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Ukuba ubuzithanda iintsomi ebuntwaneni bakho, uya kuvuma ukuba amabali othando kwezo ntsomi aboniswa njengeyona nto iqhubekayo nesonwabisayo. Yayilibali apho iNkosana kunye neNkosazana bathandana khona, umzuzu abadibana ngawo okokuqala. Bajongana neengxaki ezahlukeneyo kunye nemiceli mngeni de badibana kokugqibela ukuze bahlale bonwabile nasemva koko. Ewe, ngaba oku kuyenzeka kubomi bokwenyani?
Abantu banokuba neentsomi ezahlukeneyo xa kufikwa kubudlelwane, ngakumbi ubudlelwane bokuhlala. Banokucinga ukuba umntu onobudlelwane bokuhlala nomntu unelona nqanaba lihle lobomi bakhe kodwa ayiyonyani leyo. Kwakukho ixesha apho ukuya kubudlelwane obuhleliyo kwakuthathwa njengongamkelekanga kuluntu lwaseIndiya. Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ubudlelwane bokuhlala babuthathwa 'njengobungeyolwaphulo-mthetho' yinkqubo yezomthetho eIndiya. Kodwa ayamkelwa ngokubanzi. Kuba yayiyi-taboo kwaye isabonwa njengento 'engalunganga', kukho iintsomi ezahlukeneyo ezinxulumene nayo. Ke masihambe ngezinye zeentsomi eziqhelekileyo malunga nokuhlala kubudlelwane.
1. 'Ukuphila ngoku akukho mthethweni'
Kwilizwe elifana ne-India apho umtshato uthathwa njengeziko elingcwele kwaye ekuphela kwebhondi enokuvumela indoda nomfazi (ngaphandle kobudlelwane begazi) ukuba bahlale kunye, ukukhetha ukuhlala ngaphakathi yinto engaziwayo kubantu abaninzi apha.
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ubudlelwane bokuhlala babonwa buvela kwingqondo emxinwa kwaye abantu babecinga ukuba ezi zibini ziziphethe kakubi kwaye azikho ngaphantsi kwezaphuli-mthetho. Nangona kunjalo, kwakusemva ko-2010 xa iNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-India kunye nezinye iiNkundla eziPhakamileyo zase-India, babhekisa kuyo njenge 'hayi ityala lolwaphulo-mthetho'. Nangona kunjalo, abantu bahlala benamathandabuzo malunga nobudlelwane bokuhlala, ngakumbi kwiidolophu ezincinci nakwizixeko.
2. 'Ukuhlala Kunye Kuthetha Ubuhlobo obuPhakathi'
Ayizizo zonke 'ukuhlala kunye' ubudlelwane obuphilayo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu uhlala nendoda okanye umfazi kuphela ukuzalisekisa iimfuno zesondo kunye nezemali okanye ngaphandle kwenjongo yokuba nolwalamano kunye nokwabelana ngesondo, oko akunakubizwa ngokuba kukuhlala ngokuthandana.
Xa abantu ababini abathandanayo kwaye beqinisekile ngokuhlala kunye kwaye bonwabele ubomi babo bothando, oko kubizwa ngokuba bubudlelwane bokuhlala. Esi sibini sinakho okanye singabinabo ubudlelwane bezesondo omnye komnye njengoko kuxhomekeke kwisigqibo sabo bobabini.
3. 'Ukuba isibini sihleli kubudlelwane obuhleliyo, kuya kufuneka batshate'
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba xa isibini sithandana ngokuhlala, kufuneka sitshate. Kubo, ubudlelwane bokuhlala bufana nje nesifungo somtshato. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuyonyani. Ubudlelwane bokuhlala buvumela isibini ukuba sazane ngaphambi kokuba sitshate.
Ukuba ngelixa behlala kubudlelwane obuhlala-ngaphakathi, isibini asiziva sisebenzisana, sinokukhetha ukubiza ubudlelwane babo ukuba bushiye. Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo bangena kubudlelwane obuhlala buhleli ukujonga ukuhambelana kunye nokuqondana ngaphambi kokuvuma ukutshata omnye komnye.
