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Enye yezona zinto zingakhankanywanga kodwa mhlawumbi eyona nto intle ebomini bomntu kukubona abazali bakhe bonwabile. Ulonwabo emehlweni omzali lukhetheke kakhulu kwaye aluxabisekanga ngokupheleleyo. Kuyakufika inqaku kubomi bomntu wonke, ngakumbi emva komtshato, apho umntu aya kuba elungele ukunika nantoni na ukubuyela umva ayokukonwabisa abazali bakhe. Ke yintoni kanye kanye evuyisa abazali bakho? Zeziphi izinto ezibakhathaza abazali bakho? Imibuzo efanelekileyo ngokwenene, kuba ngamanye amaxesha, ngaphandle kokuyikhumbula, ekugqibeleni ukhathaza abazali bakho ngeendlela ezininzi.
UKWENZA ABAZALI BAQONDE
Singobani kwaye siyintoni ngenxa yabazali bethu, izipho ezithunyelwe nguThixo ngokwakhe. Uhlobo lothando nothando oluziswa ngabazali kubomi bomntwana alunakuze lucaciswe ngamagama- kungaphaya kokuchazwa ngamagama. Ngelixa sinethamsanqa lokuba sinemiphefumlo engakholelekiyo ebomini bethu, kubalulekile ukuba sibahloniphe, sibahloniphe kwaye sibathande abazali bethu, kuba ukuba asenzi njalo ngelixa bejikeleze, ubomi obuzele kukuzisola buza kusilinda.
Eli nqaku lijonga izinto ezisi-8 esizenzayo ezinokukhathaza abazali bakho. Kubalulekile ukuba uzazi ezi zinto zibakhathaza abazali bakho kwaye uyeke ukuzenza.
Ukuxoka kubazali bakho
Yazi oku ngokwenyani- abazali bakho bazakufikelela ngoku ukuba uyaxoka. Ngamanye amaxesha, bafuna ukukholelwa into oyithethayo kubo. Musa ukuxoka kubazali bakho, kuba ukuba bayayazi, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kubenzakalisa.
Ukulahleka Ebomini
Uninzi lwethu lunezigaba ebomini apho siphambuka khona kwindlela yobulungisa okanye eya kusonwabisa. Njengabazali, luxanduva lwabo ukuba bakuxelele xa uphambuka kwaye usenza izinto ezinokukwenzakalisa. Nditsho nasemva kokucebisa kaninzi, ukuba uqhubeka kwindlela efanayo, ngokuqinisekileyo yenye yezinto ezinokukhathaza abazali bakho.
Ukuthetha emva, Ukuxambulisana kunye nokuzikhukhumeza
Le yenye yezinto ezinokubakhathaza abazali bakho. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ungaphikisani nabo kwaye uthethe nabo nangona umdala kangakanani. Ukuba ukwanguwe othobekileyo, wawusithi mhlawumbi ubufana nendlela obufunda ngayo esikolweni, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kubonwabisa kakhulu.
Ukhetha ukuba ungenzi konke okusemandleni akho
Khumbula, abazali bakho bakukhulise emva kokuhlangabezana nocelomngeni olunzima ebomini. Ungenzi konke okusemandleni akho uya kubenzakalisa, kuba balindele ukubona amava okuvuya ngenxa yokukhulisa. Khumbula ukwenza konke okusemandleni akho, kuba ukuba wenza konke okusemandleni akho, abazali bakho bayokuma ecaleni kwakho kwelona xesha linzima.
Ukugxeka Abazali Bakho
Ngamanye amaxesha, uyilibale into yokuba abazali bakho baye bazabalaza bakukhulisa, ngamanye amaxesha bajongana nemiceli mngeni emikhulu. Musa ukutyhola abazali bakho ngezinto osenokungabi nazo kwaye mhlawumbi nabanye abantwana banazo, kuba uyakuqonda ngenye imini ukuba izinto obabatyhola zona zazingafanelekanga.
Ukungahloneli Abazali Bakho
Ukungabahloneli abazali bakho kunokubenzakalisa. Ngeliphandle, kuzo zonke izinto abazenzele zona abazali bakho, enye yezinto ezimbalwa abaya kukubuza yona kukuba ubahloniphe kwaye uqonde ukubaluleka kwabo. Ungaze ungabahloneli abazali bakho, kuba okukhona usenza ngakumbi, kokukhona ubude bexesha oya kulo. Kungekudala uyakuqonda ukuba akukho nto unokuyenza ukulungisa izinto kwakhona.
Ukungaziniki Indawo Yokubaluleka
Ewe, utshatile. Ewe, uninzi lwethu luyakwenza oko. Ukubonisa phakathi kwezona zinto zinokubakhathaza kakhulu abazali bakho kukungaziniki ezona zinto zibalulekileyo kunye nokugxeka ukubaluleka kwabo kunomnye umntu.
Ukubalibala xa befuna kakhulu
Yazi oku- abazali bakho abanakuze bakuxelele ngqo ukuba bayakudinga. Ukulibala xa sele baluphele mhlawumbi kubenzakalisa abazali bakho. Ungaze uyilibale into eyenziwe ngabazali bakho. Ungaze uyiphungule loo nto. Indoda eyinyani ayinakuze iyeke utyekelo olunje.