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Akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo kwaye sonke sineseti yeempawu ezilungileyo nezimbi. Kodwa, xa kufikwa ekukhetheni amaqabane ethu emtshatweni, sijonga zonke ezona mpawu zibalaseleyo.
Ukuthetha ngabafazi, umtshato ungaphezulu kakhulu kukhuseleko lwentlalo kubo kwaye ke, ukukhetha amadoda akunakuze kube kukuhamba ngekhekhe. Amadoda nabafazi banithi umfanekiso obonakalayo weempawu zesiqingatha sabo esingcono baya kuba nakho. Njengamadoda, abasetyhini nabo bajonge ezinye iimpawu ngelixa bekhetha indoda yabo yexesha elizayo. Oku kuyabanceda ukuba baqonde ukuba indoda abazakutshata, ifanelekile okanye hayi?
Ziziphi ezo mpawu?
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Ke manenekazi, bamba usiba kunye nephepha kwaye ubhale amanqaku athile abalulekileyo ngaphambi kokukhetha umyeni wakho wexesha elizayo.
1. Ukunyaniseka
Ukunyaniseka sisiseko salo lonke ubudlelwane kwaye ke, ukuhlala unyanisekile kwiqabane lakho kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngelixa bekhetha umyeni wabo wexesha elizayo, abafazi bakhangela iqabane elivulekileyo nelinyanisekileyo ukuze lithembele kwaye lithembele kuye.
2. Ukuzibophelela
Abasetyhini abathandi amadoda azinikeleyo-phobic, ngakumbi ukuba ajonge ukutshata. Ayisiyiyo eyonxibelelwano kuphela kodwa ikwakhona xa kusenziwa izigqibo ezinxulumene nomsebenzi, kunye noxanduva losapho. Bakwajonga nokuba umyeni wabo ugcina ixesha kwaye uyazigcina izithembiso zakhe.
Njengendoda, kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba umfazi wakho uza kuchitha ubomi bakhe bonke nawe kwaye ke, kuya kufuneka uzinikezele kuwe.
3. Ukuthanda nokukhathalela
Wonke umntu uthanda ukuziva athandwa nokuba ungubani na, kwaye ke, bonke abantu basetyhini bajonge amadoda anokwamkela iimpazamo zawo kwaye asabathanda kwaye ayabathanda.
Kodwa uthando aluthethi ukuba abasetyhini bafuna uthando lomzimba kunye nezincomo zabo yonke imihla.
Uthando kuxa amadoda ebonisa inkathalo kunye nentlonipho kumaqabane abo. Oku kwenza ukuba abantu basetyhini bazive benekratshi kukhetho lwabo.
4. Uzinzo kwezeMali
Uninzi lwamadoda luyabuza, 'kutheni abafazi bekhangela imali ngelixa betshata?' Impendulo yalo mbuzo yile, abasetyhini bajonge amadoda anokuthi azalisekise iimfuno zezemali zosapho.
Ukuba isibini sihamba nengxaki yemali ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye asinayo ingeniso engaguquguqukiyo, ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya kushukumisa iingcambu zobudlelwane ekuhambeni kwexesha. Abasetyhini bakhetha ukuhlala bekhuselekile ngokwemali kubomi babo bomtshato.
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5. Ukuba namabhongo
Kukho abantu abathile abangenamabhongo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abananjongo ngokunjalo. Abasetyhini bathanda amaqabane abo ukuba babe nenjongo emiselweyo kwaye bangazuli njengomntu ongenanjongo.
Abasetyhini abathandi amadoda angamavila. Endaweni yoko, bathanda amadoda azinikelayo kwaye anomdla ngamaphupha abo. Nokuba nabafazi abenza amakhaya, nabo, bafuna abayeni babo bafezekise iinjongo zabo zomsebenzi.
6. Ukuzithemba
Abasetyhini bathanda amadoda azithembileyo, njengoko ibanika umyalezo ocacileyo wokuba iqabane lakhe aliqinisekanga ngaye. Umntu osoloko enengxaki yokujongela phantsi unokuba nzima ukuphatha ixesha elide. Kananjalo, abasetyhini bafuna ukuba abayeni babo babanike iingcebiso ezingcono kunye nezihlakaniphile ngamanye amaxesha.
7.Ukuhambelana
Kuba abafazi bayishiya indlu yabazali babo bayohlala nabayeni babo emva kokuba betshatile, bafuna ukuba abo baza kuba ngamadoda abo baqonde kwaye babe nemfesane, ukuba akukho nto yimbi. Indoda enenkani inokumcima umfazi. Umfazi uya kuyityeshela indoda engafuniyo ukutshintsha imikhwa emibi okanye ukulungela ukulalanisa ngamanye amaxesha.
8. Kuyakhuthaza
Abasetyhini bathanda amadoda abakhuthazayo kwaye abaxhase kwizigqibo ezibalulekileyo. Abasetyhini bakhetha amadoda azisa okona kulungileyo kubo kwaye bafuna abayeni babo babafundise into entsha ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye babancede bafezekise iinjongo zomsebenzi.
9. Uburharha
Ngaphandle koburharha, ubomi bunokudika. Abasetyhini bathanda amadoda anokubenza bahleke ngokuvakalayo. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba amadoda kufuneka enze njengeqhula ngalo lonke ixesha. Umzuzu wokuqhekeka ezinye iziqhulo ezihlekisayo kwaye ubenze bancume nakwimeko ebumdaka ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuphumelela intliziyo yabasetyhini.
10. Usapho oluQhelekileyo
Umfazi uya kuhlala efuna ukuba umyeni wakhe anakekele usapho kwaye abaphathe abazali njengabakhe. Akayi kuze atshate nendoda eza kuthi pr ingabahloniphi abazali bayo. Umfazi ufuna ukuba indoda yakhe ikhathalele nosapho lwayo. Ufuna umyeni wakhe azalisekise zonke iimfuno zosapho kwaye azikhathalele nakumaxesha anzima.
11. Ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo
Njengamadoda, abafazi nabo bayayithanda isondo elungileyo kwaye ke ngoko ukubanelisa ngokwasemzimbeni kubalulekile, xa kuziwa emtshatweni. Ukuba neentlobano zesini kuphela kunokugxotha abasetyhini kwaye ke, amadoda kufuneka afunde ukwenza amaqabane abo azive ekhululekile ngokwasemphefumlweni.
Ukuba indoda ifuna ubudlelwane bexesha elide okanye umtshato, ke ezi mpawu ziyimfuneko. Ngaba silibele ukongeza 'ukuncoma okumnandi' kuluhlu? Ewe, abafazi bayayithanda!