Imidiya yoluntu yoja umfundi wasekholejini ngenxa yokuba yibrat.
Emva kwengxabano edidayo kunye nomzala wakhe, umntwana oneminyaka engama-21 ubudala waya kwi-Reddit's Am I the A****** iforum. Eli bhinqa liselula lalifuna ukwazi ukuba lalisisibhanxa na ukwala ukuvumela umzala wakhe ukuba asebenzise izityalo zakhe zasengqayi .
Ndityala yonke into ukusuka kwimifuno ukuya kwiintyatyambo. Yinto yokuzonwabisa endiyisebenzela ngokwenene. Ukunyamekela izityalo akulula, okanye kungabizi, kodwa ndiyakuthanda ukuyenza, Wacacisa .
Ngenye imini ngentsimbi yesi-7 kusasa umzala wakhe oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala wathi gqi endlwini yakhe ecela iisampulu zengcambu kwigadi yakhe.
Umbono wakhe yayikukuncothula izityalo zam, ndinqumle iqhekezana lengcambu ze ndiphinde ndizityale. Uphinde wathi gqi endlini yam ephethe umhlakulo nemela, wabhala . Ndenzakala kakhulu kuba ecinga ukuba angasuka ancothule izityalo zam ngolo hlobo kwaye ndimxelele ukuba andifuni enze loo nto kwizityalo zam.
Umgcini-sitiya uthe ukususa izityalo ezikwiimbiza zodaka kunokuzilimaza kakhulu.
Kuba ndingamvumelanga ukuba asebenzise izityalo zam njengeisampulu zeprojekthi yakhe, wandixelela ukuba ndimcaphukisile ndabuyela endlwini yakhe, uthe .
Umzala wafaka isabelo sakhe ngaphandle kweesampuli kwaye wafumana amanqaku angalunganga. Emva koko wabeka izinto kwelinye inqanaba.
Wandicaphukela, waphambana kakhulu kwaye wabandakanya oomama bethu, waqhubeka . Undisola ngokupasa kwakhe kakubi. Ingcaciso yakhe yeyokuba ngenxa yokuba ndingazange ndimvumele ukuba asebenzise iingcambu zesityalo sam isabelo sakhe sasingagqitywanga kwaye yayisisizathu sokuba ibakala lakhe libi.
Ngoku umzala akathethi nomgadi wegadi. Kodwa ngethamsanqa iReddit ibilapha ngenkxaso yokuziphatha.
Ngaphandle kokuba uvela kwiplanethi apho ekuphela kwezityalo ezikhoyo zizityalo zakho, wayenolunye ukhetho, omnye umsebenzisi uphawule . Ukuba wayesonqena ukulandela ezo kwaye enelungelo lokucinga ukuba unokwaphula izicwangciso zakho zokuyenza, iphezu kwakhe.
Wow, kwisihloko bendilindele ukuba afane ne-10 ... watsho omnye umntu . Kodwa ukufumanisa ukuba uneminyaka engama-24 kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuza endlwini yakho ukugrumba izityalo zakho kuba akanakukhathazwa kukucwangcisa le projekthi ngokufanelekileyo… Oku kukungakhathali kwaye akufuni ukuba umncede kwaphela. Kufuneka akhule.
Kwakutheni ukuze angathethi nawe ngale nto kwakude kudala ngaphambi kokuba kufike imini? Yayilucwangciso lwakhe olulambathayo olwamenza wafumana ibakala elibi, umntu wabhala .
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