Kwihlabathi lethu eliya lisanda kwi-intanethi, kunokuba nzima kubazali ukuba balinganise ngokufanelekileyo phakathi kokugcina abantwana bekhuselekile kwi-intanethi kunye nokubavumela inkululeko yokuhlola. Yiyo loo nto uFareedah Shaheed ( @cyberfareedah ) yasekwa Kufana nokuba , inkampani yokufundisa ngokhuseleko kwi-intanethi enceda abazali nabantwana bamisele ukhuseleko lokuqala kwi-intanethi, ngelixa ikwabanceda banxibelelane.
Ekukhuleni kwakhe, uFareedah wayeyithanda imidlalo yevidiyo, kwaye wayesoloko ezifumana ekumagumbi okuncokola akwi-intanethi apho wayekuphela komfazi oMnyama ongumSilamsi. Bendiza kuba segumbini okanye ndincokole ngelizwi kunye nabanye abafana abangama-30 okanye abangama-50 kwaye ibindim ndedwa umfazi apho, utshilo. Kwi Ukwazi . Indikhule ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndaqonda ukuba abantu abaninzi babenempendulo eyahlukileyo kum ukuba ndingumfazi oNtsundu okanye ukuba ngumSilamsi.
Ngoku, uFareedah uyazoba kuye ebuntwaneni amava okunceda abazali bajonge kwiindawo ezikwi-intanethi kunye nabantwana babo. Ke namhlanje, ndisebenzisa into efanayo xa ndithetha naye abazali . Ndibaxelela ngamava am nokuba kutheni abantwana babo besekwezo ndawo nokuba baye bafumana amava angalunganga, uyacacisa. Sonke siyaluthanda unxibelelwano lwabantu. Sonke siyakuthanda ukuziva sifunwa, ukuba ngabakhe.
UFareedah waqala iSekuva kungekuphela nje ukufundisa abazali malunga nokhuseleko lwe-intanethi, kodwa ukubafundisa indlela yokunxibelelana nabantwana babo kwi-intanethi. Eyona nto inkulu ndiyakholelwa kunxibelelwano kulawulo, ngelixa ulawulo lwabazali kunye nokubekw' esweni kwabazali kunokuba nendawo, awufuni ukuba kugxilwe kuyo, uxelela kuLwazi. Ugxininiso kufuneka lube kukwakha uqhagamshelwano.
Endaweni yokubeka esweni abantwana babo I-intanethi Imisebenzi, uFareedah ucebisa ukuba abazali bathathe inxaxheba kwizinto ezinomdla wabantwana babo. Ngoko ke, umzekelo wokwakha uxhulumaniso udlala a umdlalo nabantwana bakho, okanye ukuba kid yakho ngokwenene uthanda a Imidiya yokuncokola akhawunti, emva koko uyilandele kwaye udibanise nabo kuyo, uyachaza. Oko kwakha ukuthembana kunye nemfezeko, ngoko ke udibanisa phakathi kolonwabo kunye nenkululeko abayifunayo kunye nokhuseleko kunye nokhuseleko olufunekayo.
UFareedah ufuna ukunceda abazali bakhusele abantwana kumarhamncwa kunye abahlaseli , kodwa ukwafuna ukuba abazali bazazi izisongelo ezingacacanga kangako, njengempembelelo yemithombo yeendaba yoluntu ekuzihloneleni kwabantwana. Esona sisongelo esikhulu ngaphandle kwamarhamncwa kunye nabahlaseli babantwana kwi-Intanethi, ngokunyaniseka, kunjalo impilo Yengqondo , uyachaza. Rhoqo abantwana abaninzi bajonga iiakhawunti ze-Instagram zabanye abantu okanye iTikTok kwaye bazive ngathi banobomi obungcono, okanye bahle kakhulu okanye baphumelele ngakumbi, kwaye ke iyayichaphazela indlela abantwana abazibona ngayo kunye nobomi babo kunye nomsebenzi wabo. , kwaye leyo yenye yezoyikiso ezinkulu.
UFareedah unethemba lokuba iSekuva iya kuba sisixhobo abazali abanokuthi bajike kuso ngokuphindaphindiweyo, njengobudlelwane bomntwana wabo I-intanethi iyaguquka. USekuva eneneni uthetha iqula lolwazi lokhuseleko onokuthi uhlale ubuyela kulo, uyacacisa. Eso sisiseko seshishini lam, yinto abantu abanokuthi bahlale bebuyela kuyo ukuze bafumane ukutya kunye nendawo ekhuselekileyo.
Njengomntwana, uFareedah wayengafane azive emelwe kwi-intanethi, kwaye kwakunqabile ukuba adibane nabanye abafazi abaNtsundu abangamaSilamsi. Ngoku, uFareedah unethemba lokuba umsebenzi wakhe noSekuva uya kukhuthaza abanye abaziva bengamelwanga kwaye ubabonise ukuba bangaphumelela. Njengomntwana, xa ukhangele isikrini, xa upheqa kwimidiya yoluntu, xa ukhangele kwi-Instagram, xa ubona umntu obonakala ngathi uyayenza, okukuchaphazela ngokunzulu, uyachaza. Ndiyathemba ukuba kukho intombazana encinci eNtsundu ebukele le vidiyo kwaye iyabona kwaye yeva ukuba nayo ingayenza.