4. 'Umntu Akanakuba Nabantwana'
Le yenye yeentsomi ezixhaphakileyo malunga nobuhlobo obuhleliyo. Nangona kunjalo, iNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-India inike ingxelo yokuba ukuba indoda nomfazi bahlala kubudlelwane bokuhlala ixesha elide, bayakuthathwa njengesibini esitshatileyo. Nokuba esi sibini sinabantwana, iya kusebenza imithetho efanayo njengoko ibinokwenzeka xa abantwana bezelwe ngabantu abatshatileyo. Ke isibini esihlala kubudlelwane bokuhlala ngokuqinisekileyo sinokuba nabantwana.
Kodwa ukuba elinye lamaqabane ligqibe kwelokuba liphume kobu budlelwane, elinye linokuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo.
5. 'Ababini banokuba neentlobano zesini nanini na xa befuna'
Abantu banokucinga ukuba ukuba indoda nomfazi bahlala kunye, isizathu soku kukulalana. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuyonyani. Isigqibo sokuba neentlobano zesini sixhomekeke kwisibini esitshatileyo. Kananjalo ayisiyokuba baya kuchitha lonke ixesha labo kwezothando nakwizenzo zenyama. Banokuba nezinye izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka.
6. 'Ayinakubakho into enjalo njengobundlobongela basekhaya kuyo'
Kuba sivile uninzi lwamaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya batshatile, ke abanye abantu banoluvo lokuba akukho bundlobongela basekhaya kubudlelwane bokuhlala. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuyonyani. Ukuba umntu ohlala kubudlelwane bokuhlala uhamba kubundlobongela basekhaya obuvela kwiqabane lakhe ahlala kulo, ixhoba linokufaka ityala. Icandelo 2 (f) kwi-Indian Penal Code likhusela umThetho woBundlobongela baseKhaya hayi kubantu abatshatileyo kuphela kodwa nakwabo bangatshatanga okanye 'abakwindalo yomtshato'.
Ke ukuba uqhubeka nobundlobongela basekhaya kubudlelwane bakho obuhlala nabo ngokuqinisekileyo unokufaka ifayile efanayo.
7. 'Ukuhlala ngaphakathi kukhululekile kuxanduva kunye neengxaki'
Kuba akukho mtshato kunye no-zero ekubandakanyekeni okuncinci kosapho, abantu bacinga ukuba ubudlelwane bokuhlala abuchaphazeleki koxanduva kunye neengxaki ekufuneka umntu ezenzile xa etshatile. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuyonyani.
NgokweNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-India, abantu abatshatileyo abahlala kuzo baya kuthathwa njengabantu abatshatileyo kunye nemithetho yomtshato inokusebenza nakubo. Oku kuyisusa ngokucacileyo intsomi yokuba noxanduva.
Ukuba umntwana uzalelwe ngaphandle kobudlelwane bokuhlala, luxanduva lwababini ukuba banikeze ukukhuliswa okufanelekileyo kunye okuyimfuneko kunye nezixhobo emntwaneni. Kananjalo, umntwana angalixhamla ilungelo lokufumana ilifa lezinyanya kunye nokuzithengela iipropathi zookhokho bakhe nabazali bakhe bemvelo.
Nokuba abasetyhini abahlala kubudlelwane obuhlala-ngaphakathi banokubanga ilungelo lesondlo ukuba ubudlelwane bokuhlala buyacinywa ngamaqabane abo.
8. 'Ababini abahambi ngexesha elinzima emva kokwahlukana'
Njengoko sisazi ubudlelwane obuhleliyo abubandakanyi umtshato kunye nobudlelwane obuza emva kokutshata nomntu, ukuphelisa umtshato kunokuba yinto enzima ukuyenza. Kodwa ayisiyiyo eyokuba izibini ezitshatileyo kubudlelwane bokuhlala aziphazamiseki ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuba omabini amaqabane aqhotyoshelwe ngokweemvakalelo omnye komnye, banokuba nobunzima emva kokuphelisa ubudlelwane babo. Omabini amaqabane anokuba nesifo sentliziyo kunye nokungazinzi ngokweemvakalelo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iimvakalelo zibaluleke kakhulu kubudlelwane.
Ubudlelwane abupheleli nje kuthando kunye namaxesha okuthambisa kodwa nokuba abantu ababini bafunda njani ukwamkela iimpazamo zomnye nomnye, bencedana ekufezekiseni iinjongo zabo, bezisa ezona zibalaseleyo komnye nomnye nangaphezulu. Into efanayo kunye nobudlelwane bokuhlala. Kuphela kukuba amaqabane amabini aqala ukuhlala kunye phantsi kophahla olunye kwaye aphile ubomi babo njengazo zonke izibini eziqhelekileyo.
