Izandla phezulu ukuba ufuna ubomi obutyebileyo, obugcweleyo nobuzaliswe lulonwabo? Ewe, umbhali wezempilo kunye nezesondo u-August McLaughlin ukhuphe incwadi entsha, enesihloko Intombazana enguBoner: IsiKhokelo seNtombazana esiLungileyo sokuXhobisa ngokwesondo , leyo ijolise ekuncedeni kanye ngaloo nto. Ukujongana nezifundo ezifana nokudlala yedwa, ukulawula inzala, ukuzazi ngokwesini kunye nesondo kunye nenkolo, uMcLaughlin ukhuthaza abasetyhini ukuba bamkele imizimba yabo kunye nesondo-konke ngokwemiqathango yabo. Apha, asixhenxe amacebiso akhe angcono.
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Kulula ukuhamba nje, kodwa imvakalelo yobutsha inokushukumisa izinto (ngendlela elungileyo), utshilo uMcLaughlin. Zama ukucinga iqabane lakho njengomntu osanda kuqalisa ukuthandana kwaye ufuna ukuhenda. Ukwenza olu luvo lusebenze, cwangcisa ukudibana kwindawo kawonke-wonke okanye yabucala ngaphandle kwekhaya lakho. Thatha abantu abahlukeneyo, kwaye udlale indima ngokungathi uya kumhla wakho wokuqala, okanye intlanganiso kwiklabhu okanye ibha. Umphunga.
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Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu babe nexhala malunga neethoyi, bezibuza ukuba ziya kuthatha indawo yeqabane okanye ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngawe ukuba uziva uyifuna, ubhala uMcLaughlin. Kodwa kuzo zombini ezi meko impendulo nguhayi obambekayo. Kwaye ngelixa i-vibrator idla ngokuba yinto yokudlala yesondo yokuqala efika engqondweni, kukho ezininzi ezininzi zokuphonononga kuquka amathoyizi ezibini kunye nezixhobo zekink. Ukuba uziva uxinezelekile, yiya kwivenkile ethembekileyo (nje Isifuba Solonwabo ) kwaye uthethe nomnye wabasebenzi abanolwazi. Elinye icebiso? Yiya kwizinto zokudlala ezikhuselekileyo zomzimba, o.k.t, ezenziwe ngezinto ezithathwa njengezikhuselekileyo ukuze zisetyenziswe emzimbeni (jonga indawo ekhuselekileyo yomzimba kwipakethe).
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ULube nguye inomtsalane. Inciphisa ukungqubana, inqanda ukungonwabi okunokwenzeka kwaye yongeza ulonwabo oluthambileyo, olutyibilikayo kwimisebenzi emininzi yezesondo. Kwezinye iimeko, kusondele kakhulu-nje ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu. UMcLaughlin ude akhuphe ilube njengeyona nto ingaphantsi kwezesondo kuzo zonke. Kodwa i-lubes ezahlukeneyo ziza kunye ne-pros and cons zabo (ioli ye-coconut, umzekelo, ivakalelwa kakhulu kwaye ifumaneka lula nangona kunjalo inokungcolisa amashiti kunye nempahla yakho) ngoko fumana enye esebenzayo kuwe.
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Ixesha lokutshintsha izikhundla. Amava amatsha azisa imvakalelo yobutsha, ekhuthaza ukuveliswa kweekhemikhali zobuchopho ezizivayo. Inokukunceda ukujongana nemiba ethile onokuba nayo, efana neentlungu kwindawo ethile okanye ukufuna uvuselelo olungakumbi kwenye. Izikhundla ezimbalwa azicebisayo ziquka i-yab yum (uqwalaselo lweTantra lwakudala lokusondelelana) kunye Ipanekuku (inkulu kwabo banentlungu yomqolo). Okukhona uphonononga, kokukhona uyazi.
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Isenokungabi njalo isandi i-sexy kodwa ukucwangcisa ngesondo ngokwenene kunokukhokelela kubomi bokwabelana ngesondo obanelisayo. Kanjani? Ngenxa yokuba ukwazi ngesondo kuyeza kumema ukulindela kunye nokucinga. Kukwathetha ukuba nenjongo, echaza ixabiso. Yaye ngubani ongathandi ukuziva uxatyisiwe?
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Kwisahluko esinesihloko esithi Ukuvusa Ubomi Bakho, uMcLaughlin ubeka ukuba umdlalo wangaphambili ayisiyiyo nje into eyenzekayo kwigumbi lokulala ngaphambi kokwabelana ngesondo. Endaweni yoko, yiyo nayiphi na into ekwenza ulungele ukuthanda kunye nokusondelana kubandakanya ukuzikhathalela kunye nobuntu. Amacebiso akhe? Landela iminqweno yakho, gcina ijenali kwaye udlale nawe-zombini ngokwesondo kunye nenkanuko (cinga: thatha ibhafu, fumana i-massage okanye ufunde amabali avuselela inkanuko). Yiba nemincili ngomzimba wakho kunye nobomi bakho kwaye uzise olo lonwabo kunye nawe kwigumbi lokulala (okanye naphi na).
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Ngokuba wena (duh). Kodwa ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima oku, uMcLaughlin unentaphane yeengcebiso ezinokunceda njengokusebenzisa iziqinisekiso, ukubukela iifilimu ezivuselela inkanuko yesini kunye nokunxibelelana nabahlobo abanesondo.
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