Utata wesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kungekudala uza kubangela ingxoxo-mpikiswano ebanzi yobuzali emva kokwabelana ngokungonwabi kwakhe neminqweno yentombi yakhe emva kokuphumelela.
Utata, ngubani wabelane ngebali lakhe kwi I-Reddit's I-AITA ( Ngaba ndiyi-A ****** ) iforamu, yachaza ukuba kutheni intombi yakhe yayizicingela ngokufuna ukuya kwisikolo se-Ivy League.
Uyaqondakala phezu kwenyanga, uyise uthe ngomntwana wakhe oneminyaka eli-18 ubudala, owamkelwayo eHarvard .
Kwisithuba sakhe, utata uye wachaza ukuba, ngaphandle kokuzingca kwakhe ngempumelelo yomntwana, wayekholelwa ukuba kufuneka ahlale kufutshane nabazali bakhe kwaye aye kwiyunivesithi enexabiso eliphantsi kakhulu - kodwa intle kakhulu kwikhaya losapho.
Ukuqiqa kwakhe, nangona kunjalo, kwakubonakala ngathi kuyabahlula abazali kunye nabagqabaza abakwiminyaka yasekholejini ngokufanayo.
‘Wayekhathazekile kukuba singenako ukumvuyelela’
URedditor uqhubeke wachaza ukuba yena nenkosikazi yakhe bebetyhala intombi yabo ukuba ifunde kwisikolo sikarhulumente, njengoko iza kuba kufutshane nenkqubo yakhe yenkxaso. Ukongeza, wayenokonga imali eninzi yokufunda kunye neefizi.
Esi sikolo [sikwilizwe] sinexabiso eliphantsi kakhulu kwaye unenkxaso-mali yokufunda enokuhlawula yonke imali yokufunda, ngaphandle kweefizi kunye neencwadi zokufunda, utata wabhala.
Intombi yakhe, yona yayivakalelwa kukuba ingxabano ayinamsebenzi, kuba abazali bayo babengayihlawuleli imfundo.
Intombi yam yayicatshukiswa kukuba singenako ukuyivuyela, kwaye ithi ekubeni ingengabo abahlawulayo asinakuthetha, wabhala utata. Ndiyayiqonda loo ngqiqo ... ukuba uyagula okanye wonzakele okanye kufuneka abuyele ekhaya, siyakuhlawulela sobabini ngokwasezimalini nangokweemvakalelo.
Utata uphinde waqaphela ukuba intombi yakhe encinci, eneminyaka eli-12 ubudala, iya kuhluthwa isikhokelo kudade wabo omdala ukuba ifudukela kwelinye ilizwe.
Ndicinga ukuba sisigqibo sokuzingca kwaye ndixelele inkulu yam, kodwa loo nto imenze wanomsindo ngakumbi, wongeze watsho.
‘Zama ukumvuyela’
Ebhala ukuba amanye amalungu osapho ebevuyisana nentombi yakhe ngaphandle kokucinga ngeziphumo, utata wabuza abasebenzisi beReddit ngezimvo zabo. Abaninzi babegxeka kakhulu, besithi ngutata, kungekhona intombi yakhe, eyayizingca.
Bendicinga ukuba ukhathazekile ngemali - kodwa zizizathu zakho ezikwenza ube [******], omnye umhlomli wabhala . Akanaxanduva lokuncama amaphupha akhe ukuze ancedise ekukhuliseni udade wabo. Udadewabo ayiloxanduva lakhe - umntwana wakho, umsebenzi wakho.
Akukho sikhubekiso kodwa kuvakala ngathi niyazithanda kwaye kufuneka nimvumele ukuba azenzele ukhetho, omnye wongeza . Kwakhona ukuya kwisikolo se-ivy league athe wasisebenzela nzima kuya kuhlawula umvuzo wokufumana imisebenzi. Myeke nje onwabe kwaye uzame ukumvuyisa.
Abanye, okwangoku, babenovelwano ngakumbi, bebhala ukuba bayayiqonda ukuba utata wayevela phi ngelixa besamkhuthaza ukuba axhase ukhetho lwentombi yakhe.
Ukuba eli liphupha lakhe kwaye liyenzeka, myeke alenze. AWUKWAZI ukuhlala ucinga ukuba 'kuthekani ukuba' kwaye ucinga ukuba angenzakala / agule kwaye kufuneka abuyele ekhaya, omnye umsebenzisi wabhala .
Ungene kwesinye sezona zikolo zibalaseleyo emhlabeni. Lukhuthazo olo kudade wabo omncinci kwaye ungambandezi nantoni na, omnye wabanga .
Ukuba ulithandile eli bali, khangela Kwinqaku elithi Ulwazi ngomfundi othe ucele ingcebiso emva kokubizwa ngokuba yi-racial slur ngexesha leklasi yakhe ye-intanethi.
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