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Ngaba unomdla wokwazi ukuba ungabikho njani umtya oqhotyoshelweyo kubudlelwane? Sebenzisa oku njengesikhokelo sokufunda yonke into oyifunayo.
Ayinguye wonke umntu onokuya ngaphandle kwentambo ubudlelwane obuqhotyoshelweyo. Ukunyaniseka, kumnandi kodwa kuphela kwabo banako ukujongana nako.
Kukho izinto ezithile ezibalulekileyo ngaphambi kokungena kwiintlobo zobudlelwane. Ayingabo bonke abanokuyifumana ingqondo yokuba kubudlelwane bobuxoki apho konke kungamaxesha okonwaba kwaye kungekho thando luchaphazelekayo. Njengoko sibona isizukulwana siguquka, ezi ntlobo zobudlelwane ngoku zinomsindo kwaye sele ziqhelekile.
Kukho izinto ezithile ekufuneka uzazi malunga nezi ntlobo zobudlelwane. Makhe sibone ukuba zeziphi.
1. Abahlobo
Musa ukuba nezi ntlobo zobudlelwane nabahlobo. Akunakuze! Musa ukuba neentambo eziqhotyoshelweyo ngesondo kunye nabahlobo bakho abalungileyo. Ukuba izinto ziyehla, uya kugqiba ukuphulukana nomhlobo wakho. Njengabahlobo, nobabini ninokuthetha kwaye ninxibelelane rhoqo kwaye oko kuya kuzisa ukuthandana ngokweemvakalelo kolu lwalamano. Uya kuphelisa ukuxuba ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokwabelana ngesondo, nto leyo engumxube ogqibeleleyo wobudlelwane bothando kodwa hayi ulwalamano olungenantambo.
2. Ungaze ube neemvakalelo
Ungaze ube nolwalamano lwe-NSA nomntu ocinga ukuba uyathandana naye okanye unayo nayiphi na into yokuncamathela ngokweemvakalelo. Oku kuyakwenza umonakalo kubomi bakho. Iya kukwenzakalisa kakhulu. Ubudlelwane be-NSA akufuneki bube neemvakalelo ngokwendalo.
3. Soloko ukhetha uKhuselo
Ungaze ube neentlobano zesini ezingakhuselekanga ngaphandle kweqhina. Akukho ndlela unokukwazi ngayo ukuba bangaphi abanye loo mntu ebenokulala naye ngelixa elele nawe.
4. Xelela into oyifunayo ebhedini
Akukho ndawo yokuba nolwalamano olujolise kwisini ukuba awufumani nto kuyo. Kuya kubonakala kukuhle kwicala elinye ukuba umntu ugxile kuye kuphela hayi kwinto oyifunayo. Qinisekisa ukuba umntu onaye uyaziqonda iimfuno zakho kunye nezinto ozifunayo kulwalamano ngokunjalo.
Izidingo zakho zibaluleke ngokufana neyakhe, kwaye yinto ekufuneka iqatshelwe liqabane lakho. Ukuba uza kuphuma kwindlela yakho ukuze uqiniseke ukuba iqabane lakho lihleli kamnandi kwaye uzenza ubonakale unomtsalane kuye, kuya kufuneka ke naye azinike inani elifanayo lokuzinikezela.
Ungamvumeli ukuba akhulule ikhonkco kuba ayisiyonto enkulu. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ufumana ukoneliseka kunye nokonwaba xa usabelana ngesondo kunye nokufumana into ngaphandle kwayo. Musa ukunyamezelana ngesondo esifanelekileyo xa kufanelekile kwaye musa ukugoba ngaphandle kokuba awufumani okufanayo kubo.
5. Musa Ukuthetha Ngekamva
Ungaze ubandakanye iqabane lakho le-NSA kwimizamo yakho yexesha elizayo okanye kwizicwangciso. Akazelanga loo nto. Yigcine ngokufihlakeleyo njengoko kufanelekile kwaye nenze le nto beniyifuna nobabini. Musa ukuzibandakanya kulo naluphi na uhlobo lwencoko olunokuthi lubeke emngciphekweni iimeko zakho kwixesha elizayo. Khumbula, i-NSA imalunga nokungadibanisi iimvakalelo kunye nobomi bobuqu. Konke malunga nokonwaba kwaye kuphela kwaso.
6. Yiba neMithetho eQalile
Kuya kufuneka ugcine eminye imigaqo-siseko ukuze ugcine ubudlelwane bakho be-NSA bugcinwa. Ifuneka kakhulu xa ukhangela ulonwabo. Kuya kufuneka uyigcine le mida. Le mithetho isisiseko ihlala inceda ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Ezi zizikhokelo ezithile ekufuneka uyazi ukuze ulandele indlela yokuziphatha kobudlelwane be-NSA.
Ukuba ukuthandile ukufunda eli nqaku, yabelana ngalo kwihlabathi lonke.
Masinwabe!