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Njengabafazi, unokuhlala unqwenela ukuba indoda yakho ikuthande kwaye ibe nawe ngonaphakade. Unokunqwenela ukuba ngumntu othandwa ngakumbi nangakumbi. Kodwa kuba akukho parameter yokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ngubani othanda kakhulu, ungasoloko uyonwabisa indoda yakho kwaye uzive usikelelekile ngokuba neqabane lakho. Kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza ukwenza ukuba umntu wakho azive ekhethekileyo kwaye athande nawe kwakhona.
Ukuze wazi ukuba zeziphi izinto onokuzenza, skrolela ezantsi kwinqaku ukuze ufunde ngakumbi.
1. Mamkele Ngendlela ayiyo
Akukho nto inokwenza iqabane lakho liziva lithandwa kwaye likhethekile kunokwamkela indlela ayiyo. Ke, ukuba ufuna ukwenza into ekhethekileyo kwiqabane lakho, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukumamkela ngale ndlela ayiyo. Unokumkhuthaza ukuba abe ngumntu ongcono ngokuzisa utshintsho olululo kodwa emva koko umtshintshe kuba ufuna iqabane eligqibeleleyo linokumenza azive edakumbile. Akukho bulumko ekulindeleni ukuba iqabane lakho lifane nomnye umntu. Vumela iqabane lakho libe nokuzimela.
2.Mvumele achithe ixesha nabahlobo
Sonke sifuna ukuchitha ixesha nabahlobo bethu kunye nomntu wakho. Ukumthintela ekudibaneni nabahlobo bakhe kunokumenza azive ephoxekile kwaye ekhathazekile. Kungenxa yokuba indoda yakho isoloko ilungele ukuhamba uhambo lwamakhwenkwe onke okanye ukubandwendwela, oko akuthethi ukuba iyakutyeshela. Kuphela kukuba ufuna indawo ethile ngaphandle kobudlelwane. Awunalo nofifi lokuba angonwaba njani umntu wakho xa umvumela ukuba onwabele ixesha lakhe nabahlobo bakhe.
3. Bhala amanqaku
Ukubhala amanqaku kunye neeleta kwiqabane lakho akunakuze kuphume kumkhwa. Nangona siphila kwixesha langoku apho sineentlobo zonke zetekhnoloji ejikeleze thina, ukushiya amanqaku othando kwiqabane lakho kunokugcina iintlantsi ziphila kulwalamano lwakho. Ungagcina amanqaku kwimoto yakhe okanye isipaji ukumvumela ukuba afumane kwaye azive ekhethekileyo.
4. Mkhuthaze ukuba alandele uMnqweno wakhe
Kukho amaxesha apho umntu anokungakwazi ukulandela ukuthanda kwakhe ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Ukukhuthaza umntu wakho ukuba alandele umdla wakhe kwaye aphile iphupha lakhe kunokumenza azive esikelelwe kakhulu ukuba nawe. Yazisa indoda yakho ukuba lixesha eliphezulu elilandele ukuthanda kwakhe. Endaweni yokuqaqambisa umngcipheko, mkhuthaze ukuba anikele ngokusemandleni akhe afezekise amaphupha akhe. Sithembe, oku kuyakuqinisa ubudlelwane bakho.
5. Uku-ayina iimpahla zakhe ngobusuku bangaphambili
Ukunxiba iimpahla ezishwabeneyo kunokuba lucingo olukhulu kuye nakubani na kuthi. Kodwa uyazi ukuba uku-ayina iimpahla zakhe kubusuku obudlulileyo kunye nokubukela indlela awothuke ngayo kusasa kunokunceda ubudlelwane bakho? Unokucinga ukuba oku akuyi kwenza mahluko ungako, kodwa ungalibali ukuba izinto ezincinci ezimnandi zinokwenza umntu azive ekhethekileyo.
6.Mthengele ihembe ayithandayo
Ukuthengela umntu wakho umbala wehempe owuthandayo kunokumenza azive ethandwa. Kungenxa yokuba xa uthenga ihempe yakhe ayithandayo yombala, oko kubonisa ukuba uyikhathalele ngokwenene into ayikhethayo. Ke, ukuba awukwazi ukufumana izimvo zokwenza into angayilindelanga kuye, unokumthengela ihempe entle. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuwuxabisa umzamo wakho.
7.Mothuse Kumsebenzi Wakhe
Ukumangalisa umntu wakho ngelixa ephangela kungayinto entle yokwenza ukuba azive ekhethekileyo. Ukuze umothuse, ungandwendwela ngesidlo asithandayo okanye amashwamshwam. Unokucinga nangokumlanda eofisini yakhe. Siyakubheja, ngekhe akwazi ukumelana noncumo lwenene. Ngapha koko, uya kumfumana wonwabe kakhulu.
8. Lungisa ukutya okuthandayo
Ukulungiselela ukutya kweqabane lakho yenye yeendlela ezithuleyo zokumazisa ukuba ukhathalele kangakanani. Ngaphandle kwesihlandlo, ungasoloko ucinga ngokumlungiselela into. Nangona ungakulungelanga ukupheka, ungahamba ngezifundo kunye neendlela zokupheka ezikhoyo kwi-Intanethi. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba igqibelele, kodwa yilungiselele ngothando oluninzi nothando lomntu omthandayo.
9. Mxabise Ngemigudu Yakhe
Ukuxabisa umntu wakho ngayo yonke into akwenzela yona kunye nomsebenzi wakhe unokuba yenye indlela yokumenza athandane nawe kwakhona. Mxelele ukuba uziva unebhongo lokumbona esebenza nzima. Unokumxabisa nangendlela akuthengela ngayo izinto okanye akuncede wenze umsebenzi wasekhaya. Endaweni yokulinda umsitho okhethekileyo, mdumise nanini na xa esenza into entle kwaye ekhethekileyo.
10. Mthembe Ukholelwe Kuye
Okokugqibela kodwa kungaphelelanga apho, ukuthembela kwiqabane lakho ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo kunokwenza ukuba iqabane lakho lithandane nawe kwakhona. Xa uvumela iqabane lakho lazi ukuba uyamthemba kwaye uyakholelwa kwinto ayenzayo, kuyamenza azive ekhuthazeka kwaye asebenze nangakumbi. Uya kunikela ngokusemandleni akhe kuyo yonke into ayenzayo.
Ubudlelwane buyomelela xa omabini amaqabane ekulungele ukwamkela kwaye avelise okona kulungileyo omnye komnye. Ukugxeka kunye nokufumana iimpazamo kwindoda yakho akunakuze kumncede abe liqabane elilungileyo kunye nomntu othobekileyo. Inye kuphela into enokukunceda luthando, ukuthembela kunye nokunyamekela.