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Ukuba ufunda le, uSuku lobuhlobo olonwabileyo kuwe!
Ubuhlobo, ukuqala kwenkumbulo yobomi. Kukuzalwa kwabahlobo abaza kuhamba kwindlela yamahla usenyuka. Ngelixa uhambo luqhubeka, iinkumbulo, ukubopha, ukucaca kokuhlekisa, ukubukeka okuhlekisayo, amagxa okulila kunye neminwe yokubamba, iza emfanekisweni. Ukuba ayingabo abahlobo ngubani oya kukukhathalela ngamaxesha oswele, ngubani onokukucenga ukuba ubengcono kwaye ngubani onokukutsalela umnxeba ngo-3 ekuseni ndimxelele nje ukuba akoyiki kwaye ufuna ukuthetha.
Ubuhlobo buye bavela okokoko kwaqala impucuko yoluntu kwaye sikubudala beencoko ze-smartphone kunye nee-selfie. Sabelana ngezikrini kunye neememes. Sithetha ngeelwimi zekhowudi, ngeendlela zokubonisa kwaye siyabazi ubunzima obuza phakathi kwabahlobo. Ubuhlobo buye baba ngumgaqo wokuba neenkumbulo ezilungileyo zomntu ngamnye kuthi. Siveza imisebenzi emininzi kwaye le misebenzi iveza iinkumbulo phakathi kwethu.
Makhe sithethe ngolonwabo oluza ngohlobo lwabahlobo.
Ngaba wakha wanika ingcinga malunga nobani esibabiza ngokuba ngabahlobo?
Ukuyinika ingcinga ithi ubunzulu bokunqwenela kwakho umhlobo kwaye uthembeke, indlela ohlangana ngayo nomnye umntu bubuhlobo obusoloko ubufuna. Ubume babo bunokwahluka kakhulu kobo bakho kodwa indlela yokuhlangana kunye yeyona ndlela ingcono yobuhlobo kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo omnye komnye sithetha kakhulu ngobuhlobo wena kunye nomhlobo wakho owabelanayo.
Umhlobo ayinguye lowo eza kuphela eswele kodwa yena uhamba indlela ecaleni kwakho, kude kube sekupheleni kwendlela. Iinkumbulo eziphakathi luhambo lobuhlobo. Iindlela ezonwabileyo okanye ezibuhlungu, ukuphambuka okanye indlela ethe tye, phakathi kokuma kunye nobuhle bemvelo ngelixa uhamba kunye bubuhlobo sonke esibufunayo. Kum, ubuhlobo kukudibana phakathi kwabantu ababini okanye nangaphezulu. Konke malunga nendlela umntu asondela ngayo komnye umphefumlo utyhila kwinani leentsuku kunye neminyaka yokuba uchukumisekile rhoqo kwaye uyinkqubo yenkxaso rhoqo.
Bhiyozela uSuku lobuhlobo kunye neenkumbulo
Asifuni imini yokubhiyozela ubuhlobo. Yinkqubo yemihla ngemihla. Kodwa ngalo mhla sabelana ngeenkumbulo zobuhlobo ukusukela kunyaka obuyileyo. Sibhiyozela inkqubo yokukhula kunye kubuhlobo. Olu suku luphawula iinkumbulo ezimnandi kunye nezo zilusizi zonyaka omnye kunye nezicwangciso zokuqhubeka kunyaka olandelayo. Masibhiyozele olu suku lobuhlobo lubuyisela umva kwaye sidlala ezingqondweni zethu, iinkumbulo esizenzileyo kunyaka ophelileyo.
Wenze ntoni Olu suku lobuhlobo?
Ukukucacisa oku, ndiza kubabeka kumanqaku. Singenza izinto ezincinci ukwenza iinkumbulo zixabise.
1. Bafowunele
Into yokuqala yokuqala, tsalela abahlobo bakho kwaye ubanqwenele. Eyona ndlela ifihlakeleyo yokuxabisa. Baxelele ngendlela onomqolo ngayo kunye nendlela abanayo ngayo. Babuze malunga nesicwangciso sosuku. Ukuba wena nabahlobo bakho ninokucwangcisa ukuhlangana, kulungile, krelekrele!
2. Khangela kwiiNkumbulo
Ngoku ngoku siphila kwiminyaka yeefowuni, njani malunga nokujonga kwethu kwinkumbulo kwaye sikhumbule iintsuku zomanyano. Umda wexesha usikhumbuza indlela esiguquke ngayo. Yintoni engcono onokuyenza? Ungayakha ibhodi yamabali ukuyibonisa kubahlobo bakho.
3. Cwangcisa uhambo
Njani ngokucwangcisa uhambo kunye? Kuvakala kamnandi ezindlebeni. Zixabise iinkumbulo zakho kwaye wenze ezintsha kwaye yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuzisa ubuhlobo bakho emfanekisweni. Abahlobo abahamba kunye zezona zilungileyo kubahlobo. Ukuhamba kubalulekile kwaye sonke siyayazi. Ukuba ngabahlobo yinto yokudibana.
4. Yabelana ngengcinga
Ukuzisa ingcinga etafileni kunye nokwenza abahlobo bakho bazive bhetele yindlela yokuphuma wena nabahlobo bakho. Iingcinga zigcine ubuhlobo buhleli. Ukwabelana ngengcinga efanayo kunye nokusebenza kuyo yindlela entle yokwenza iinkumbulo ezintsha zonyaka ozayo.
Ukuba ukuthandile ukufunda inqaku, yabelana ngalo ngexesha lakho. Thega abahlobo bakho, ubenze bonwabe bebonisa ukuba bathetha ntoni kuwe kwaye ubaxabise kangakanani.
Usuku oluhle lobuhlobo!
Masinwabe!