Umxelela njani umzala wakho othanda ulwandle osuswe kabini ukuba anganxibi iiflops kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sangoLwesihlanu? Ngaba kufuneka unike umntu ohlala naye ekholejini i-plus-one? Kwaye ngaba krwada ukubandakanya ubhaliso lomtshato wakho kwisimemo?
Usuku lwakho olukhulu luselundini kwaye ngelixa lakho nxiba , i ikeyiki kwanombulali uluhlu lokudlala yonke iseti, unemibuzo engaphezu kwesibini malunga nokuba loluphi ulwazi oza kubonelela ngeendwendwe zakho kwaye nini. Yoyika:Sithethile Myka Meier , umbhali we I-Etiquette yanamhlanje yenziwe lula: Indlela ye-5-step to Mastering Etiquette , kwaye ufumene i-scoop kwi-etiquette yesimemo somtshato (kuquka eyona mpazamo ixhaphakileyo eyenziwa zizibini), ngoko unokuqiniseka ukuba ufumene i-i's kwaye wawela u-t ngaphambi kokubetha i-ofisi yeposi.
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negoworks/Getty ImagesYintoni enxulumene nokugcina imihla?
NgokukaMeier, ukugcina imihla akufuneki ukuba uchaze indawo yomsitho-ukuze ukwazi ukuphefumla ngokufumana ixesha elininzi lokukhetha. indawo yakho -kwaye akufuneki babe nendawo kwi-RSVP. Nangona kunjalo, umhla wokugcina kufuneka ukhankanye umhla womtshato (duh) kwaye kufuneka uthunyelwe kwangaphambi kwesimemo esisemthethweni. Ithetha ntoni le nto? Gcina iintsuku zithunyelwa malunga neenyanga ezisibhozo ngaphambi komtshato, utshilo uMeier, kunye neenyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambili ukuba unomtshato wendawo. Impazamo eqhelekileyo: Ukunganiki iindwendwe a iintloko phezulu ngendlela yokugcina umhla.
Yintoni omawuyenze endaweni yoko: Thumela ukugcina kwakho umhla malunga neenyanga ezisibhozo ngaphambi komtshato kunye neenyanga ezintandathu phambi kwesimemo.
Yintoni ofanele uyifake kwisimemo sakho somtshato?
Isimemo somtshato esiqhelekileyo sibandakanya lonke ulwazi olulindeleyo kuso nasiphi na isimemo-isaziso esifutshane somsitho (okt., UJack kunye noJill bakumeme ukuba ubekho kumsitho womtshato wabo ), kunye nomhla, ixesha kunye nedilesi yendawo. Isimemo kufuneka sichaze indawo yolwamkelo ukuba unayo.
Impazamo eqhelekileyo: Ukushiya ulwazi olubalulekileyo kwisimemo.
Yintoni omawuyenze endaweni yoko: Qinisekisa ukuba ubandakanya umhla, ixesha kunye nedilesi yomsitho womtshato, kunye nalo naluphi na ulwazi malunga nolwamkelo ukuba lukhona.
Ufanele uzithumele nini izimemo zomtshato?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo ixhomekeke kuhlobo lomtshato onalo. Ngokubanzi, uMeier uthi izimemo zomtshato kufuneka ziphume malunga neeveki ezintandathu ukuya kwezisibhozo ngaphambi komtshato. Imitshato yendawo ekuyiwa kuyo inkulu ngaphandle kulo mgaqo; kule meko, izimemo kufuneka zithunyelwe ubuncinane kwiinyanga ezine ngaphambi komcimbi.
Impazamo eqhelekileyo: Ukulinda de kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela ukumema iindwendwe zakho.
Yintoni omawuyenze endaweni yoko: Nika abahlobo kunye nosapho lwakho isaziso seeveki ezintandathu ukuya kwezisibhozo ukuze babe nexesha lokuphendula kwaye bacwangcise ngokufanelekileyo.
Poh Kim Yeoh/EyeEm/Getty ImifanekisoKufuneka ulenze nini umhla wokugqibela we-RSVPs?
NgoMeyier, umhla wokugqibela we-RSVP kufuneka uwe kwindawo ethile phakathi kweeveki ezintathu ukuya kwezine ngaphambi komhla womtshato. Impazamo eqhelekileyo: Ukunika iindwendwe ixesha elincinci kakhulu ... okanye ukuphazamisa isicwangciso sakho ngokuzinika kakhulu.
Yintoni omawuyenze endaweni yoko: Sika ii-RSVPs malunga nenyanga enye ngaphambi komtshato kwaye wonke umntu uyaphumelela.
Kufuneka ufake phi ulwazi malunga website yomtshato wakho?
Uluhlu lweenkcukacha omele uzibandakanye ekugcinweni kwakho imihla lifutshane kakhulu: amagama, umhla, ixesha, indawo...kwaye (uqikelele) iwebhusayithi yakho yomtshato. Iwebhusayithi yakho yomtshato liqonga eliluncedo lokugcina iindwendwe zinolwazi ngalo naluphi na ulwazi olubalulekileyo olunxulumene nomnyhadala, ke uya kufuna ukuba wonke umntu abe nofikelelo kamsinya nje bakuba bebhale ngepensile imini enkulu kwikhalenda yabo.
