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Nokuba nithandane kangakanani, kunokubakho ixesha apho wena neqabane lakho ninokwazi ukuhlala kunye kubudlelwane. Isizathu sinokwahluka njengokuxabana kwemihla ngemihla, iingxoxo ezingapheliyo kunye nokungavisisani. Oku kunokukhokelela kwimeko apho unokucinga ngokuphelisa ubudlelwane. Nangona nithandana njengayo nantoni na, ngekhe nikwazi ukuhlala kunye. Ukuqhubeka emva kokuqhawula ubudlelwane kunye neqabane lakho kwimeko enjalo kunokuba yinto elula ukuyenza.
Nangona kunjalo, awunakuphulukana nethemba. Ukukunceda ukuba uqhubeke xa usamthanda iqabane lakho langaphambili, sidwelise ezinye iingcebiso.
1. Yamkele Inyaniso yokuba Uhambile
Ngaphandle kokuba awuyamkeli into yokuba awusekho kubudlelwane neqabane lakho, ngekhe ukwazi ukuqhubeka. Ukuba wena neqabane lakho langaphambili nifikelele kwinqanaba apho kungekho nto inokulungisa ubudlelwane bakho, ke kungcono ukwamkela inyani kwaye uqhubeke. Eyona nto intle onokuyenza kukuyeka ukukhanyela kwaye wamkele ukuba akasabuyeli kuwe.
2. Sika Bonke abafowunelwa naye
Ukuba usathumela izicatshulwa kwaye ubize iqabane lakho langaphambili ngethemba lokubuyisa ubudlelwane bakho, ke awuzukuba nesisa kuwe. Vumela ukuba uphilise ngokusika bonke abafowunelwa kunye neqabane lakho langaphambili. Endaweni yokuthumela umyalezo ngethemba kwaye ulindele impendulo, kuya kufuneka ujonge kuwe nakwizinto ezibaluleke ngokulinganayo kuwe.
3. Myeke ukukhumbula kwakhe
Ukubambelela kwizinto zokukhumbula kuye akunakunceda ekuyekeni iinkumbulo zakhe. Endaweni yoko unokuziva uzothekile kwaye unomsindo. Ukuyeka umntu akonelanga, kufuneka uyeke neenkumbulo zalo mntu. Ukukhumbula kwakhona ngeentsuku ezindala ezichithwe kunye neqabane lakho langaphambili ngekhe kubuyise loo mntu ebomini bakho. Ngale nto, unokuzama ukubuyisa zonke izinto zeqabane lakho langaphambili okanye ungazipakisha engxoweni kwaye uzigcine kwikona yekhaya lakho.
4. Zibandakanye nezifundo / emsebenzini wakho
Esinye sezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo zokuba kutheni abantu bekufumanisa kunzima ukuqhubeka emva koqhawulo-mtshato wabo kungenxa yokuba abazibandakanyi nomsebenzi othile onemveliso. Endaweni yokuba uphalaze iinyembezi kwaye uphinde ufunde iincoko ezindala, ungagxila kwizifundo nakwikhondo lomsebenzi. Ukuba ungumfundi emva koko unokucinga ngokunika iinzame ngakumbi kwizifundo zakho kunye nokufumana amanqaku amahle. Ngokufanayo, ukuba uyingcali esebenzayo, kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho.
5. Zigcine Uxakekile Kwizinto Ezivelisayo
Ngaphandle kokufunda kunye nokusebenza nzima kwindawo osebenza kuyo, unokuzibandakanya nakwinto enentsingiselo kunye nemveliso. Umzekelo, ungafunda ukupheka, ukupeyinta okanye ukuqhuba. Unokutyelela amakhaya okhuseleko kunye nevolontiya elifanayo. Oku kuya kukunceda uzive ungcono kwaye unethemba. Ekugqibeleni, uya kuba nakho ukuqhubekeka nokuba uyathandana ngokunzulu naloo mntu.
6. Chitha ixesha elininzi kunye namalungu osapho lwakho
Kuyacaca ukuba emva kokwahlukana kwakho, unokuziva ulilolo kwaye uxinezelekile. Kwimeko enjalo ukuchitha ixesha kunye namalungu osapho lwakho kunokuba luncedo kuwe. Uthando lwakho ngamalungu osapho lwakho luya kuthi ekugqibeleni luzalise isithuba ebomini bakho kwaye kukuncede uzive ungcono. Ukuba uhlala kude nosapho lwakho ungabatsalela umnxeba kwaye ube nencoko emnandi. Siyakubheja, ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya kukunceda uzive ungcono.
7. Yabelana ngeengcinga zakho nabahlobo bakho
Abahlobo bakho banako ukukunceda uqhubeke emva kokwahlukana kwakho. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukubabiza kwaye wabelane ngeemvakalelo zakho. Ukuba unabahlobo abakukhathalele ngokwenyani kwaye bahlala bexhalabele impilo-ntle yakho awunakukhathazeka kwaphela. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba nomntu okwaziyo ukumamela intlungu yakho kunye nokukhala kunokuba yinto yomntu onokuyenza.
8. Funda iZakhono ezitsha
Ukuphalaza iinyembezi kunye nokuziva ulusizi ngekhe kukuncede. Ke kutheni ungasebenzisi eli xesha ekufundeni izakhono ezitsha? Yikholwe okanye ungakholelwa, ukutyala ixesha lakho ekufundeni into entsha kuya kukunceda uqhubeke ebomini bakho kwaye uzive ungcono. Ayisiyiyo le kuphela, kodwa uya kuba nakho ukuzikhusela ekuphuhliseni inzondo kunye nezothe kumlingane wakho wangaphambili. Ngale nto, unokufunda nantoni na enje ngesoftware entsha, ukuhamba okanye ubuchwephesha obunokukunceda kwikhondo lakho lomsebenzi.
9. Kuphephe Ukuziva Unobukrakra kwaye Unomsindo
Siyaqonda ukuba ukwahlukana kwakho kabuhlungu bekuya kukwenza uzive unenzondo kwaye ukrakra. Kungenxa yokuba awuzange ucinge ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buya kuphela ngendlela kwaye uya kuphulukana nalowo ubumthanda ngokwenyani. Kodwa ukuziva ukrakra nengqumbo akunakukunceda nawe. Ke ayiyintoni injongo yokuziva ukhathazekile kwaye udanile? Endaweni yoko, kufuneka uzithande kwaye ube nesisa kuwe.
Siyaqonda ukuba ukuqhubela phambili emva kokuba nithandane ngokunzulu kunokuba yinto enzima ukuyenza. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo unokwenza okufanayo ngoncedo lwezi ngongoma zichazwe apha ngasentla. Ngaphandle kwezi, kuya kufuneka uzikhumbuze ukuba iintlungu akufuneki zikunqande ekubeni uphile ubomi bakho. Ubomi buyaqhubeka kwaye ke kuya kufuneka uyeke ukuze uqhubeke.