Nabani na owakhe wazama ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi unebali elinye eloyikisayo (okanye amaninzi, amaninzi ngakumbi) , kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba yonke into yokuswayipha ilungile yinto epheleleyo. Apha, amabali okwenyaniso asibhozo malunga intanethi ukuthandana ukuba uya kukunika zonke uziva.
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Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniKe, bendikulo mboniso wamahlaya kwaye oyena mfo uhlekisayo, nomhle wayekwiqonga ecula. Abahlobo bam babefuna ukuba ndihlale ndincokole naye emva komboniso, kodwa ndaziva ndingaqhelekanga ngoko ndahamba. Ukukhawuleza-phambili kwiinyanga ezimbalwa kamva kwaye sadibana kwiTinder! Ndamazi kwangoko ndavuya kakhulu xa endicela ukuba siyokutya isidlo sangokuhlwa. Sayibetha kwangoko kwaye sithandana ngolonwabo malunga nonyaka ngoku. – Sally
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ndathatha ifowuni yomhlobo wam, ndazivalela kwigumbi lakhe lokuhlambela ndambhalisela iTinder. Kwangobo busuku bunye, satshayinela kanye ngoku esasiza kutshata naye—baza kutshata ngoSeptemba. Wamkelekile. – Amy
Xa utata wayebuyele emarikeni emva kweminyaka emininzi kangaka, wagqiba kwelokuba azame le nto abantwana bayibiza ngokuba ‘kukuthandana nge-intanethi.’ Ngaphandle kokuba wayengaqinisekanga ncam ukuba amadoda akulo afanele aziphathe njani, ngoko wenza iakhawunti yomfazi womgunyathi. ukufumana iingcebiso. Emva kokuba efunde ezinye iintshukumo kwamanye amadoda kwisiza, emva koko uzenzele eyakhe (yenyani) iakhawunti kwaye eneneni ngoku uthandana nomfazi othandekayo awadibana naye apho. —Mat
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniEmva kokuba ndohlukene nesithandwa sam seminyaka emithandathu, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndenze ukucoca kuFacebook. Njengoko ndandiskrola kuluhlu lwabantu endingakhange ndithethe nabo ngonaphakade kwaye ndicima abafowunelwa, isikolo sam esidala samabanga aphakathi sandithumelela umyalezo. Kwathi kanti sihlala sobabini kwisixeko esinye waza wandibuza ukuba ndiyafuna na ukukhe ndifumane ikomityi yekofu. Ndenzile, kwaye ngoku siyatshata ngoMeyi. Ngubani owayesazi ukuba uFacebook unokuba luncedo kangako? -Megan
Mna nomyeni wam sadibana kwindawo yokuthandana kwiminyaka emine eyadlulayo kwaye ngekhe ndenze izinto ngokwahlukileyo. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba ndikhubeke kwiprofayili kaBlaine, ngoko nangoko ndacinga ukuba wayemhle kakhulu. Ndifike ngengxelo ekrelekrele (endithathe ixesha elide ukuba ndibhale) kwaye waphendula kwangoko. Kodwa eyona nto yayingcono yayikukuba akazange asebenze kwiprofayile yakhe ye-intanethi ngaphezulu kweenyanga ezintandathu kwaye wayetyikitye kwangolo suku ukuba arhoxise iakhawunti yakhe! Kodwa wawubona umyalezo wam kwaye kwenzeka ukuba athathe isigqibo sokundithumelela umyalezo. Thetha ngekamva. -Amy (eyahlukileyo)
Umzala wam wayetshiswe yi-ex yakhe yokukopela, kodwa emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa (kunye neeglasi ezininzi zewayini), ekugqibeleni ndamqinisekisa ukuba wayekulungele ukubuyela apho. Ndammisela ngeBumble profile kunye nomntu wokuqala emgceni wakhe? Itshomi yakhe ukusukela kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. Kwakusoloko kukho into apho kodwa ixesha lalingekho. Wathatha umfanekiso weskrini waza wawuthumela kuye esithi, ‘Ngosuku lokuqala ndibuyele kwindawo yokuthandana uze ukhangele ukuba ngubani oza kuvela!’ Waphendula wathi, ‘Ngaba kufuneka ndilinde ukuze nditshatise nawe ukuze ndikubuze?’ Baye bekunye? kunye phantse iminyaka emibini ngoku. – uMariya
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniIsoka lam uJoe kunye nam sadibana kwiTinder ngo-Okthobha ka-2013 kwaye kangangeeveki, wayesoyika ukudibana nam kuba sasinechemistry emangalisayo kwi-intanethi. Ekugqibeleni sathabatha iziselo kwindawo endandiyithanda kuMbindi-ntshona eBrooklyn, apho wayethe ‘uya kuba ‘ngumsantsa ekoneni ngamagaqa etshizi.’ Sayibetha ngoko nangoko yaye ngoku sihlala kunye kanye ezantsi kumda osuka kuloo bar neekati zethu ezimbini. , iPip kunye neBoBo. Usengu 'Joe Tinder' kwifowuni yam, nangona kunjalo. Uyakuhlala esisithandwa sam sikaTinder. – Leya
Emva koqhawulo-mtshato lwam, ndabhalisa kuMatch.com, iTinder kunye neBumble, kwaye ndadibana namadoda angama-64 kwiminyaka nje emibini (ezinye zilungile, ezinye ezimbi, ezinye ezimbi kakhulu). Ngalo lonke ixesha, bendisoloko ndibeka uluhlu lweminyaka yam ukusuka kwi-33 ukuya kuma-42. Umhla wam wokugqibela (inombolo 65) bendikunye noTroy kwaye sacofa ngoko nangoko, nto leyo intle kakhulu ukusukela ukuba usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa lweminyaka engama-43 lwaluziintsuku nje ezimbalwa ukusuka-yethu. ixesha beligqibelele. Siceba ukuhamba kunye kweli hlobo.' – Elizabeth
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