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Yikholwa okanye ungakholelwa, unokuhlala usenza izinto ezothusayo xa ujikeleze uthando lwakho. Nokuba ungazama kangakanani, izenzo zakho zibonakala zingaphaya kwamandla akho. Uvalo kunye nemincili yokuba phakathi koxinzelelo lwakho kunokukwenza wenze izinto ezothusayo. Kuyacaca ukuba uya kuzama konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ungazithengeli iitoni zentloni. Ukukunceda kule nto, sizise uluhlu lwezinto ekufuneka uziphephe ukuzenza xa uzokuchitha.
1. Ungaze uZitshintshe ukuChukumisa ukuCola kwakho
Unokuba usenza eyona nto isengxakini xa ucinga ukuba ukuzitshintsha kuya kwenza ukuwa kwakho kukuwe. Vumela ukutyumka kwakho kwamkele ngale ndlela uyiyo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uzinyanzele ukuba utye eyona nto ayithandayo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uzenze olwimi-mbini kuphela ukuze uchukumise ukutyumza kwakho. Ukuya kuthi ga kutshintsho olutsha kungakwenzi uphulukane nobuntu bakho bokwenyani, ukuzisa utshintsho oluqinisekileyo kunokuba yinto elungileyo.
2. Kuphephe Ukuqhayisa Ngempumelelo yakho
Kuhle ukuba ufumene awona manqaku aphezulu kwiimviwo zebhodi yakho, unolwazi olubanzi kwisifundo esithile okanye ungumdlali webhola. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uziqhayise ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukuqhayisa akunakuze kukufumanele amanqaku amdaka kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kukucaphukisa. Unokukubona njengomntu othanda ukuzicingela kwaye angazama ukukuthintela, kuphela ukuphepha ukumamela ukuqhayisa kwakho.
3. Musa ukuyikhukulisa i-inbox ngemiyalezo
Kuyaqondakala ukuba unokuba nomnqweno wokuthetha nomntu omthandayo. Unokufuna ukutshintshiselana ngeetekisi ezininzi kwaye wazi ngakumbi ngaye. Kodwa akukho nto inokuphazamisa umbono wakho ngaphandle kokukhukulisa ibhokisi yakhe engenayo enemiyalezo emininzi. Okwangoku, xa uwela umgca wokufuna, uya kuba ngumntu onomdla. Ke ngoko, kungcono ukubamba amahashe akho kwaye uphephe ukuthumela imiyalezo eqhubekayo. Kungenxa yokuba ukutyumza kwakho kungaphenduli kwimiyalezo yakho, oko akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka umbhobokise ngemiyalezo.
4. Ungaze Uthobele Ukuzihlonela Kwakho
Ukuzithemba kwakho kubaluleke ngaphezu kokuchukumisa ukutyumka kwakho nokumenza awe kuwe. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuba neemvakalelo ngomnye umntu kwaye uzame ngako konke onako ukumkholisa loo mntu. Kodwa okomzuzu uqala ukulalanisa nokuzithemba kwakho, izinto zinokuphazamiseka. Umzekelo, ukuba ukutyumza kwakho akunamdla kuwe, uhlala uzama ukukuthintela kwaye akunike unyango olubandayo, ke kuya kufuneka uziqhelanise naye. Ngaphandle koko unokujamelana nokuthotywa okuninzi.
5. Ukuhlala Ufumaneka ngokuKhusela kwakho
Kulungile ukuba uhlala usenza ixesha lokuba uhlangane notyumko lwakho, wandise isandla sokunceda kunye / okanye ube nencoko naye. Kodwa ngaba ukhe wacinga ukuba umntu otyumkileyo unokucinga ntoni, ukuba uhlala ufumaneka kuye? Unokucinga ukuba awunanto yakwenza kwaye ke, uhlala ukulungele ukumhlangabeza okanye uhlale kwi-Intanethi ngalo lonke ixesha. Kuya kufuneka usoloko ubeka phambili ngakumbi kule misebenzi ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
6. Ukuzivumela Uthobeke Ngalo Lonke Ixesha
Ukutyumza kwakho ngekhe kuchukunyiswe ukuba uyazivumela ukuba uphantsi rhoqo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ufune uvelwano. Umzekelo, ukuzibonakalisa njengomntu ophantsi kwaye osisiyatha, kodwa ukuze ufumane ingqwalaselo yoxinzelelo lwakho akunakukunceda. Akukho mntu unokukuthanda ngenxa yosizi. Ukutyumza kwakho kungazama konke okusemandleni akhe ukuba abe nembeko kuwe kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba uyakuthanda, kuba usisiyatha kwaye ungumntu ocikidekileyo ongazithembanga.
7. Ukumleqa ngalo lonke ixesha
Ukutyumza kwakho ayisiyonto ekufuneka uyileqe ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukulandela umdla wakho wothando naphina apho aya khona okanye nantoni na ayenzayo inokumosha amathuba akho. Unokukuthatha njengomntu ocukucezayo kwaye angazama ngako konke okusemandleni akhe ukuhlala kude nawe. Amathuba kukuba ukutyumza kwakho kujike kuye / kuye, ngonaphakade.
Kulungile ukuba nomntu otyumkileyo kodwa uncame impilo yakho, uxolo lwengqondo kunye nokuzithemba ukuze uqatshelwe nguye kuyinto ebubudenge ukuyenza. Ngaphambi kokuthanda omnye umntu, kufuneka uzithande. Oku kuya kuhlala kukwenza uzive ungubani.