Impazamo eqhelekileyo: Ukungabi nayo iwebhusayithi yomtshato.
Yintoni omawuyenze endaweni yoko: Yenza iwebhusayithi yomtshato njengomthombo weendwendwe kwaye unike ulwazi malunga nokugcina imihla.
Ngaba kufuneka ubandakanye ulwazi lobhaliso kwizimemo zomtshato okanye ugcine imihla?
Ingcaphephe yesimilo ithi hayi kule, bahlobo. Endaweni yoko, uMeier ucebisa ukuthembela kwilizwi-lomlomo (cinga: itheko lomtshakazi kunye nosapho), iwebhusayithi yakho yomtshato (apho unokuthumela khona ikhonkco), okanye indibaniselwano yazo zombini ukufumana ulwazi lobhaliso kwiindwendwe zakho. Yimbonakalo nje engcono.
Impazamo eqhelekileyo: Kubandakanya ikhonkco kwirejistri nokuba gcina umhla okanye isimemo esisemthethweni.
Yintoni omawuyenze endaweni yoko: Yongeza ulwazi lwesipho kwiwebhusayithi yakho yomtshato endaweni yoko.
Ricardo Moura / UnsplashIndlela yokwazisa iindwendwe ngekhowudi yakho yokunxiba
Ayiyiyo yonke imihla uzifumana ukwimeko yokuxelela omnye umntu into emayinxibe, ngoko kuyaqondakala ukuba lo unokuziva engathandeki. Ungakhathazeki, nangona kunjalo-uMeier usixelela ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokubhala ikhowudi yesinxibo nokuba kwikhadi lolwamkelo elahlukileyo kwimvulophu efanayo nesimemo, okanye ngokugqibeleleyo, ushicilelo olukekeleyo emazantsi esimemo ngokwawo. (Qaphela: Oku kufuneka kube ngumgca olula kwaye kungabi sisincoko.)Usacinga ukuba isivakalisi esinye kwisimemo sishiya indawo encinci yokutolika (kodwa awufuni ukuba isimemo sifunde njengencwadi yomthetho)? Akhongxaki. NgoMeier, iwebhusayithi yakho yomtshato inomqolo wakho: [Yindawo] entle yokunika iingcebiso kwi-wardrobe yomtshato, kunye nokudwelisa naziphi na ezinye iikhowudi zokunxiba zemisitho eyongezelelweyo oyicwangcisela impelaveki.
Impazamo eqhelekileyo: Ukunika ikhowudi yokunxiba eneenkcukacha eziphezulu kwisimemo.
Yintoni omawuyenze endaweni yoko: Yayama kwiwebhusayithi yakho yomtshato ngaloo nto.
Ngaba kufuneka unike zonke iindwendwe umhla okanye i-plus-enye?
Imitshato iyabiza kwaye uzama ukugcina uluhlu lweendwendwe ukuba lungaphuki. (Siyayifumana.) Ke, kufuneka unike undwendwe ngalunye ukhetho lokuzisa i-plus-one? UMeier usixelela ukuba ezongeziweyo zilungile kodwa azifuneki kuyo yonke imeko. Oko kuthethiweyo, ucebisa ukunika i-plus-one kulo naluphi na undwendwe olunomntu obalulekileyo (umntu ahlala naye, umzekelo), kunye nazo zonke iindwendwe ukuba unomtshato wendawo-uyazi, ngoko abantu obathandayo banomtshato. hamba mfondini. Esinye isilumkiso: Ukuba awandisi i-plus-enye ngenxa yaso nasiphi na isizathu, qiniseka ukuba kukho inani elihle labanye abantu abamenyiweyo emtshatweni ngaphandle kokudityaniswa ukuze kungabikho mntu omnye okanye abambalwa kuphela abangenamntu wokuxutywa. , hlala okanye udanise kunye. Ngamanye amazwi, ukuba uninzi lweendwendwe ziya kudityaniswa, yenza abahlobo bakho abangatshatanga baqine kwaye unike 'em plus-ones.
Impazamo eqhelekileyo: Uluhlu lweendwendwe olushiya kuphela inani elincinci labantu ababhabha bebodwa.
Yintoni omawuyenze endaweni yoko: Zama ukunika i-plus-ones xa unako ukuqinisekisa ukuba zonke iindwendwe zakho zinokuba nexesha elimnandi.
Uyibeka phi idilesi yokubuyisela kwizimemo zomtshato?
Le yona icace gca: Ukuba ufuna ukugcina umphambili wemvulophu yesimemo sakho somtshato ukhangeleka ucocekile kwaye umhle (kodwa usafuna ukuba ibuyiselwe kumthumeli xa unikezelo aluphumelelanga), ekufuneka uyenzile kukubhala okanye ukuncamathelisa isincamathelisi nge idilesi yokubuyisela kwi-flap yangasemva yemvulophu. Easy-peasy.
Impazamo eqhelekileyo: Ukukrola idilesi yokubuyisela kwikona ephezulu ngasekhohlo njengoko ubuya kuhlawula ityala.
Yintoni omawuyenze endaweni yoko: Gcoba isincamathelisi esinedilesi eprintiweyo yokubuya kumqolo ongasemva wemvulophu ukuze ube nenkangeleko entle.
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