UGqr. Staci Tanouye unegalelo kwimpilo-ntle ye-In The Know. Mlandele Instagram kwaye TikTok ngakumbi.
Njengogqirha wezifo zabasetyhini, akunakuphepheka ukuba yonke iposi ye-Instagram endiyibhalayo okanye iTikTok ndiyidala ndisebenzisa ulwimi olubandakanya isini ifuna izimvo ezininzi ezifana:
Uthetha ‘abafazi,’ akunjalo?
Kutheni ungakwazi ukuthetha igama elithi 'umfazi?'
Yintoni onayo ngakubafazi?
Kutheni ufuna ukudelela abantu basetyhini?
Kutheni ubacaphukela oomama?
Kutheni uzama ukucima abafazi?
Mandicace: Akukho mntu uzama ukucima abafazi.
Jonga le post kwi-InstagramIsithuba esabelwe nguStaci Tanouye, MD FACOG | UGyn (@dr.staci.t)
Kwaye ewe, umsebenzi wam njenge gynecologist kukubonelela ngonakekelo lungcono kunabo bonke abafazi. Kodwa, umsebenzi wam kukubonelela ngononophelo olungcono kubo bonke abantu abane-vulvas, i-vaginas, uteri, ama-ovari, amabele okanye nayiphi na indibaniselwano ekhankanywe ngasentla. Kuba wonke umntu ufanelwe ukufikelela kukhathalelo lwempilo olukhuselekileyo, olungagwetyelwanga. Kodwa sikude ukuba silufikelele olo sukelo.
Igumbi lam loviwo loyikeka ngendlela engathethekiyo ekuqaleni. Izigulana kulindeleke ukuba zingene, zehlise i-trou, zixoxe ngazo zonke izinto ezibaxhalabisayo kwaye zibonise yonke inxalenye yomzimba yazo ezifundiswe ukuba neentloni ngayo. Akukho mntu ujonge phambili ukuya kwi-gynecologist!
Njengeengcali, ngumsebenzi wazo zonke ii-OB-GYNs ukuzama ukudala indawo yenkxaso kunye nentuthuzelo ukunciphisa ixhala elimangalisayo elixhokonxa amagumbi ethu eemviwo. Kwaye ngokwesiko, sithathe ukuba sithetha oku: siyenze ibe sisini ngakumbi, ngaphezulu kowasetyhini kuphela, ipinki ngaphezulu, intle kwaye ithambile. Kaninzi kuphela .
Kodwa ngokukhetheka kuza, kulungile, ukukhutshelwa ngaphandle. Kwaye ngale meko-bume i-hyper-gendered, sihlala singabandakanyi amaqela asele ejongelwe phantsi kwaye senze ulwahlulo olukhulu lwezempilo.
Kukho imbali ende yokucalulwa kwezempilo kumalungu oluntu lwe-LGBTQIA+. Akunakwenzeka ukuba bafune ukhathalelo lwempilo xa lufuneka ngenxa yokungalingani ekufikeleleni kunye noloyiko localucalulo, olukhokelela kwiziphumo zempilo ezihlwempuzekileyo.
I UPhando luka-2015 lweSizwe loCalucalulo ngokweSini Kubantu abangaphezu kwama-27,000 bafumanise ukuba i-23% yabantu abatshintshe isini khange bambone ugqirha xa bekufuneka ngenxa yokoyika ukuphathwa kakubi ngenxa yezazisi zabo. Kwaye i uphononongo oluhlaziyiweyo ngo-2019 ibonise ukuba i-18% yabo bonke abantu be-LGBTQIA+ bayakuphepha ukufumana ukhathalelo lwempilo ngenxa yokoyika ucalucalulo.
Singayiphucula njani impilo yoluntu oluloyikayo ucalucalulo kwiiofisi zethu? Uluntu oloyika izazisi zabo aluyi kuhlonitshwa kwabona bantu bafanele ukubagcina besempilweni?
Ukusuka ku uphononongo olucwangcisiweyo ngo-Hottes, et al ngo-2016, i-20% ye-LGBTQIA + abantu babike ubuncinane umzamo omnye wokuzibulala, ngelixa izifundo ezahlukeneyo zabantu be-transgender zibika naphi na ukusuka kwi-26 ukuya kwi-47% baye bazama ukuzibulala ngexesha elithile ebomini babo. Abantu abahlukeneyo ngokwesini nabo banamazinga aphezulu okungabi namakhaya kwaye badla ngokuba ngamaxhoba ubundlobongela beqabane .
Nangona kukho iindlela ezininzi zokungenelela zoluntu ezinokuthi zenziwe ukuphucula impilo yabantu abahlukeneyo ngokwesini, enye yezona zinto zilula ukuba wonke umntu amkele kukusebenzisa amagama abandakanya isini kunye nolwimi oluqinisekisa isini somntu. A funda nguGqr Stephen Russell kwi-2018 ibonisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwamagama akhethiweyo kunye nezimelabizo ezikhethiweyo kunciphisa umngcipheko wokudakumba kunye nokuzibulala. Inyaniso, izifundo zibonisile ukuba abantu abancinci abakhulileyo abakwazi ukusebenzisa amagama abo abakhethiweyo kunye nezimelabizo babenokunciphisa i-71% yokudakumba, ukuhla kwe-34% kwiingcamango zokuzibulala kunye ne-65% yehla kwimizamo yokuzibulala.
Nokuba bakwazi ukusebenzisa igama labo elikhethiweyo kwi kuphela Nye umxholo yayanyaniswa nokunciphisa i-29% kwiingcamango zokuzibulala.
Uhlengahlengiso olulula kulwimi lunokwenza umahluko omkhulu.
Ulwimi oluqukayo nentlonelo lusindisa ubomi ngokoqobo. Ulwimi olubandakanyayo kunye nesenzo esibandakanyayo sixhasa zonke izigulane.
Kwaye khumbula: Ukubandakanywa kwazo zonke akubandakanywanga nanye.
Ukuqukwa kuthetha ukuba usenakho ukuchonga njengowasetyhini okanye umama , okanye njengendoda okanye utata .
Ukuqukana akusongelo kuwe, kodwa ukungabandakanywa kunokubeka ubomi emngciphekweni komnye umntu.
Ukuba ufumene eli nqaku liluncedo, funda malunga nesithathu iintsomi ezinobungozi zempilo yesondo ezenza imijikelo kwiTikTok .
