleyo. Ekugqibeleni uya kuqala ukubona icala eliqaqambileyo lezinto. Kwaye khumbula ukugxila kwicala le-pros, ukuba nethemba kuhlala kunceda.
Yiya ngomhla
Isenokuvakala ngathi iyanyanzelwa okanye ichasene nemveliso, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ingcono kunokuhlala wedwa ekhaya kwaye uzulazule. Akufuneki nokuba ibe ngumhla onzima kakhulu, yigcine iyinto eqhelekileyo. Cela umhlobo okanye umntu osebenza naye ukuba afumane ikofu okanye uzame indawo yokutyela entsha. Ukuba ulungele, khuphela i-app yokuthandana kwaye ubuze enye 'yemidlalo yakho' ngomhla wekofu!
Yithi hayi kwiiromcoms
Nceda unganikezeli kulonwabo lokubukela iiromcom kunye nokutya i-ice-cream emva kokuba udlule kwintliziyo ebuhlungu. Kuya kukwenza ukuba ugingqike ngokungeyomfuneko kwaye ubeke ugxininiso kwinto enye ongenakuba nayo - uthando. Endaweni yoko, gxila kwiimuvi kunye neencwadi ezingezizo ezothando, khetha olunye uhlobo, njengamaqhula, imincili okanye iidrama. Kuya kukunceda ukujongana neentlungu ngcono.
Sukufuna ukuvalwa
Okokugqibela, vele wamkele imeko ukuba yintoni kwaye ungangxami ukufumana ukuvalwa ukwenza izinto zibonakale 'zingcono'. Ukukhangela ukuvalwa xa enyanisweni kungekho, akuyi kunceda ityala lakho. Yiyeke nje, vuma ukoyiswa, tsala iikawusi zakho kwaye wamkele ikamva. Khumbula ukuba zininzi iintlanzi elwandle.
